Share Your Feelings

[kmlwin.1996]

Well, so I have to say sorry to her?

[El Zilcho]

Well, so I have to say sorry to her?

If she still remembers, maybe. It's probably just advisable to avoid saying it in future. Keep being playful though, just not offensive. Women are touchier in some of those matters.

[AnotherDave]

Why do does it seem like most of the people in this thread are the creepy losers in school that are scared to talk to girls, or anyone?

It's very easy to say that from your standpoint, you probably are more sociable than others. Those "creepy losers" are "scared" because they were probably rejected by many people or the environment they grew up in made them that way.

It's just part of growing up for most people. Pretty much everybody posting about girls and whatnot in here are essentially kids (no offence meant, folks). It's all a big mess of hormones and emotion when you're young and you don't really get how trivial it actually is until you're a bit older. If people in their mid 20's and up were posting that stuff I'd be quite concerned for them.

[Shiva.]

 

Well, so I have to say sorry to her?

Depends on her mood. If she's not angry on you, I'd suggest you not to apologise. Try to be normal but no cracking jokes in her again.

If she is angry on you then apologise gently. Don't swear if she says no. If she isn't ready to forgive you, stay away from her for a while. Try to make her jealous by talking to other girls around her.

Edited August 8, 2012 by shiva s

[DEALUX]

It's just part of growing up for most people. Pretty much everybody posting about girls and whatnot in here are essentially kids (no offence meant, folks). It's all a big mess of hormones and emotion when you're young and you don't really get how trivial it actually is until you're a bit older. If people in their mid 20's and up were posting that stuff I'd be quite concerned for them.

I know some people who made solid relationships during this part of growing up. I don't know if it was a compromise on their part but there's still a possibility that it might end up being something serious.

 

Basically you don't have much choice, you have to go with the flow in order to maintain your well being. Rational thinking doesn't always help in these situations.

[OverTheBelow]

Well, so I have to say sorry to her?

If she brings it up, then apologise and say your intention wasn't to offend her. Otherwise, don't say anything more about it.

[AnotherDave]

 

I know some people who made solid relationships during this part of growing up. I don't know if it was a compromise on their part but there's still a possibility that it might end up being something serious.

Yeah, it's possible, and pretty much every kid in their first (few) relationship(s) thinks it'll last forever, they'll get married and have kids and so on, but that just goes with the territory. It's not just relationships though, a lot seems like such a big deal when you're in and around puberty and it's only when you look back on it that you can see that most of it really wasn't.

 

It's all just part of growing up is all I'm saying so it's not like the people posting here are actually creepy loners, they're just teenagers, which involves encountering a lot of things and problems for the first time. And maybe being a little bit creepy and lonely.

[Exxon]

Sorry for breaking the conversation, but I want to share my feelings once again

 

Previous time I posted here, I said I haven't been as happy as I now am.

I'm even happier now I have a holidayjob, which sucks quite frankly, but I met 4 girls there.

All very nice, and we can all get along with each other pretty good.

 

Now, the most beautiful one and the sweetest one, Christel ... I believe I like her

I'll be very honest with you, she isn't as pretty as the other girl, but I still think she is quite beautiful.

 

At one point, we talked about how she's getting teased at school and the guys calling her ugly and fat.

I don't understand those guys ... how can you do that to such a sweet girl?

She is NOT ugly and NOT fat ... and I like her. We talked on WhatsApp and I told her how she ís beautiful and such.

I, somewhere, got the feeling she likes me too, but I'm not sure. When she was home and went somewhere, she used 'xxxx *kissing smiley*'.

Though I know girls often do that ... but I got the feeling she likes me. The thing is, she lives too far away from me to reach by bike

 

Still, my parents might bring me there a few times, I hope it could work out.

I like her, and it actually seems she does like me

Edited August 8, 2012 by Exxon

[DEALUX]

Be careful, some girls are just awfully nice. I think you may be in a vulnerable situation (you are getting over the last girl) and therefore you are prone to "fall in love" again.

[Exxon]

I'm not saying I am in love again, I just really like her.

She is the first girl to be so kind, get it?

[coin-god]

I'm not saying I am in love again, I just really like her.

She is the first girl to be so kind, get it?

Weren't you the one complaining about some girl and how it was impossible to forget her?

[OverTheBelow]

Be careful, some girls are just awfully nice. I think you may be in a vulnerable situation (you are getting over the last girl) and therefore you are prone to "fall in love" again.

