TeamAssist Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) Hi everyone my name is Due, i haven't had a proper introduction to the forum yet. So this is the post I'd make about my life. It's pretty crazy. I am a 21year old male with a daughter named esther, and a girlfriend named Sarah. I am currently in college going to be a mechanic. I've been going through some tough times and haven't had enough strength to bare it all in. About three months ago (may) i started having an affair with my coworker. Her name is chelsea. I currently work at burger king full time. This affair has been going on till now. And i feel guilty but my gf is a fat slob and she abuses me mentally and physically. Me, my gf, and my child all live in this tiny apartment. Now here's were things get weird, my gf sarah hit ME IN THE HEAD with a bear bottle last night. She says I focus on irrelevant things and still act like a teenager. She says i am a bad daddy and she threatened to take me for child support and leave me, she currently works at a office and pays all the bills while i buy food,items, and clothes for my child. Me and sarah were high-school sweethearts but now i despise the girl. I got her pregnant when I didn't put a coat on my farmer back in 11th grade. She was hot/ok then but now she lost all her appeal and has gained massive weight. Back in HS she was SMOKING, but now she just... isn't attractive anymore. I didn't really see her personality until after i got her pregnant. I didn't really care about her personality back in HS tbh. I just wanted her to be my girl. I feel like my life is falling into pieces and i don't know what to do. I feel as if i want to cry but my mother tells me to be strong for my daughter. I'm thinking about putting my child for adoption if i just continue to breakdown. Oh i thought this was general section Edited July 11, 2015 by TeamAssist theGTAking101 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tre-Von Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 And that folks is the story of life. seriously this is a GTA Forum. take your personal problems elsewhere. Tossin Salad, Femme Fatale, wiizardii and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chloroform Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 This is why kids shouldn't have kids, nothing personal. Gnocchi Flip Flops, ILL, Skeever and 8 others 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vik Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) Damn man that's sucks . If I were you I would stop the affair first of all,just saying. Why is everyone acting like jerks (except Chloro,he didn't say anything) give the guy a break for ffs. Edited July 11, 2015 by VikDarkbomb Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slam_Jones Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) This is why kids shouldn't have kids, nothing personal. A friendlier version of what I was going to say. Also, you have a lot of growing up to do, my man. Edited July 11, 2015 by Slam_Jones Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Not A Nice Person Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) You should've wrapped your junk, the reason she isn't attractive to you is she started to gain wieght after having a baby really early. And you seem waay too immature to have a kid, Adopt your daughter and make sure she can have the best life she can. Edited July 11, 2015 by Sayuri RavingWithJesus, Vik, Gnocchi Flip Flops and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xInfamousRYANx Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 Thats your mess keep your pecker in your pants till you are established in life and now you gotta deal with the consequences. Idk what to say other than stop the affair. If you only loved this Sarah for looks then i have nothing else to offer other than grow the f*ck up. Looks aren't everything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anus Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 FFS people cut the guy some slack. OP, I don't know if you're trolling or not, but if you aren't, the only advice I can give you is to do what's right by you and your daughter. Also, don't listen to the people who just want to criticize your every move, we all make mistakes - just gotta keep looking ahead. There are people here who can give you much better advice than me, but just remember to not listen to the haters and stay positive. Keep your head up man. God bless. Flachbau, Judicious 7, We Are Doomed and 7 others 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chloroform Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 All honestly op don't give the kid up, my friend did that (he's an attention whore so I don't know if his feelings are genuine or not) but he says he regrets it. Now can anyone say the baby will be better off? Nah, no such thing. You need to start acting like an adult. You know that saying? You can't have your cake and eat it too? Now what happens if/when this other girl gets fat? Are you going to leave her too? I think you need to stop acting shallow as well. Them being "smoking" hot shows how much you need to grow up since that didn't add anything to the story. xInfamousRYANx and NeuralFailiure 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vik Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) Do whats right for you and your daughter,if your wife is THAT abusive then I would suggest a divorce.Do whats right for YOUR daughter. Try and start a clean slate,look for a better job. And having someone as a girlfriend isn't about looks,its about personality.Do you REALLY like Sarah deep down OP? Edited July 11, 2015 by VikDarkbomb xInfamousRYANx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Dildo Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 Hi everyone my name is Due stopped reading here. I call bollocks. who in their right mind would name their child "Due??" Moth, TheMcSame, Rougarou and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vik Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 Hi everyone my name is Due stopped reading here. I call bollocks. who in their right mind would name their child "Due??" Some teenager who has a kid in high school Femme Fatale 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 I don't want to put my kid up for adoption but right now it's a pain to take care of her. I don't even have a vehicle. My gf drops me and while i walk home. I can't catch a single break of fresh air. I know looks aren't everything but thats the only reason i wanted her. All the guys did and me getting her helped me boost my self esteem. My friends all called me a "king" for pulling the hottest chick in school. I didn't make smart decisions as a teenager and i still don't to this day. I have terrible credit so it's hard to find a vehicle having bad credit and working at Burger king. I've borrowed so much money from my parent's it's crazy. I've drained them completely. Hi everyone my name is Due stopped reading here.I call bollocks. who in their right mind would name their child "Due??" sorry that was a misspelling, i meant to put "Duke" Do whats right for you and your daughter,if your wife is THAT abusive then I would suggest a divorce.Do whats right for YOUR daughter. Try and start a clean slate,look for a better job. And having someone as a girlfriend isn't about looks,its about personality.Do you REALLY like Sarah deep down OP? No i don't like her deep down, but I'm trying to put up with her for the sake of our daughter. I want the best for her. I hate to say it but, i wish i never knew sarah. She ruined my life. theGTAking101 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vik Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 Do a divorce and stop the affair Keep your child with you If you want a clean slate you have to make it yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xInfamousRYANx Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) Nvm anyways idk what to think if this is true. If you hate her you should have left the situation years ago. An abusive home life aint the best for kids Edited July 