Share Your Feelings

[Tikhung]

You know, a year sometimes feels faster than it seems. I just checked my Steam Library and it looks like the last time I played Bully was 19/12/2013, almost a year ago. Damn.

[ryan_J]

Ok...so currently I'm feeling jealous now. >.> There's this girl who I really like and we're friends but I feel so inferior to her in every way. Her personality is much nicer and less awkward than mine and I feel like everyone likes her a million times more than me. She's a better asset, she's easy to talk to, she perfectly adapts to everyone's personalities and she's pretty and ughfuhdgfd. I know I shouldn't feel this way because I really like her too, so so much...but I'm jealous ;_;

 

 

Everyone has their own insecurities, you think you're awkward but I'm sure others feel about you how you feel about your friend. She probably has lots of hang ups too, I'm sure she doesn't see herself as perfect like you see her. It's natural to get jealous like that anyway, shows you're surrounding yourself with great people and that's what needed to build great character. Besides, I'm sure you're as amazing as her and I'm sure that's how others see it!

Edited December 5, 2014 by ryan_J

[EphemeralStar]

 

Ok...so currently I'm feeling jealous now. >.> There's this girl who I really like and we're friends but I feel so inferior to her in every way. Her personality is much nicer and less awkward than mine and I feel like everyone likes her a million times more than me. She's a better asset, she's easy to talk to, she perfectly adapts to everyone's personalities and she's pretty and ughfuhdgfd. I know I shouldn't feel this way because I really like her too, so so much...but I'm jealous ;_;

 

 

Everyone has their own insecurities, you think you're awkward but I'm sure others feel about you how you feel about your friend. She probably has lots of hang ups too, I'm sure she doesn't see herself as perfect like you see her. It's natural to get jealous like that anyway, shows you're surrounding yourself with great people and that's what needed to build great character. Besides, I'm sure you're as amazing as her and I'm sure that's how others see it!

 

T___T That was actually really reassuring and just what I needed to hear. Thanks Ryan.

[shhhhhhhhh]

I usually wake up early with my husband to fix his coffee before he goes to work. This morning we had cold coffees in the fridge so he says "you don't have to wake up this morning. Sleep in, I already have coffee." So I'm like hell yeah! I get extra sleep. Roll back over, close my eyes, and about 30 minutes later I'm wide awake at the ass crack of dawn on the one day I would get to sleep in. -__-

[dudclub55]

I usually wake up early with my husband to fix his coffee before he goes to work. This morning we had cold coffees in the fridge so he says "you don't have to wake up this morning. Sleep in, I already have coffee." So I'm like hell yeah! I get extra sleep. Roll back over, close my eyes, and about 30 minutes later I'm wide awake at the ass crack of dawn on the one day I would get to sleep in. -__-

Can't he, you know, make his own coffee? All it takes is 2 minutes.

Just sayin'

[floof]

 

I usually wake up early with my husband to fix his coffee before he goes to work. This morning we had cold coffees in the fridge so he says "you don't have to wake up this morning. Sleep in, I already have coffee." So I'm like hell yeah! I get extra sleep. Roll back over, close my eyes, and about 30 minutes later I'm wide awake at the ass crack of dawn on the one day I would get to sleep in. -__-

Can't he, you know, make his own coffee? All it takes is 2 minutes.

Just sayin'

It is the wife's job to brew the coffee in the morning, as her husband is the breadwinner in the house. He needs his rest and morning coffee in order to work hard for that day.

[dudclub55]

 

 

I usually wake up early with my husband to fix his coffee before he goes to work. This morning we had cold coffees in the fridge so he says "you don't have to wake up this morning. Sleep in, I already have coffee." So I'm like hell yeah! I get extra sleep. Roll back over, close my eyes, and about 30 minutes later I'm wide awake at the ass crack of dawn on the one day I would get to sleep in. -__-

Can't he, you know, make his own coffee? All it takes is 2 minutes.

Just sayin'

It is the wife's job to brew the coffee in the morning, as her husband is the breadwinner in the house. He needs his rest and morning coffee in order to work hard for that day.

It's not like it's a horribly complex and time consuming task, is it? It barely takes a few minutes.

But hey ho, those are just my 2 cents.

[Majestic81]

I cant help but laugh at everything coldmurda writes in this topic. those are my feelings.

Edited December 5, 2014 by Majestic81

[floof]

It's not like it's a horribly complex and time consuming task, is it? It barely takes a few minutes.

But hey ho, those are just my 2 cents.

Yes, you are correct in saying the job of the wife is rather remedial, but we can't expect the man to do everything for you, can we? Through natural law, it is the man's responsibility to earn the bread, and the woman's responsibility to bake it. All kitchen and cleaning tasks are the wife's responsibility, any deviation from that is a crime against gods will. If you are not comfortable speaking to your husband about your roll in the house I strongly recommend speaking to your priest to set you on the righteous path.

[dudclub55]

 

It's not like it's a horribly complex and time consuming task, is it? It barely takes a few minutes.

But hey ho, those are just my 2 cents.

Yes, you are correct in saying the job of the wife is rather remedial, but we can't expect the man to do everything for you, can we? Through natural law, it is the man's responsibility to earn the bread, and the woman's responsibility to bake it. All kitchen and cleaning tasks are the wife's responsibility, any deviation from that is a crime against gods will. If you are not comfortable speaking to your husband about your roll in the house I strongly recommend speaking to your priest to set you on the righteous path.

My husband beats me on a regular basis, can Jesus save me?

[Gay Tony]

I feel like this guy is pretty funny......

 

someones going to take him seriously and start a fight tho, if not here than somewhere else on the forum......

