Coin Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 Yeah uh, judging by the posts in this thread, I'm starting to think your GF might be on to something when she said you still act like a teenager. We're only getting half the story, if that. Not sure what you expect here. Static, Killzone3265, Chloroform and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 Yeah uh, judging by the posts in this thread, I'm starting to think your GF might be on to something when she said you still act like a teenager. We're only getting half the story, if that. Not sure what you expect here. Can you explain how i act like a teen? I can't see it:( It'd be much appreciated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dedito Gae Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) And that's why you should wear a comdom kids. Also, i already knew this topic woul be a sh*tfest of selfpity by reading the title. Edited July 11, 2015 by Midnight Hitman Payne Killer and Femme Fatale 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 And that's why you should wear a comdom kids. Also, i already knew this topic woul be a sh*tfest of selfpity by reading the title. Back when i was in 11th grade, not wearing a condom was new to me. It was my first time doing it. I was a kid who played online mostly so getting the hottest chick was a big deal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xInfamousRYANx Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 And this my friends is why morning after pills were invented Chloroform 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 And this my friends is why morning after pills were invented i didn't know about that and plan B in 11th grade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirsty Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 Why is it exactly you want to give your daughter up for a adoption again? Because Sarah is fat or because you can't afford PS+? I mean, in between studying for your college courses that you're failing and doing 40 hours of burger flipping a week, what happens to Esther while you're dicking Chelsea? An inconsistent tale that makes you look nothing more than a selfish idiot. You're going to be in big trouble if this is some thinly veiled attempt at trolling. SarahPilko, Rougarou, Pavle and 13 others 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Murdick Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 What's a bear bottle? Slam_Jones 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rented Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 The amount of childish people on this topic who try to make fun of this issue is disturbing, the rest seems to be quiet mean as well. While I do not understand your decisions either I am in no position to tell you what to do, but here is my advice; I see you're quiet active on this post right now which is quiet understandable, but you won't solve your problems by browsing the internet and trying to make excuses, so what you should do is have a long conversation with your girlfriend, after all it's your and her decision, you don't have to decide straight away, take your time and maybe ask your parents for advice, really they could be the people who could help you the most, I assume they had issues in their lives as well, the reason why I thought the Hodgetwins could help you is because they're old, they been through a lot, divorce, I think both of them had their first kids when they had really tough times. But anyway, like I said browsing the forums is not your solution and you will have to completely forget about your PlayStation, really I don't even think you should have time for that, if you do then shame on you, personally I think getting another job would be much fair for your kid then adoption, which I assume, since you have one now is your number one priority. But anyway, that's my advice, hope you won't make a decision you will regret. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xInfamousRYANx Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 I honestly cant buy the whole innocent "I didn't know about plan b condoms birth control ect" i believe all high schools have a requirement for a current life issues or sex ed class. Ours did and you had to take it 10th grade. And anyways, you really need to grow up. Throw out the PS4 for now you have bigger issues. If you only liked Sarah for looks that is childish. And i assume you only like this other girl for looks too. Stop the affair and try to fix your relationship. You made bad choices now fix them. And i agree your parents might be your best advisors and helpers atm. Gnocchi Flip Flops, Chloroform and Slam_Jones 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coin Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) Can you explain how i act like a teen? I can't see it:( It'd be much appreciated Kirsty summed it up well enough. The consistent barrage of excuses instead of owning up to what is, a situation seemingly entirely of your own making, doesn't really help things. Edited July 11, 2015 by ¥en Killzone3265 and Gnocchi Flip Flops 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eram Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 What's a bear bottle? SarahPilko, Ciaran, Shaundi. and 8 others 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
make total destroy Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 Assuming any of this is true--it isn't, but that's besides the point--OP needs to start wearing Jimmy Hats. I also heard Chelsea has the herp. RavingWithJesus, Femme Fatale, Shaundi. and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Killzone3265 Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Hold the phone. She says I focus on irrelevant things and still act like a teenager. She was hot/ok then but now she lost all her appeal and has gained massive weight. Back in HS she was SMOKING, but now she just... isn't attractive anymore. I didn't really see her personality until after i got her pregnant. I didn't really care about her personality back in HS tbh. I just wanted her to be my girl. All I'm reading is excuse after excuse. Time to grow up and act like an adult. So now another kid in the system because things are getting too hard. Kinda funny because no one in the history of troubled times has it worse then you op. So what if u DO keep this kid? I'll continue to fail my college courses.I'm