Finding another person to have interest in is definitely the easiest way to get over someone who was previously special to you. Even if there isn't much chance of getting that close to this new person, it's a good idea to let yourself become closer (obviously within reason; don't be unfair and give leading signals if you don't want more) and distracted. Ultimately, the infatuation you will have for this new person will mask the supposedly "perfect" memories you had with your ex (or whomever) from daily thought so that when you go back to eventually remembering them, they seem less significant and less painful to think about, if at all.

 

Atleast, this is what worked well for me when I needed to get over someone in the past.

 

--

 

Also a good tip for charming girls you aren't very familiar with or if you're trying to show interest: when making eye contact with them, subtley look at each of their eyes in quick succession. So at their eyes - left, right, left, right a couple of times. Most will pick up on this and cause their mind to speculate about it uncontrollably; it's like telling them they have nice eyes without actually saying it. I don't really understand why girls like to be told they have nice eyes, but I think it helped in the past when charming my now-gf. She's brought it up a few times now that we're really comfortable with eachother and I just tell her that I have to look twice at her eyes because they're adorable.

[Exxon]

 

I'm not saying I am in love again, I just really like her.

She is the first girl to be so kind, get it?

Weren't you the one complaining about some girl and how it was impossible to forget her?

That's me, but since I had that fight with a good friend of mine I somehow managed to put myself over her.

On that subject, the fight is over but it's the question if all goes well in our band

[GTA_stu]

Felt happy that I'd got a decent tan, then I felt sad stepping out the shower realising it was just muck.

 

 

Still, my parents might bring me there a few times, I hope it could work out.

 

That's how all the good relationships start. I'm just messing Glad to hear you're at least over that Lotte girl Exxon.

[Exxon]

Hahaha, thanks man

[OverTheBelow]

 

Felt happy that I'd got a decent tan, then I felt sad stepping out the shower realising it was just muck.

On the subject of tans. Getting back from my holiday.. try realising you have pale tan-lines on that bit where your shoulder ends and your arm begins. It looks so damn stupid; I don't even know how it happened. My entire upper body has a fairly decent tan - apart from the lines where, presumably, the overhang of my shoulders cast a shadow onto my arms in the midday sun. I'm hoping it will even out eventually but I guess it's just an inevitable disadvantage of working out your shoulders.

 

And also not forgetting the classic untanned groinal region. Never sees the light of day. Only the light of night.

[Exxon]

And also not forgetting the classic untanned groinal region. Never sees the light of day. Only the light of night.

Same problem here bro

 

But I really feel happy now, everytime I get a text message from Christel (the girl from work) I get this feeling in my stomach

I'm going over to her place sometime next week, and she suggested I could join her and her friends when she goes shopping. But, I'm already going to Robby

[DEALUX]

I'm going over to her place sometime next week, and she suggested I could join her and her friends when she goes shopping. But, I'm already going to Robby

Robby is your friend? Why don't you tell him about your intentions with this girl, so you can go shopping with her if that's what you want?!

[Exxon]

It's not my girlfriend just yet, but we were already going to see each other so it doesn't matter (both Robby and Christel)

If she ís my girlfriend, things will be different

[DEALUX]

If you say "yet", maybe your intentions are already there. I'd do my best to seize that opportunity, of course trying at the same time not to be weird\creepy about it.

[blitz]

I'm in a bit of a complex situation atm.

 

See, there's this guy, and he likes my best friend, and she doesn't know. It's fine by me, I don't like the guy in that way, I have no romantic intentions at all.

 

But see, there's this other girl, and she really likes him, and she's the jealous type.

 

Anyways, so the girl is asking me to help her with the guy, while the guy is asking me to help him with my best friend.

 

Don't know what do, it all feels so wrong. Standing on thin ice.

[ZDANZ96]

 

I'm in a bit of a complex situation atm.

 

See, there's this guy, and he likes my best friend, and she doesn't know. It's fine by me, I don't like the guy in that way, I have no romantic intentions at all.

 

But see, there's this other girl, and she really likes him, and she's the jealous type.

 

Anyways, so the girl is asking me to help her with the guy, while the guy is asking me to help him with my best friend.

 

Don't know what do, it all feels so wrong. Standing on thin ice.

Standing on thin ice? Seriously.

 

 

If you don't know what to do just make it happen, simples. If both of them like themselves, then why not give a little hand for the meeting to happen? There is absolutely no reason for you to worry, unless you like the guy, something that you prove wrong.

 

Maybe you are a bit confused because she is jealous, no? I don't know. What you've said just doesn't seem to be complex at all. All I can tell you is to help them out.

