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Leone Family

I may have a crush on a co-worker... Not really sure what to do about this

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Finn 7 five 11

Haha yeah some massive overthinking going on.

 

Just straight up ask her if she wants to catch up after work. If she says yes, say ok cool I'm thinking of getting something to eat, wanna join? 

 

Not really a big deal at all. Could be totally innocent. 

 

People saying don't sh*t where you eat, it's a basic kind of job, turnover is high, you probably won't work there forever and she won't either. I used to be worried about this too, but nah. Be an adult about it, no problems.

 

Cashier jobs are known for hooking up anyway haha.

 

When you're an adult it can be pretty tough to meet girls, work is the perfect place, lots of time to get to know each other, and you have a reason to be talking. 

 

Source - Dated a couple girls from work casually.

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Leone Family

Thanks everyone, so here's what happened.

 

I go to the lumber yard Monday. She was there, and we spoke for a while. Then I asked her out to go to the "Terrasses urbaines" which is an event where they close off streets downtown and they set up all sorts of cafes, bars, artists playing, e.t.c. I asked her straight up if she wants to go there tonight and she looked kinda surprised, then said "well yeah sure I'm going there with Frede" (a female colleague). Then a lumber yard employee interrupted us about some sh*t I don't remember, so after that it was super akward between me and her so I told her "well let me know if you'd like me to join you tonight" and she replied "okay". After leaving I realised that I made a mistake by saying "let me know if" because I should have just said "I will let you know", so that night I texted her myself. I think nature really didn't want me to have a date with this girl because just a few minutes later it started raining like hell and there was thunderstorm literally downtown where the "Terrasses urbaines" were, I sh*t YOU NOT. So I texted her again and said "well I guess you won't be there tonight due to the weather" and she replied "yes indeed hahaha".

 

To recap, it didn't go well, and it didn't go bad either. Nothing's changed. I'll have to find a new opportunity to ask her on a date.

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Finn 7 five 11
19 minutes ago, Leone Family said:

Thanks everyone, so here's what happened.

 

I go to the lumber yard Monday. She was there, and we spoke for a while. Then I asked her out to go to the "Terrasses urbaines" which is an event where they close off streets downtown and they set up all sorts of cafes, bars, artists playing, e.t.c. I asked her straight up if she wants to go there tonight and she looked kinda surprised, then said "well yeah sure I'm going there with Frede" (a female colleague). Then a lumber yard employee interrupted us about some sh*t I don't remember, so after that it was super akward between me and her so I told her "well let me know if you'd like me to join you tonight" and she replied "okay". After leaving I realised that I made a mistake by saying "let me know if" because I should have just said "I will let you know", so that night I texted her myself. I think nature really didn't want me to have a date with this girl because just a few minutes later it started raining like hell and there was thunderstorm literally downtown where the "Terrasses urbaines" were, I sh*t YOU NOT. So I texted her again and said "well I guess you won't be there tonight due to the weather" and she replied "yes indeed hahaha".

 

To recap, it didn't go well, and it didn't go bad either. Nothing's changed. I'll have to find a new opportunity to ask her on a date.

Haha see, wasn't so bad. Good job man.
If you don't want too much pressure you can always invite a couple co-workers.

Good luck, I think you know now what to do!

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Reameb

Central, 10 - 15 in progress, we have a code 6 bruh moment. 10 - 52 on Ligma Blvd.

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Zello

I don't wanna date my co workers I want to f*ck them.

 

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CanadianMuscle
11 minutes ago, Zello said:

I don't wanna date my co workers I want to f*ck them.

Make sure it's very discreet, k?

 

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Lioshenka

Dude, it's absolutely normal. I'm going to let you in on how it is likely to develop in 80% of cases:

- You meet her

- You instantly like her

- You do stupid stuff to impress and keep her

- She turns out to be completely unbearable / stupid / white supremacist / cat torturer / liberal

- You regret all your life decisions, but by this point you already have a kid with her and a joint mortgage

 

In other words it's completely normal to fall in love with someone from first sight. Nothing you can do about this. And regardless what we told you here you will do everything your way, because that's just how it is when you are 20 and in love.

 

Just remember that the best case scenario is you grow old together, but the most likely one is that you will fall out on something obvious which you haven't discussed yet, and you will feel like a right arse. And Facebook will remind you every year of all the stupid stuff you did while you were in love.

 

My advise? Chill the hell out, if you are still feeling the same way about her in 6 months - go for it.

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