trying not to make excuses, i know it's my fault I'm in this but still. I can't even afford ps plus because of this predicament. I try to play my system to ease the stress but i can't even do that. My gf is controlling and manipulative. ..Anyway Like others have said, stop dropping excuses. This alone makes you look childish. Now I understand wanting to play vidyagames as a stress reliever but with the situation you're in, worrying about that isn't something you want to waste time on. I'm trying to act my age but right now it's just too much, i love my daughter with all my heart but i am just mentally broken.I want her to be in a healthy environment that's why me and my gf may put her up for adoption. Or maybe my gf will give custody to her sister/her sisters fiance If you love your daughter as much as you say you do, then you need to own up and face the problems head on. First of all, you need to have a long talk with your abusive girlfriend. Not much more to say than that. Second... if you're into Chelsea the same way you were into Sarah, back in highschool, you need to drop that immediately. Skeever and epoxi 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chloroform Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 I honestly cant buy the whole innocent "I didn't know about plan b condoms birth control ect" i believe all high schools have a requirement for a current life issues or sex ed class. Ours did and you had to take it 10th grade. And anyways, you really need to grow up. Throw out the PS4 for now you have bigger issues. If you only liked Sarah for looks that is childish. And i assume you only like this other girl for looks too. Stop the affair and try to fix your relationship. You made bad choices now fix them. And i agree your parents might be your best advisors and helpers atm. 9th grade I was learning about sex ed. Op you're still making up excuses, no one can be this foolish and say they didn't know. I'm sorry but no one is buying it. You weren't responsible then and you're not now. This is such bullsh*t now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skeever Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 I think you ought to find that child a good home, end the affair, not worry about your PS+ membership of all things and, if your girlfriend is being physically abusive, break up with her, or at the very least, don't take the relationship any further with engagement or matrimony, as it's rather obvious that it's not going to work out. Just forget about getting into any more relationships and focus on your career. If you're forced to move back in with your parents (I'm guessing that will be the case, since you're working minimum-wage and your GF pays the bills), then be sure to help them out financially (you owe it to them for all the money they've lent you). No offense intended with the above advice, you just have to get your priorities straight, that's all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) Why is it exactly you want to give your daughter up for a adoption again? Because Sarah is fat or because you can't afford PS+? I mean, in between studying for your college courses that you're failing and doing 40 hours of burger flipping a week, what happens to Esther while you're dicking Chelsea? An inconsistent tale that makes you look nothing more than a selfish idiot. You're going to be in big trouble if this is some thinly veiled attempt at trolling. The reason i want to put my daughter up for adoption is because it's just too much. I can't afford her financially. My gf pays the bills, i just buy my daughters clothes / items. It's literally breaking me. One of the reasons i don't like sarah is because yes she's gained alot of weight since HS. I don't want to tell her because I'm literally afraid of her. And I'm trying to keep the drama on a low. And esther goes to a daycare while me and sarah work. Me and Chelsea have a complicated relationship. She's in one herself and it's pretty much friends with benefits. She knows i have a kid and a gf but doesn't really care. I feel guilty but it's a lose lose situation. I don't mean to come off as selfish. I am just trying to put out the truth. I will try and ask my parents if i can move in with them or something, but they live in a very sensitive community. Things like playing loud music, littering, smoking, etc etc isn't aloud. Which those are the things i do especially blasting rock. Edited July 12, 2015 by TeamAssist Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eram Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 -snip- Things like playing loud music, littering, smoking, etc etc isn't aloud. Which those are the things i do especially blasting rock. After being hit by that bear bottle, I kinda understand your spelling habitability being "damaged". Are you sure that you're in college? Might also be some side effect from that bottle. Killzone3265 and The Dedito Gae 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gnocchi Flip Flops Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) And that folks is the story of life. seriously this is a GTA Forum. take your personal problems elsewhere. A little rant here. We have a share your feelings thread, a grumpy old forumer's thread, a confessions thread, and so on. Not to mention that this is the General Chat section for off-topic discussions, f*cking obviously. Edited July 12, 2015 by Scaglietti Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rented Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Your GF pays the bills because you're playing video games. Anyway you're definitely something else, you want to leave your GF because she gained weight? Bitch you was the one who made her pregnant how do you think she carried that child? She would have to exercise if she wanted to loose the excess weight after child birth and WTF bro, you are something else, seriously I don't know what to say.... Your GF pays the bills because you're playing video games. Anyway you're definitely something else, you want to leave your GF because she gained weight? Bitch you was the one who made her pregnant how do you think she carried that child? She would have to exercise if she wanted to loose the excess weight after child birth and WTF bro, you are something else, seriously I don't know what to say.... Gnocchi Flip Flops 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I cucked Alex Jones Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 98 in 1, Verdant, Rougarou and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trip Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Having a child,balancing gta,and college I missed the part in your OP about GTA. Where does it fit in with you abusive fat girlfriend, girl on the side, girl child, Burger King, and college? I need to know. Rented and Gnocchi Flip Flops 2 My crappy games at MyCrappyGames.com Free copy of Save The Puppies and Kittens Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