[dudclub55]

I feel like this guy is pretty funny......

 

someones going to take him seriously and start a fight tho, if not here than somewhere else on the forum......

What's funny? Jesus is funny? You filthy infidel, God has a special place reserved for all you non believers.

[floof]

My husband beats me on a regular basis, can Jesus save me?

In times where a wife forgets her role in the household, it is necessary for the man to set her in line. With that being said, Jesus will forgive all sins, but you must repent in confession. You are headed down a dark path, the same of which the young sexual confused girl I saved earlier was on. It is yet to late to turn into the light.

 

Your husband sounds like a good Christian man, I'd like to share a few sugar free lemonades with him one weekend.

[Majestic81]

Thats priceless. please.. do continue to amuse us.

[Panz]

Ok...so currently I'm feeling jealous now. >.> There's this girl who I really like and we're friends but I feel so inferior to her in every way. Her personality is much nicer and less awkward than mine and I feel like everyone likes her a million times more than me. She's a better asset, she's easy to talk to, she perfectly adapts to everyone's personalities and she's pretty and ughfuhdgfd. I know I shouldn't feel this way because I really like her too, so so much...but I'm jealous ;_;

You could've just told me you felt this way!

 

Lol, but in all seriousness, that's a perfectly normal feeling. We're all competitive in some way and feel a bit down when we don't feel good enough. That's why I tend not to have many girl friends. I just end up getting jealous or comparing myself to them. It's tough to get past that, but you have to realize that this girl might have fantastic qualities, but so do you, just in different ways. And chances are, she compares herself to you all the time, too. Do you hide that you feel this way? Because she could be hiding her jealousy, as well.

 

I know just about anyone on this forum will vouch for me when I say that you're gorgeous and one of the friendliest and funniest members on these boards. And I'd kill for those drawing skills of yours. Also an awkward personality is down-to-Earth and relatable and quirky, and that's a good thing as far as I'm concerned.

Edited December 5, 2014 by Panz

[Zorvaine]

Certain people I want to game with never seem to accept my Party Chat Invitations. I don't want to spam them, they don't reply, they continue to have me added so I have no indication of what to make of it.

 

Online solo tends to get boring at times...

Edited December 5, 2014 by Zorvaine

[Smith John]

I honestly can't tell if this coldmurda guy is serious or not, but either way f*cking lol

[Mr. Scratch]

Being heartbroken sucks more than I remember . I think I need a beer.

Edited December 5, 2014 by Mr.Scratch

[dudclub55]

Anybody mind listening to me vent?

[Wolf of Badenoch]

I've no idea why, but I feel like I'm getting close to having another breakdown. God, I f*cking hate feeling like this.

frankenstein107: Fire away, mate.

Edited December 5, 2014 by Wolf of Badenoch

[OverTheBelow]

Being heartbroken sucks more than I remember . I think I need a beer.

Give it a couple of weeks and it'll be much easier. Surround yourself with new people as much as possible and avoid her in life and any form of contact, even going as far as removing her from your social media completely. Beer can help if youre responsible about it (aka don't try to contact them with drunk soppy messages...). Constantly reminding yourself about the things you hated about them helps a massive deal too; make a list of your dislikes (however nitpicky). Soon the things you dislike about them would be the only thing you associate them with, so it's easy after that.

 

Heartbreak does suck, but it's only temporary. You learn a lot from it and your next relationship will probably be much better as a result.

[AlienTwo]

Anybody mind listening to me vent?

That's the point here, vent away.

[Mr. Scratch]

Avoiding her isn't difficult, it's the other way around though. And responsible drinking isn't something I'm good at.

Edited December 5, 2014 by Mr.Scratch

[dudclub55]

Why is it that my mother expects me to be this perfect man who will, I don't know, make her life perfect? I hate it so f*cking much when people expect too much out of me, I'm a giant f*ck up and I can never hold someone's expectations. It makes me nervous and even more likely to f*ck up. I don't trust myself and I don't want anybody else to trust me.

 

I don't even like to give people advice, I give it my best but I know the person im talking to very well knows im just spitting out nonsensical bullsh*t.

Edited December 5, 2014 by frankenstein107

[AlienTwo]

Maybe they expect from you what they know you are capable of, and viewing your own successes/failures from your own perspective is giving you a blurred, incorrect version of what you can accomplish. I would be more scared if they stopped expecting things. Then they have given up.

[dudclub55]

I want them to give up.. I don't want them to put up with my sh*t. Let ME suffer the consequences of my sh*tty and flawed personality. I don't want to hurt anybody else..

[Majestic81]

Being heartbroken sucks more than I remember . I think I need a beer.

Sucks. something similar happened to me a while ago. she turned me down and we ended up being friends. pretty good friends too, i've later realized that being together likely wouldnt have worked out and i was being rash when i suggested it. technically i never wanted a relationship with her in the first place. but we got too close and before i know it i was falling for her. good thing she understood the situation and didnt mind us staying friends. anyways im going off the rails. have a beer, listen to some music. talk to people close to you if you want. you'll get over it eventually man.

[AlienTwo]

I want them to give up.. I don't want them to put up with my sh*t. Let ME suffer the consequences of my sh*tty and flawed personality. I don't want to hurt anybody else..

Your parents love you and will never be able to be separated from you successes and failures. But that's a good thing. I hope whatever is really killing you now gets smoothed over soon, it sucks to see pain so evident.

[dudclub55]

I hope so too. I'm gonna try and smooth things over. thanks for listening.

[mareepx]

I often come to this thread, start writing something, and then delete it all and go about my normal business again.