Share Your Feelings

[gtamann123]

 

 

So guys, I've got to say that I'm 18 years virgin dude who's starting to really feel bad about that situation...

 

 

Haha you must think it's a joke or I'm making a big deal of such a "meaningless" thing as sex, but it's not that simple and neither it's gonna be resolved by having sex with a random chick because it doesn't limit to that...

 

I mean, I don't want it to happen with a person I don't have deep feelings for. And the biggest issue is, the few ones who appeared in my life and were able to "mess with my head" simply disappeared from it before I could develop anything with them. And it's just sad that I can't really do anything to prevent that, all because I'm talking about young adults who move from one city to another in order to study in a private college or an university which isn't in my plans.

 

Then there are some random 14-17 years old schoolgirls who stalk me through Facebook, WhatsApp or even in the comfort my own house because they are interested in me. Then you might think, oh then why don't you go f*ck THEM RIGHT IN THE PUSSY if they even show up at your home to do it?

 

Because, firstly, I'm not interested in someone who's not capable of sustaining a decent conversation with me, nor in land whales, nor in idiots who do nothing in their lives but to post lyrics on their facebook page every 30 minutes "trying to represent their current feelings"... Regardless of what I say here, I think you guys got it.

 

Any help?

I'm a year younger than you and I feel the same

 

Whatever though, i'm destined to be alone and that's that. I kinda stopped caring about losing my virginity a while ago after my girlfriend left me and I lost motivation for everything after that. I mean like yeah, I could lose it to an easy desperate girl or pay a hooker but meh, that's kind of depressing, I wan't it to be special (cliche but that's how I feel). I'll just see how things play out and if they don't then I don't know.

Im in the same boat as you dude. I've given up all hope of finding female companionship as well. I would have to change myself so much in order to attract a woman that I wouldn't be happy with myself. So for now I'm just focused on stacking paper. I may make a road trip to Nevada sometime next summer to lose my virginity but I'm not seriously considering it just yet Edited December 8, 2014 by gtamann123

[IveGotNoValues]

 

Whatever though, i'm destined to be alone and that's that.

As long as you have the attitude that you being alone is part of some predetermined plan that's beyond your control, then yeah, you will be.

 

 

You always say you don't care, yet you constantly bring up this ex of yours. Sorry to sound like a dick, but you're very clearly NOT over it and you really should just let it go because you're starting to be a Prince Gumball, and nobody likes a Prince Gumball.

 

No you're right, and I agree I should work on the negative attitude, but am I really on his level though? I mean I can be pretty whiny but I never thought of myself as a full Prince Gumball. I would hope i'm not THAT bad.

Edited December 8, 2014 by IveGotNoValues

[a20characterusername]

No you're right, and I agree. Am I really on his level though? I mean I can be pretty whiny but I never thought of myself as a full Prince Gumball. I would hope i'm not THAT bad.

 

lol no you're not as bad, but I'm saying that depression feeds on itself and if you keep feeling this way you WILL become like that.

 

this makes me sound like an old f*ck but when I was your age, I used to be a VERY negative person and you know what? It got me nowhere in life. Ruined countless friendships and relationships. I'm not saying to wear a fake smile every day, just to look at the long view. As far as being alone, let the girls come to you, and don't worry about hooking up or getting laid in the meantime; just let it happen. No need to pressure yourself. I think you're actually a pretty decent person, which is the only reason why I'd bother giving actual advice.

Edited December 8, 2014 by a20characterusername

[krashr]

 

 

 

 

What's a land whale?

I think he means fat chicks. Is that right Danz.

 

 

 

 

 

[dudclub55]

 

Whatever though, i'm destined to be alone and that's that.

As long as you have the attitude that you being alone is part of some predetermined plan that's beyond your control, then yeah, you will be.

 

 

You always say you don't care, yet you constantly bring up this ex of yours. Sorry to sound like a dick, but you're very clearly NOT over it and you really should just let it go because you're starting to be a Prince Gumball, and nobody likes a Prince Gumball.

 

 

Whining all the time about people whining all the time is still whining all the time.

[Gay Tony]

Whining all the time about people whining all the time is still whining all the time.

[a20characterusername]

 

Whining all the time about people whining all the time is still whining all the time.

 

Says the kid who spent like a month whining about Xyn.

[dudclub55]

 

 

 

Whining all the time about people whining all the time is still whining all the time.

 

Says the kid who spent like a month whining about Xyn.

You're trying to be this anti-Prince Gumball but you're coming off more as the Prince Gumball of anti-Prince Gumballs.

Quit being a dick, you don't have to reply to people's 'bickering' as you superior smugs would say.

[a20characterusername]

You get upset quite easily, don't you?

 

Also, you make a hell of a lot of assumptions there-- one might even count that as being 'superior smug', as you say. Keep on digging that hole though.

