theblackswan Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 (edited) For example I have no motivation to get a girlfriend or date girls even if I really want one and it is probably the only thing that could make me happier than I am now. I just can't be arsed to deal with the everyday drama. My last girlfriend was a pain in the ass, she f*cked me over all day, she had mood changes and I got hurt because she told me we can't work out a relationship (she admitted she was f*cked up). I am pretty straight forward thinking and I see I am not compatible with girls mentality in this aspect. Not only this, but many others (I am direct, honest, I say what I have in mind, I don't want bullsh*t talking, I know girls want sex as much as men so why all those fake words to build up attraction?). Also, I can't find motivation to study even if my grades are kind of sh*t (I've been through that and I dealt well with it), I want to eat properly but I give up after three or four days of dieting, I want to go to gym but I can't be arsed to put much effort in it. If I don't see results quickly, I give up. I am not depressed at the moment. I was depressed for years until I got some sh*t sorted in my life (built a social circle and we were doing lots of things that made me happy and forgot about depression), I just believe I am extremely lazy but I can't fight it. Edited December 17, 2015 by theblackswan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andreaz1 Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 (edited) I just believe I am extremely lazy but I can't fight it.If that's the case then get off your ass and just f*cking do it. Really. If you need motivation, think of the day when your bad grades will come back and bite you in the ass. Sounds harsh but that's just the way it is. Edited December 17, 2015 by Andreaz1 dudclub55, Onett and mr quick 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottie Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 I have no motivation for certain things because I just dont have time for it I just believe I am extremely lazy but I can't fight it. If that's the case then get off your ass and just f*cking do it. Really. If you need motivation, think of the day when your bad grades will come back and bite you in the ass. Sounds harsh but that's just the way it is. basically this. The toughest part is to just start doing whatever it is you need to get done. And yes, those bad grades will end up screwing you over in the long run OP so crack open the books Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodyparts Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 Reward yourself, man! If you need to go for a run, then run to the nearest 7/11 and buy you some sweet blueberry muffins. Get more cheese than Doritos, Cheetos or Fritos - MF DOOM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gooeyhole Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 I have confidence in my abilities so when I want to do something I just...do it. I don't try to do things, I do them, or I do not do them. I was never good in school (I decided to do construction work) so I can't really help there. One thing to remember about getting girls is that they are attracted to success. If you're looking your best, doing your best, girls will come to you naturally. Star-Lord, Payne Killer and Sentinel Driver 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sammystarock Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 (edited) One thing to remember about getting girls is that they are attracted to success. If you're looking your best, doing your best, girls will come to you naturally. F*ck this, just go to a brothel. Edited December 18, 2015 by sammystarock The Dedito Gae, K1FFLOM and gooeyhole 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dedito Gae Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 (edited) I imagine R Lee Ermey shouting me to get off my ass and move. Edited December 18, 2015 by Midnight Hitman gooeyhole and Payne Killer 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gooeyhole Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 I imagine R Lee Ermey shouting me to get off my ass and move. i think of shane laboof telling me to do it Menstrual Deranged, Payne Killer and The Dedito Gae 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sombra Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 Payne Killer and gooeyhole 2 join the 11% Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theblackswan Posted December 18, 2015 Author Share Posted December 18, 2015 Is that ice? Gentlebreeze 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sammystarock Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 (edited) Is that ice?Yes - JUST DO IT! Edited December 18, 2015 by sammystarock Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sombra Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 Is that ice? yeah..ice DarkSavageDeathlyCloud, Payne Killer, Flachbau and 3 others 6 join the 11% Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShadowPerson Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 white is the answer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr quick Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 For example I have no motivation to get a girlfriend or date girls even if I really want one and it is probably the only thing that could make me happier than I am now. I just can't be arsed to deal with the everyday drama. My last girlfriend was a pain in the ass, she f*cked me over all day, she had mood changes and I got hurt because she told me we can't work out a relationship (she admitted she was f*cked up). I am pretty straight forward thinking and I see I am not compatible with girls mentality in this aspect. Not only this, but many others (I am direct, honest, I say what I have in mind, I don't want bullsh*t talking, I know girls want sex as much as men so why all those fake words to build up attraction?). Wow, this is pretty stupid. ... "get" a girlfriend? As if they're all aching to date you? ... The "only" thing that could make you happier? Not good, posting an impossible ultimatum(he he that's a jab) ... your bad experience with one girl does not speak for all people of the same gender. ... not all girls think the same way, the same way not all men do. All people think differently. There is no set of rules of thinking to which each gender must conform. ... really, stop with the generalizations and assumptions. Andreaz1 and Payne Killer 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolly Swagman Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 (edited) That's only if need motivation to scratch alll the invisible insects crawling up your arms off then masturbate for twelve hours Edited December 18, 2015 by Jolly Swagman Shaundi., Crossed, Payne Killer and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