 

My classmate, however, is living in a bad situation. His father is dying from cancer and it is being really hard for him to accept that fact. He is unstable, irritable, he even cried in the last class while giving a hug in my History teacher. Something that we wouldn't ever expect from a guy like him, a strong 19 years old man who has almost 2m of height.

 

This is a situation that we can call quite complex, since we don't know anymore how to behave in his front without touching in the subject.

Edited August 13, 2012 by ZDANZ96

[blitz]

No, I don't think you understood the love triangle.

 

It's three people involved. I'll give them random names to illustrate the picture better.

 

•Billy

•Jenny

•Jill

 

Alright, so Jenny came to me and told me how she had this ginormous crush on Billy. However, Billy likes Jill, who happens to be my best friend.

 

Now Billy is asking me to help him with Jill, and Jenny is asking me to help her with Billy.

 

 

 

[coin-god]

 

Standing on thin ice? Seriously.

 

 

If you don't know what to do just make it happen, simples. If both of them like themselves, then why not give a little hand for the meeting to happen? There is absolutely no reason for you to worry, unless you like the guy, something that you prove wrong.

 

Maybe you are a bit confused because she is jealous, no? I don't know. What you've said just doesn't seem to be complex at all. All I can tell you is to help them out.

I think you should read things properly before replying.

Now I don't know what to tell you Blitz, is this other girl a close friend aswell? If not, help your best friend.. right?

[OverTheBelow]

If I were you I would evaluate all the possible outcomes you could get by helping or not helping each person respectively, and figure out if getting involved is really worth it on your end. Remember you don't *have* to do anything.

 

If you need to make the decision, who would you rather see happier? The easily-jealous girl or your best friend? Who do you think would make a better couple with the guy and ultimately be more happy together?

[ZDANZ96]

 

No, I don't think you understood the love triangle.

 

It's three people involved. I'll give them random names to illustrate the picture better.

 

•Billy

•Jenny

•Jill

 

Alright, so Jenny came to me and told me how she had this ginormous crush on Billy. However, Billy likes Jill, who happens to be my best friend.

 

Now Billy is asking me to help him with Jill, and Jenny is asking me to help her with Billy.

Ah, now I understand you.

 

Sorry. I didn't mean to be silly or arrogant. But about the question... well, help your closest friend then. Let the other girl f*ck herself, since she just came closer to you just to obtain an advantage over "Jill" talking about "Billy" .

 

Just let Billy and Jill be happy with themselves by giving them a help to meet each other, since it looks like 95% of teens from the world, in general, tend to be way too shy to give girls/boys a proper conversation.

 

Well, before ending anything, did you understand me? I got you right this time? Before any castellano maricón come here to say anything bad about my knowledge, IQ...

[DEALUX]

I'm in a bit of a complex situation atm.

 

See, there's this guy, and he likes my best friend, and she doesn't know. It's fine by me, I don't like the guy in that way, I have no romantic intentions at all.

 

But see, there's this other girl, and she really likes him, and she's the jealous type.

 

Anyways, so the girl is asking me to help her with the guy, while the guy is asking me to help him with my best friend.

 

Don't know what do, it all feels so wrong. Standing on thin ice.

Can't you tell the guy that the other girl likes him? Let him solve that problem.

[Greenline]

So, I just got an Email that the next earthquake to hit Iran will be in Tehran (because of the Tabriz earthquake yesterday). So, basically the people in Tehran always knew that it's their turn, but they really didn't do anything about it (most of the buildings aren't really safe and new. The risk of an earthquake was present 25 years ago and in those years, the risk just got bigger and bigger. So, after Bam and Tabriz, it just started to get really bad and now they're sending Emails around for it.

 

 

انتظار می‌رود زلزله -اگر بيايد- با قدرتی بالاتر از 7 (در مقياس ريشتر) خواهدبود

They expect a 7 richter earthquake this year or so.

 

So, I'm paranoid about myself and also about how this will affect Tehran's future. The city isn't exactly earthquake proof so we won't get far if it hits us. Although Iran is a relatively rich and developed country, with the economy not doing so well, I doubt there are enough resources to rebuild the city

Edited August 14, 2012 by Greenline

[Shiva.]

@Blitz Explain Jenny that Bill is engaged in relationship with Jill. Try to console her at the earliest. This will cause a great problem in the future if you're gonna delay it.

Now, help Bill with Jill.

[DEALUX]

Only they are not engaged in such a thing. Lying isn't going to help.