Ai®a©ob®a Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 yea that's what I've decided to do, tomorrow i plan on telling her or writing a note while shes at work saying I'm moving out. Or i may just take my child from daycare without telling sarah, and go to my parents house. Either way I'm in for crap by sarah. If you do that you better run to Mexico because you're ass will be going to jail for Kidnapping and Parental Interference ThisDont go off being more stupid So I'd be more safe just writing a note and leaving? What if she won't let me see sarah again? Plus what will i tell chelsea? I don't want to lose "doing it" with her. I enjoy chelsea company alot, but she probably isn't right for me. She dates a skinhead and I. Don't want to get my ass kicked lowering My self esteen anymore. Oh and sorry to not be more descriptive, but i take online courses sorry You lay down with the dogs, You're gonna wind up with fleas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 yea that's what I've decided to do, tomorrow i plan on telling her or writing a note while shes at work saying I'm moving out. Or i may just take my child from daycare without telling sarah, and go to my parents house. Either way I'm in for crap by sarah. If you do that you better run to Mexico because you're ass will be going to jail for Kidnapping and Parental Interference ThisDont go off being more stupid So I'd be more safe just writing a note and leaving? What if she won't let me see sarah again? Plus what will i tell chelsea? I don't want to lose "doing it" with her. I enjoy chelsea company alot, but she probably isn't right for me. She dates a skinhead and I. Don't want to get my ass kicked lowering My self esteen anymore. Oh and sorry to not be more descriptive, but i take online courses sorry You lay down with the dogs, You're gonna wind up with fleas what's that suppose to mean? I'm bound to fail? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ai®a©ob®a Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 You lay down with the dogs, You're gonna wind up with fleas what's that suppose to mean? I'm bound to fail? be cautious of the company you keep Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) You lay down with the dogs, You're gonna wind up with fleas what's that suppose to mean? I'm bound to fail?be cautious of the company you keep What do You mean? The people i surround myself around? Because if so chelsea is a nice girl. I'm just afraid of her skinhead BF. I'll be fine if me and him ever got in a altercation (which we won't ) I'd just back away and handle myself accordingly. I plan to see Chelsea tomorrow before i leave to my parents house. I hate leaving esther but i have to do what's right and keep my distance. She deserves a better father. Sorry if i can't respond as soon as you guys post aswell. I'm currently packing before crazy gets home. Thnx for all the support and kind words It really cheered me up Edited July 12, 2015 by TeamAssist Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ai®a©ob®a Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 So I'd be more safe just writing a note and leaving? What if she won't let me see sarah again? I hate leaving sarah but i have to do what's right and keep my distance. She deserves a better father. Why do you keep refering to your daughter as "Sarah" Did you already forget your story or what? Like Ryan said i think you're full of sh*t and just doing this to troll Slam_Jones, epoxi, Chloroform and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) So I'd be more safe just writing a note and leaving? What if she won't let me see sarah again? I hate leaving sarah but i have to do what's right and keep my distance. She deserves a better father. Why do you keep refering to your daughter as "Sarah" Did you already forget your story or what? Like Ryan said i think you're full of sh*t and just doing this to troll if you do that's fine, it's quicker to type that way rather than say my daughter. I'm trying to pack. I'm not here to troll. If you think i am I'm sorry but that's not the case i meant to put Esther, sorry for the misunderstanding. I'm trying to pack and I'm typing on mobile very fast. Edited July 12, 2015 by TeamAssist Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 Thanks everyone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 Hi everyone my name is Due, i haven't had a proper introduction to the forum yet. So this is the post I'd make about my life. It's pretty crazy. I am a 21year old male with a daughter named esther, and a girlfriend named Sarah. I am currently in college going to be a mechanic. I've been going through some tough times and haven't had enough strength to bare it all in. About three months ago (may) i started having an affair with my coworker. Her name is chelsea. I currently work at burger king full time. This affair has been going on till now. And i feel guilty but my gf is a fat slob and she abuses me mentally and physically. Me, my gf, and my child all live in this tiny apartment. Now here's were things get weird, my gf sarah hit ME IN THE HEAD with a bear bottle last night. She says I focus on irrelevant things and still act like a teenager. She says i am a bad daddy and she threatened to take me for child support and leave me, she currently works at a office and pays all the bills while i buy food,items, and clothes for my child. Me and sarah were high-school sweethearts but now i despise the girl. I got her pregnant when I didn't put a coat on my farmer back in 11th grade. She was hot/ok then but now she lost all her appeal and has gained massive weight. Back in HS she was SMOKING, but now she just... isn't attractive anymore. I didn't really see her personality until after i got her pregnant. I didn't really care about her personality back in HS tbh. I just wanted her to be my girl. I feel like my life is falling into pieces and i don't know what to do. I feel as if i want to cry but my mother tells me to be strong for my daughter. I'm thinking about putting my child for adoption if i just continue to breakdown. Oh i thought this was general section First of all, you shouldn't have shared the name of your daughter or GF. Second of all, no amount of sh*t you get from an SO justifies cheating. Ever. What you tell us about your GF are excuses, not reasons. If you weren't satisfied with the relationship, you should've ended it, or communicated more. The very generalized picture here is that both of you have a lot of growing up to do. You act like a teenager and she beats you over the head with beer bottles. There's no sympathy to felt here, only pity. And pity I do feel. Not cold pity, just pity proper. I wish more young people, who still have so much of their lives to live, would see their way to a better present and future. If you can't make things work with your GF (either by counseling or other means), focus on supporting your daughter with your current job while continuing to put yourself through school and don't ever look down or back. f*ck adoption. Adoption is for unwanted births, not unwanted four-year-olds. You will f*ck your child up so bad if you quit on her now. All other distractions are a waste, and if you can't stop a sh*tty relationship from staying sh*tty, end it yesterday, but work with your daughter's mother to ensure your daughter is raised well. The thing is though, I'm just going to move in with my parents than go pickup esther sometimes once i can afford it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 The thing is though, I'm just going to move in with my parents than go pickup esther sometimes once i can afford it. Then do that if you must, but put adoption out of your head completely and for good. As an aside, that would take your GF's consent, as well, and it aint gonna happen. I'll try talking to my gf tonight actually, wish me luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