9i OTD Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 I pretend there's an insect in my sphincter that will only go away if I do the thing I couldn't be motivated to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freakorama Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 The Dedito Gae 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Star-Lord Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do. - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mac Tonight Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 For example I have no motivation to get a girlfriend or date girls even if I really want one and it is probably the only thing that could make me happier than I am now. I just can't be arsed to deal with the everyday drama. My last girlfriend was a pain in the ass, she f*cked me over all day, she had mood changes and I got hurt because she told me we can't work out a relationship (she admitted she was f*cked up). I am pretty straight forward thinking and I see I am not compatible with girls mentality in this aspect. Not only this, but many others (I am direct, honest, I say what I have in mind, I don't want bullsh*t talking, I know girls want sex as much as men so why all those fake words to build up attraction?). Wow, this is pretty stupid. ... "get" a girlfriend? As if they're all aching to date you? ... The "only" thing that could make you happier? Not good, posting an impossible ultimatum(he he that's a jab) ... your bad experience with one girl does not speak for all people of the same gender. ... not all girls think the same way, the same way not all men do. All people think differently. There is no set of rules of thinking to which each gender must conform. ... really, stop with the generalizations and assumptions. I don't think taking a magnifying glass and picking apart every single little piece of his post and whining about it is going to help him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aqua97 Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Stargazing... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr quick Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 For example I have no motivation to get a girlfriend or date girls even if I really want one and it is probably the only thing that could make me happier than I am now. I just can't be arsed to deal with the everyday drama. My last girlfriend was a pain in the ass, she f*cked me over all day, she had mood changes and I got hurt because she told me we can't work out a relationship (she admitted she was f*cked up). I am pretty straight forward thinking and I see I am not compatible with girls mentality in this aspect. Not only this, but many others (I am direct, honest, I say what I have in mind, I don't want bullsh*t talking, I know girls want sex as much as men so why all those fake words to build up attraction?). Wow, this is pretty stupid. ... "get" a girlfriend? As if they're all aching to date you? ... The "only" thing that could make you happier? Not good, posting an impossible ultimatum(he he that's a jab) ... your bad experience with one girl does not speak for all people of the same gender. ... not all girls think the same way, the same way not all men do. All people think differently. There is no set of rules of thinking to which each gender must conform. ... really, stop with the generalizations and assumptions. I don't think taking a magnifying glass and picking apart every single little piece of his post and whining about it is going to help him. There was no magnification needed. Andreaz1, Payne Killer, Flachbau and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Masketta Man Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I think I've been a passive dummy for long enough that the little green men inside me telling me to f*ck and work for a living have all died off. This will someday be a good thing if I can prove to the government that I'm as incapable as I feel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuackinAColdOne Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I'm mad at myself. I go to all team functions and workouts that I know can make me better, I don't do enough things in my own time that could make it better. I'll watch an inspirational video, then say "it's pretty late right now and I don't want to wake anybody up, I'll do it tomorrow" and I never end up doing it. I have big dreams to make it into Junior hockey, then the NCAA but I'll get nowhere if I don't start doing things in my own time like speed and explosiveness training. I need help, how do I get motivation on the spot? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthLand Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 For example I have no motivation to get a girlfriend or date girls even if I really want one and it is probably the only thing that could make me happier than I am now. I just can't be arsed to deal with the everyday drama. My last girlfriend was a pain in the ass, she f*cked me over all day, she had mood changes and I got hurt because she told me we can't work out a relationship (she admitted she was f*cked up). I am pretty straight forward thinking and I see I am not compatible with girls mentality in this aspect. Not only this, but many others (I am direct, honest, I say what I have in mind, I don't want bullsh*t talking, I know girls want sex as much as men so why all those fake words to build up attraction?). Also, I can't find motivation to study even if my grades are kind of sh*t (I've been through that and I dealt well with it), I want to eat properly but I give up after three or four days of dieting, I want to go to gym but I can't be arsed to put much effort in it. If I don't see results quickly, I give up. I am not depressed at the moment. I was depressed for years until I got some sh*t sorted in my life (built a social circle and we were doing lots of things that made me happy and forgot about depression), I just believe I am extremely lazy but I can't fight it. Where are you from? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Malevolent Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 For example I have no motivation to get a girlfriend or date girls even if I really want one and it is probably the only thing that could make me happier than I am now. I just can't be arsed to deal with the everyday drama. My last girlfriend was a pain in the ass, she f*cked me over all day, she had mood changes and I got hurt because she told me we can't work out a relationship (she admitted she was f*cked up). I am pretty straight forward thinking and I see I am not compatible with girls mentality in this aspect. Not only this, but many others (I am direct, honest, I say what I have in mind, I don't want bullsh*t talking, I know girls want sex as much as men so why all those fake words to build up attraction?). Also, I can't find motivation to study even if my grades are kind of sh*t (I've been through that and I dealt well with it), I want to eat properly but I give up after three or four days of dieting, I want to go to gym but I can't be arsed to put much effort in it. If I don't see results quickly, I give up. I am not depressed at the moment. I was depressed for years until I got some sh*t sorted in my life (built a social circle and we were doing lots of things that made me happy and forgot about depression), I just believe I am extremely lazy but I can't fight it. Procrastination is a close ally of mine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theblackswan Posted December 23, 2015 Author Share Posted December 23, 2015 For example I have no motivation to get a girlfriend or date girls even if I really want one and it is probably the only thing that could make me happier than I am now. I just can't be arsed to deal with the everyday drama. My last girlfriend was a pain in the ass, she f*cked me over all day, she had mood changes and I got hurt because she told me we can't work out a relationship (she admitted she was f*cked up). I am pretty straight forward thinking and I see I am not compatible with girls mentality in this aspect. Not only this, but many others (I am direct, honest, I say what I have in mind, I don't want bullsh*t talking, I know girls want sex as much as men so why all those fake words to build up attraction?). Also, I can't find motivation to study even if my grades are kind of sh*t (I've been through that and I dealt well with it), I want to eat properly but I give up after three or four days of dieting, I want to go to gym but I can't be arsed to put much effort in it. If I don't see results quickly, I give up. I am not depressed at the moment. I was depressed for years until I got some sh*t sorted in my life (built a social circle and we were doing lots of things that made me happy and forgot about depression), I just believe I am extremely lazy but I can't fight it. Where are you from? Romania. For example I have no motivation to get a girlfriend or date girls even if I really want one and it is probably the only thing that could make me happier than I am now. I just can't be arsed to deal with the everyday drama. My last girlfriend was a pain in the ass, she f*cked me over all day, she had mood changes and I got hurt because she told me we can't work out a relationship (she admitted she was f*cked up). I am pretty straight forward thinking and I see I am not compatible with girls mentality in this aspect. Not only this, but many others (I am direct, honest, I say what I have in mind, I don't want bullsh*t talking, I know girls want sex as much as men so why all those fake words to build up attraction?). Also, I can't find motivation to study even if my grades are kind of sh*t (I've been through that and I dealt well with it), I want to eat properly but I give up after three or four days of dieting, I want to go to gym but I can't be arsed to put much effort in it. If I don't see results quickly, I give up. I am not depressed at the moment. I was depressed for years until I got some sh*t sorted in my life (built a social circle and we were doing lots of things that made me happy and forgot about depression), I just believe I am extremely lazy but I can't fight it. Procrastination is a close ally of mine. Yeah don't even tell me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Onett Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 For the truly epic lulz. Seriously? I guess because most of time it's fun. Well, except for school. Really, I just want to get good GCSE grades so I can get into college and have an experience in education that doesn't totally suck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
018361 Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 If it's a laziness thing I believe that something has to click inside you one day where you just get fed up with your own rhetoric of " I will do it tomorrow " and such sayings. Sadly, the only way to really get yourself to do something is to just make a routine of doing it and getting used to doing it. That's really the only advice I can give you. Your just gonna have to push yourself to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Affalterbach Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 I'm mad at myself. I go to all team functions and workouts that I know can make me better, I don't do enough things in my own time that could make it better. I'll watch an inspirational video, then say "it's pretty late right now and I don't want to wake anybody up, I'll do it tomorrow" and I never end up doing it. I have big dreams to make it into Junior hockey, then the NCAA but I'll get nowhere if I don't start doing things in my own time like speed and explosiveness training. I need help, how do I get motivation on the spot? Get off your lazy f*cking ass! Just think about the things you can achieve when you get better. Where you can be, where you can play. How good you can be if you push yourself. Or just watch another inspirational video when its not late, watch it, start training. If you have big dreams then go for it. I know you love hockey so you should go for it man. I for one get motivation sometimes from certain songs I like wich mean someting to me. QuackinAColdOne 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QuackinAColdOne Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 I'm mad at myself. I go to all team functions and workouts that I know can make me better, I don't do enough things in my own time that could make it better. I'll watch an inspirational video, then say "it's pretty late right now and I don't want to wake anybody up, I'll do it tomorrow" and I never end up doing it. I have big dreams to make it into Junior hockey, then the NCAA but I'll get nowhere if I don't start doing things in my own time like speed and explosiveness training. I need help, how do I get motivation on the spot? Get off your lazy f*cking ass! Just think about the things you can achieve when you get better. Where you can be, where you can play. How good you can be if you push yourself. Or just watch another inspirational video when its not late, watch it, start training. If you have big dreams then go for it. I know you love hockey so you should go for it man. I for one get motivation sometimes from certain songs I like wich mean someting to me. Thanks man, I'll follow your advice. Affalterbach 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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