[Gay Tony]

Please, please guys just PM each-other. 20characters is just saying bi!tching don't do anything, or if you keep saying something over and over it'll become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

[Gnocchi Flip Flops]

It annoys me to no return when people come into a feelings topic and start complaining about what somebody else is posting. It's a feelings thread and it's where people go to vent their frustrations, ones that don't belong in the Grumpy Forumer's Thread of course. People are supposed to feel comfortable expressing their feelings here so coming here to complain about somebody "complaining" is just being stupid. That's just my two cents.

Edited December 8, 2014 by Sting4S

[LightningLord]

If I could stop taking art class, I wouldn't mind going to school. But art makes me despise school. I was talking to the principal at my school, asking him whether art was mandatory or not. I found out art is mandatory. Why? I shouldn't be held back because I'm great at all my other classes yet the art teacher hates my work, as well as everyone else in my school. I've never been good at art. I've always gotten ridiculously low grades in art. I'm just not as artistic and creative as some people. The "art" I make is atrocious. I'm fed up with the class. I hate it.

Edited December 8, 2014 by LightningLord411

[krashr]

It annoys me to no return when people come into a feelings topic and start complaining about what somebody else is posting. It's a feelings thread and it's where people go to vent their frustrations, ones that don't belong in the Grumpy Forumer's Thread of course. People are supposed to feel comfortable expressing their feelings here so coming here to complain about somebody "complaining" is just being stupid. That's just my two cents.

 

you do realise, you are complaining about people complaining about people complaining.. right?

[a20characterusername]

It annoys me to no return when people come into a feelings topic and start complaining about what somebody else is posting. It's a feelings thread and it's where people go to vent their frustrations, ones that don't belong in the Grumpy Forumer's Thread of course. People are supposed to feel comfortable expressing their feelings here so coming here to complain about somebody "complaining" is just being stupid. That's just my two cents.

"some people's feelings on other's people's feelings hurt *my* feelings, so they shouldn't talk about their feelings. Because feelings."

You're doing the same exact thing now, BTW

 

Notice how IveGotNoValues, the person who I commented on that made you and Frankie so butthurt, actually agreed with what I said to him? My feelings are that some people on this forum don't understand that this thread is a place to express ALL feelings, not to be a hugbox.

Edited December 8, 2014 by a20characterusername

[Affalterbach]

Im tired af. Only slept for 3 hours and im up again. I really need to sleep earlier.

[Coin]

Extreme frustration. Trying to work on a project, but the storm here is f*cking with my connection.

[RavingWithJesus]

I haven't slept in over a day...people are working on my house still...all day long, different shifts. my landlord is the most inconsiderate person I've ever had to deal with. I'm out of it...and I have exams tomorrow

Edited December 8, 2014 by ajdude1

[Ai®a©ob®a]

If I could stop taking art class, I wouldn't mind going to school. But art makes me despise school. I was talking to the principal at my school, asking him whether art was mandatory or not. I found out art is mandatory. Why? I shouldn't be held back because I'm great at all my other classes yet the art teacher hates my work, as well as everyone else in my school. I've never been good at art. I've always gotten ridiculously low grades in art. I'm just not as artistic and creative as some people. The "art" I make is atrocious. I'm fed up with the class. I hate it.

I hated Art also, I am great with drawing but that's it, I can't paint or do anything else.

 

Ask me to draw something give me a picture and i can copy it it.

 

I did the bear minimum in Art class JUST enough to pass but this was back in 8th grade i got suspended from art class for a week for drawing a naked teletubbly when our teacher asked us to paint a picture of the ocean or landscape.

 

Luckliy when i got into High School art wasn't a requirement than i just spend my time drawing doodles of the teachers never got me in trouble though.

[Ai®a©ob®a]

I can't tell if i'm angry or upset...

 

I was doing some cleaning earlier today and i came across my Dad old Guitar and Pool Cues he had especially made for him and i since we played in Pool/Billiards every Tuesday from when i was 16 until he died when i was 21 that was back in 2007,

 

I still haven't cried over his death i still find myself angry over his death.'

 

Not because he died but because he died and how his death could've been prevented by the Gas Company but finding his guitar also make me remember the good times we had and than i get angry again.

 

I've talked to several doctors about this but none of them know really what to do because they don't deem me as depressed or anything but angry and they want me to let his death go and finally grieve but i can't.

 

I want to blame so many people but i know none of it was their fault the Firefighters got there within 6 minutes of the 9-1-1 call they did the best they cool but i can still picture it as vivid as it was yesterday just watching the house burn knowing they couldn't get inside.

 

Do i put these items up for sale, for i give em away or do a i keep em?

 

But i feel if i keep em they will keep bringing back the memories that nobody could do anything to help him.

[Danz.]

 

Because, firstly, I'm not interested in someone who's not capable of sustaining a decent conversation with me, nor in land whales, nor in idiots who do nothing in their lives but to post lyrics on their facebook page every 30 minutes "trying to represent their current feelings"... Regardless of what I say here, I think you guys got it.