American Viking Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Man the f*ck up and stop letting your gf push you around. Put her in her place, and tell her to lose some damn weight and remind her why you were attracted to her in the first place. Also, stop cheating on you gf. If she is that bad and you don't got the balls to shape her up, than ship her out. All you can do is provide for you child the best you can but do not put it up for adoption. It is your responsibility. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UshaB Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 This is what I watch before I fight. It helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ai®a©ob®a Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Man the f*ck up and stop letting your gf push you around. Put her in her place, and tell her to lose some damn weight and remind her why you were attracted to her in the first place. Also, stop cheating on you gf. If she is that bad and you don't got the balls to shape her up, than ship her out. Uhh yeah i wouldn't take advice from this wanna be tough guy... & Alpha quit pretending you're all Hard and an Alpha nobody here buying it. The Dedito Gae, Slam_Jones, Mintal and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Not A Nice Person Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Just so i can embarrass her. She broke me and abused me, so this could be payback so all her friends could see how she really is Are you f*cking kidding me She should be the one embarrassing your broke ass, you impregnated her, made her "unattractive", while she's doing her thing in an office job while you flip burgers play video games and go nutting in another woman. Go ahead and do that, you'll make yourself look like a selfish idiot. Sorry for being harsh. Rented, Gnocchi Flip Flops, Chloroform and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dedito Gae Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) Man the f*ck up and stop letting your gf push you around. Put her in her place, and tell her to lose some damn weight .... you don't got the balls to shape her up, than ship her out.Yeahh Arnold, it doesn't work like that on real life, you don't force people to lose weight or shape up, it takes hard work and patience, not being a hardass like you. Nor that OP sounds like an excuse of a man after reading his posts. OP, thing is, you still are worried by trivial sh*t, by PS memberships, smoking, blast rock, you were given the option to move back with your parents but you don't want to because it will interfere with YOUR lifestyle, you are even willing to give your daughter in adoption. I wish your baby the best. Edited July 12, 2015 by Midnight Hitman Gnocchi Flip Flops, Mintal, epoxi and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 Hi everyone my girlfriend just left for her office job. I'll sum up all that transpired last night. I told her i wanted to talk about all these problems before it gets out of hand. She ends up agreeing after being stubborn and saying there's nothing to talk about. We are talking and she tells me I'm useless, i don't bring in enough money, etc etc. And i told her I've been trying my best but she flips the f*ck out. So i tell her I'll be leaving today and she ends up getting angrier. And told me she'll be happy if i leave today. She ends up yelling and screaming calling me out of my name in so many ways. It made me cry right there in front of her. So in about three hours I'm going to see Chelsea and get a ride to my parents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ezza. Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 ^ What about your kid? Are you just gonna abandon her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ai®a©ob®a Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 ^ What about your kid? Are you just gonna abandon her? I'd rather him get out of that situation as it's no good/healthy for the child and when he gets settled he can arrange with the mother to see her. OT: Just because you moved out don't think you can shrink on your responsibilities as a father you still need to give the mother money every week to help care for your daughter. Ezza. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Murdick Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 The thing is though, I'm just going to move in with my parents than go pickup esther sometimes once i can afford it. Then do that if you must, but put adoption out of your head completely and for good. As an aside, that would take your GF's consent, as well, and it aint gonna happen. I'll try talking to my gf tonight actually, wish me lucklol, you need a towel for behind your ears, not luck. What's a bear bottle? Kinda want one tbh.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 ^ What about your kid? Are you just gonna abandon her? I'd rather him get out of that situation as it's no good/healthy for the child and when he gets settled he can arrange with the mother to see her. OT: Just because you moved out don't think you can shrink on your responsibilities as a father you still need to give the mother money every week to help care for your daughter. I'll try to do something like that after i get settled with my parents, i don't have enough money at this point. I'll start sending it Maybe in a few weeks, maybe around september or mid august. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epoxi Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) If there's one indisputable piece of advice to give: stop having an affair with Chelsea. Fair enough you made the mistake of irresponsibly having sex which got you into this situation in the first place, but you are proving that you have learned nothing and you are putting your own selfish want of getting your dick wet ahead of all of your other urgent priorities. You say your baby mother disrespects you, but your actions only make her attitude justified. Playtime is over, you have absolutely no excuse to have an affair because any time you spend cheating on Sarah could be spent providing for your child: whether that means working overtime at Burger King or furthering your studies. At least clean up this mess before you go creating new ones. From your testimony, it sounds like you have no right to put your daughter up for adoption: Sarah has the means to care for the child herself and if the only way to get you to focus an appropriate amount of resources on your child is being hit with child support, so be it. Edited July 12, 2015 by epoxi Slam_Jones, Kirsty and The Dedito Gae 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