11, 2015 by xInfamousRYANx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rented Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 Well I don't know if this is going to help you or not but I know these two guys, they have a couple of YT channels one of which is for life advices. I don't know how much it's going to help you but it might be a better place then GTAF. https://www.youtube.com/user/askhodgetwins Static, Flachbau, TeamAssist and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 Do a divorce and stop the affair Keep your child with you If you want a clean slate you have to make it yourself. but if i leave my girlfriend i have no place to go. My parents live all the way in a different state. And they can't drive at night. It'd be alot for me to move out Well I don't know if this is going to help you or not but I know these two guys, they have a couple of YT channels one of which is for life advices. I don't know how much it's going to help you but it might be a better place then GTAF. https://www.youtube.com/user/askhodgetwins Thanks I'll definitely check out there videos i appreciate it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Payne Killer Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 That's nice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pedinhuh Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 Ermm...I don't really know what to say.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 *UPDATE My gf sarah is thinking about putting our daughter up for adoption aswell, i don't want to but i have no choice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C4R3ON Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 OMG thats f*cked up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 OMG thats f*cked up.I am financially unstable to support this child. My girlfriend has all the income and i plan on leaving her soon. I will miss esther (my daughter ) but still. I just can't do it anymore, I'm stressed out heavily. I am failing my college classes. I just can't do it. It'll hurt me to do this, but I'll try to cope with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C4R3ON Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 sh*t man,im sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Not A Nice Person Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) Nvm anyways idk what to think if this is true. If you hate her you should have left the situation years ago. An abusive home life aint the best for kids I'm glad you didn't have a kid early, leaving a woman single is the pettiest thing a man can do. Edited July 11, 2015 by Sayuri Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chloroform Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) All I'm reading is excuse after excuse. Time to grow up and act like an adult. So now another kid in the system because things are getting too hard. Kinda funny because no one in the history of troubled times has it worse then you op. Edited July 11, 2015 by Chloroform Slam_Jones 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Creed Bratton Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 (edited) I wanted to say something, but I don't think it's good advice so I should probably shut the f*ck up. The thing is, I hate being controlled so much that there is probably no way that I'd do the "right thing" according to the conventional thinking. And I can't be a hypocrite and tell you to do that right thing that I don't believe in. Stories like this quickly remind me of how much I actually enjoy being single. I need that now considering my latest infatuation with the cute book store girl. But nothing beats the sweet, sweet freedom of single life. Thanks for the reminder. Edited July 11, 2015 by The Yokel Flachbau 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 All I'm reading is excuse after excuse. Time to grow up and act like an adult. So now another kid in the system because things are getting too hard. Kinda funny because no one in the history of troubled times has it worse then you op. So what if u DO keep this kid? I'll continue to fail my college courses. I'm trying not to make excuses, i know it's my fault I'm in this but still. I can't even afford ps plus because of this predicament. I try to play my system to ease the stress but i can't even do that. My gf is controlling and manipulative. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chloroform Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 All I'm reading is excuse after excuse. Time to grow up and act like an adult. So now another kid in the system because things are getting too hard. Kinda funny because no one in the history of troubled times has it worse then you op. So what if u DO keep this kid? I'll continue to fail my college courses. I'm trying not to make excuses, i know it's my fault I'm in this but still. I can't even afford ps plus because of this predicament. I try to play my system to ease the stress but i can't even do that. My gf is controlling and manipulative. Plenty of people have kids and go to school, poor excuse. You just don't want to grow up. You want to sit back and play video games and have the life other people that have the luxury do but you don't. I lost respect for my friend because he gave his kid up. Don't think for one second that your family friends etc wont lose respect for you. Also if this story is true, you better not have another kid. So many people make that weak argument "right now not the time" and years later have another kid. Pos people do that, don't be that guy. Like I said you need to grow up and act your age. You're making excuses period. Slam_Jones and Cebra 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I cucked Alex Jones Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 All I'm reading is excuse after excuse. Time to grow up and act like an adult. So now another kid in the system because things are getting too hard. Kinda funny because no one in the history of troubled times has it worse then you op. So what if u DO keep this kid? I'll continue to fail my college courses. I'm trying not to make excuses, i know it's my fault I'm in this but still. I can't even afford ps plus because of this predicament. I try to play my system to ease the stress but i can't even do that. My gf is controlling and manipulative. "I love my daughter, but not as much as I like playing Play Station." Slam_Jones, Ezza., Creed Bratton and 14 others 17 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAssist Posted July 11, 2015 Author Share Posted July 11, 2015 All I'm reading is excuse after excuse. Time to grow up and act like an adult. So now another kid in the system because things are getting too hard. Kinda funny because no one in the history of troubled times has it worse then you op. So what if u DO keep this kid? I'll continue to fail my college courses. I'm trying not to make excuses, i know it's my fault I'm in this but still. I can't even afford ps plus because of this predicament. I try to play my system to ease the stress but i can't even do that. My gf is controlling and manipulative. Plenty of people have kids and go to school, poor excuse. You just don't want to grow up. You want to sit back and play video games and have the life other people that have the luxury do but you don't. I lost respect for my friend because he gave his kid up. Don't think for one second that your family friends etc wont lose respect for you. Also if this story is true, you better not have another kid. So many people make that weak argument "right now not the time" and years later have another kid. Pos people do that, don't be that guy. Like I said you need to grow up and act your age. You're making excuses period. I'm trying to act my age but right now it's just too much, i love my daughter with all my heart but i am just mentally broken. I want her to be in a healthy environment that's why me and my gf may put her up for adoption. Or maybe my gf will give custody to her sister/her sisters fiance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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