018361 Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) I honestly can't really say anything because of my inexperience, but I think adoption is okay if you really believe it would be best for your child. Although, imagining myself in a father's prospective if I had a child ( especially a daughter ) I wouldn't want to give her up for the world. This comes from a guy who's never known what it's like to have a father, as he had passed away when I was young. I have been through hell wishing he were here and that he was here with me. I only can suggest maybe some family helping to watch her or something. This is for you... Edited July 12, 2015 by 018361 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ruin Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Guess your daughter isn't a part of it then. Shaundi., Eram, Coin and 23 others 26 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ai®a©ob®a Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) Why is it exactly you want to give your daughter up for a adoption again? Because Sarah is fat or because you can't afford PS+? I mean, in between studying for your college courses that you're failing and doing 40 hours of burger flipping a week, what happens to Esther while you're dicking Chelsea? An inconsistent tale that makes you look nothing more than a selfish idiot. You're going to be in big trouble if this is some thinly veiled attempt at trolling. Wait til Sarah comes after you for Child Support and takes all your Burger Flipping money and Chelsea will leave you for the guy who does have a penny in his pocket. & Guess what you CAN'T put her up for adoption without the mother consent. I'd rather you just leave the relationship and support your daughter. Edited July 12, 2015 by Troubadour xInfamousRYANx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jolly Swagman Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 Guess your daughter isn't a part of it then. The daughter just needs to get a ps plus account and learn not to suck at death matches if she wants to be part of his team. Her fault really. Shaundi., Skeever, xInfamousRYANx and 11 others 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) Why is it exactly you want to give your daughter up for a adoption again? Because Sarah is fat or because you can't afford PS+? I mean, in between studying for your college courses that you're failing and doing 40 hours of burger flipping a week, what happens to Esther while you're dicking Chelsea? An inconsistent tale that makes you look nothing more than a selfish idiot. You're going to be in big trouble if this is some thinly veiled attempt at trolling. Wait til Sarah comes after you for Child Support and takes all your Burger Flipping money and Chelsea will leave you for the guy who does have a penny in his pocket. & Guess what you CAN'T put her up for adoption without the mother consent. I'd rather you just leave the relationship and support your daughter. yea that's what I've decided to do, tomorrow i plan on telling her or writing a note while shes at work saying I'm moving out. Or i may just take my child from daycare without telling sarah, and go to my parents house. Either way I'm in for crap by sarah. She's going to freak out that's why I'm going to write a note. Or i may msg her on Facebook telling her. And if i want to be a dick i could put out all our information on FB for everyone to see. Just so i can embarrass her. She broke me and abused me, so this could be payback so all her friends could see how she really is Edited July 12, 2015 by TeamAssist Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ai®a©ob®a Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 yea that's what I've decided to do, tomorrow i plan on telling her or writing a note while shes at work saying I'm moving out. Or i may just take my child from daycare without telling sarah, and go to my parents house. Either way I'm in for crap by sarah. If you do that you better run to Mexico because you're ass will be going to jail for Kidnapping and Parental Interference Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xInfamousRYANx Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) yea that's what I've decided to do, tomorrow i plan on telling her or writing a note while shes at work saying I'm moving out. Or i may just take my child from daycare without telling sarah, and go to my parents house. Either way I'm in for crap by sarah. If you do that you better run to Mexico because you're ass will be going to jail for Kidnapping and Parental InterferenceThisDont go off being more stupid Honestly thinking this is a troll post now or you are just stupid. Are you sure you have college? Even if its your kid you can't just go off taking them Edited July 12, 2015 by xInfamousRYANx Ai®a©ob®a 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 12, 2015 Author Share Posted July 12, 2015 (edited) yea that's what I've decided to do, tomorrow i plan on telling her or writing a note while shes at work saying I'm moving out. Or i may just take my child from daycare without telling sarah, and go to my parents house. Either way I'm in for crap by sarah. If you do that you better run to Mexico because you're ass will be going to jail for Kidnapping and Parental InterferenceThisDont go off being more stupidSo I'd be more safe just writing a note and leaving? What if she won't let me see esther again? Plus what will i tell chelsea? I don't want to lose "doing it" with her. I enjoy chelsea company alot, but she probably isn't right for me. She dates a skinhead and I. Don't want to get my ass kicked lowering My self esteen anymore. Oh and sorry to not be more descriptive, but i take online courses sorry Edited July 12, 2015 by TeamAssist Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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