American Viking Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Man the f*ck up and stop letting your gf push you around. Put her in her place, and tell her to lose some damn weight and remind her why you were attracted to her in the first place. Also, stop cheating on you gf. If she is that bad and you don't got the balls to shape her up, than ship her out. Uhh yeah i wouldn't take advice from this wanna be tough guy... & Alpha quit pretending you're all Hard and an Alpha nobody here buying it. Accusing a person of being a wannabe tough guy, a person you have never met and know not a thing about. Not only is that extremely ignorant, it is unnecessary. Quit your trolling. Sasuke Uzumaki 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gnocchi Flip Flops Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Man the f*ck up and stop letting your gf push you around. Put her in her place, and tell her to lose some damn weight and remind her why you were attracted to her in the first place. Also, stop cheating on you gf. If she is that bad and you don't got the balls to shape her up, than ship her out. Uhh yeah i wouldn't take advice from this wanna be tough guy... & Alpha quit pretending you're all Hard and an Alpha nobody here buying it. Accusing a person of being a wannabe tough guy, a person you have never met and know not a thing about. Not only is that extremely ignorant, it is unnecessary. Quit your trolling. I wouldn't take advice from someone like you either. Not after that whole same sex fiasco. The Dedito Gae, Slam_Jones, Mintal and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
American Viking Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Man the f*ck up and stop letting your gf push you around. Put her in her place, and tell her to lose some damn weight .... you don't got the balls to shape her up, than ship her out. Yeahh Arnold, it doesn't work like that on real life, you don't force people to lose weight or shape up, it takes hard work and patience, not being a hardass like you. Nor that OP sounds like an excuse of a man after reading his posts. OP, thing is, you still are worried by trivial sh*t, by PS memberships, smoking, blast rock, you were given the option to move back with your parents but you don't want to because it will interfere with YOUR lifestyle, you are even willing to give your daughter in adoption. I wish your baby the best. Actually, it does work like that. Yes it takes hard work and patience, but if you don't stay on a person's ass they will get complacent if working out isn't something they like to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 If there's one indisputable piece of advice to give: stop having an affair with Chelsea. Fair enough you made the mistake of irresponsibly having sex which got you into this situation in the first place, but you are proving that you have learned nothing and you are putting your own selfish want of getting your dick wet ahead of all of your other urgent priorities. You say your baby mother disrespects you, but your actions only make her attitude justified. Playtime is over, you have absolutely no excuse to have an affair because any time you spend cheating on Sarah could be spent providing for your child: whether that means working overtime at Burger King or furthering your studies. At least clean up this mess before you go creating new ones. From your testimony, it sounds like you have no right to put your daughter up for adoption: Sarah has the means to care for the child herself and if the only way to get you to focus an appropriate amount of resources on your child is being hit with child support, so be it. Yea I'll be done with Chelsea today, and I'll just be moving in with my parents. Until i can get back on my feet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dedito Gae Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Actually, it does work like that. Yes it takes hard work and patience, but if you don't stay on a person's ass they will get complacent if working out isn't something they like to do. The wife's weight is not the problem here, is just one of the many distractions of the real issue, not to mention the OP was only attracted to her because she was hot, not because of her personality. Gnocchi Flip Flops 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
make total destroy Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Actually, it does work like that. Yes it takes hard work and patience, but if you don't stay on a person's ass they will get complacent if working out isn't something they like to do. Yeah, you just tell people to be what you want them to be, and then they just do it because it's your universe, and they just live in it or w/e Sound advice m8 Clem Fandango, Shaundi., Zook and 6 others 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
American Viking Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Actually, it does work like that. Yes it takes hard work and patience, but if you don't stay on a person's ass they will get complacent if working out isn't something they like to do. Yeah, you just tell people to be what you want them to be, and then they just do it because it's your universe, and they just live in it or w/e Sound advice m8 I've never had a girlfriend not do what I told her to do. Don't attack me because you mofos are emasculated. It's not a wonder women walk all over chumps like you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Scratch Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) I can't tell who's a bigger waste of sperm, Alpha or the OP? Forget about your Playstation, do whatever it takes and take care of that kid, get another job if you have to. What exactly are you studying in college? Edited July 12, 2015 by Mr.Scratch Femme Fatale, sivispacem, Majestic81 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
make total destroy Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 I've never had a girlfriend. FTFY Fallcreek, Eram, Jolly Swagman and 16 others 19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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