 

Probably rude of me to assume, but have you really talked to these people or gotten to know them? I know plenty of people who act stupid on their day-to-day, but are awesome to talk to over dinner or playing cards. That's not the point here.

 

Simply put, they are ignorant kids who really have nothing in common with me. Heck, they don't even share interests with me nor they do like similar things to me. So it's hard to even talk to them.

[dice]

You should give people a chance eitherway.

[Mr. Scratch]

I have no idea what's going on here...and at this point I'm too afraid to ask.

[krashr]

we were just hearing about how land whales and girls who post song lyrics on fb aren't dateworthy.. from a guy who posts multiple shirtless pics of himself on a game forum.. nothing to see here

[Gnocchi Flip Flops]

My feelings are that some people on this forum don't understand that this thread is a place to express ALL feelings, not to be a hugbox.

It's not really for discussing your annoyance towards some of the posts in here. And I wasn't solely referring to you, I was speaking in general.

[Mr.Nedich]

I'm a depressed and miserable turd. I've been prone to being mean and snarky when my depression episodes take a deep dive and I've been working on that, but today's been a rough day as well as yesterday. I'm not really expecting an empty 'Aw it's okay' because that just makes me feel worse. It's just cathartic to let out some of that pain inside I guess.

[Danz.]

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I guess I wasn't able to express myself well.
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You should give people a chance eitherway.

I've already given them a chance. Sometime ago I was feeling very lonely because I needed someone else other than my own family to talk with, so I thought to myself, " well, why not add in FB a random girl from my city and start talking to her"? Then I simply started to add to my account's friends list more and more girls who I had never seen before, regardless of their appearence, life status or intellectual skills just to have someone to talk with and, hopefully, find a love or 2 .

I didn't know that it was going to work, because I've never heard of anyone trying this out. However, I realised I was living in Brazil, the country where girls are getting hornier and hornier everyday and at an younger age than you would expect.

Thing is, unsurprisingly, the more I talked to them, the closer they got to me, to the point that I started to personally meet some of these schoolgirls. Obviously, things were starting to get dangerous, therefore I needed to "get rid" of the least interesting ones (which doesn't necessarily mean that they were unnattractive, fat or whatsoever. Most were just too dumb, annoying or their personalities just didn't match with mine)

For some reason doing stuff like that makes me feel bad about myself. I'm a sensitive guy, so it's incredibly hard for me to tell any friendly person to f*ck off without feeling afterwards like I was ran over by a cement truck or whatever. Rejecting people surely gives you headaches...

Right now the only ones that rest from this "group" are 2 girls who are fairly close to me. One is my cousin's best friend, who's a total slut and an ignorant pussy. She dislikes gaming, sports and any kind of TV show or youtube channel, she doesn't study, has a horrible taste in music and hangs around with crackheads and the worst kind of people you can find. The only saving grace is that she's slightly hot, is a horny f*cker and loves to talk about sex and sends half naked body shots to me. Actually, sex is the only subjects she knows about...

And the other one is a nice 16 years old virgin girl who enjoys some gaming and watching TV shows, with the exception of animes. She isn't very ignorant and knows about life and all and has clearly worded out that she's interested in me. In mean words, she would be a perfect girlfriend.... if I was sexually attracted to her. You know what I mean, she's cool and all but that's it. Best friends forever.... woooo... yeah... No...


Seriously, what do I do? Do I reject both of these girls in order to continue my search for true love or do I lose my virginity for once and start a fake relationship with one of them with the risk of hurting themselves and my cousin's friendship with me?

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EDIT: And before you guys suggest anything crazy, no, they don't know each other and I hope they will never do.

Edited December 8, 2014 by Danz.

[Affalterbach]

Just f*ck them both. Threesome ftw.

[I cucked Alex Jones]

Maybe the reason why you're a virgin is because you view women as some commodity that only exists to have sex with you.

[dice]

Danz, just f*ck someone or something already so you get this sex thing out of your system. Then you can continue pursuing your perfect girlfriend

 

 

 

 

Maybe the reason why you're a virgin is because you view women as some commodity that only exists to have sex with you.

I'm fairly certain the percentage of these types of men is larger in non-virgins than in virgins

Edited December 8, 2014 by dice

[Danz.]

Maybe the reason why you're a virgin is because you view women as some commodity that only exists to have sex with you.

If that was true I would have had sex with them a much time ago, then I would have dumped them and then repeat the process with other chicks. It's easy to criticize when you're anonymous and know nothing about the other person. And after reading some of your other posts, I realised that you seem to have serious issues with text interpretation.

 

By the way, my cousin is a 15 years old girl, and I consider her a very close friend of mine. We play video games, hang around and all of this with no second intentions from my part, simply because we are friends and thats it.

 

Implying that I view women as sexual objects is an absurd that offends me and I want you to tell me why you think like that.

Edited December 8, 2014 by Danz.