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[feckyerlife]

After nearly a year, I think I finally figured out why girls don't like me; I'm a softie. I'm too compassionate and caring. I'm too friendly. Every girl I've been hitting on hasn't liked me because of it. They want a guy who has a sh*t load of money, is super athletic, and is too damn focused on sex to care about anything. I'm not like that. I'm not rich. I'm not athletic. I'm someone who will actually care and think about the girl I like. But none of it f*cking matters. Whenever I like a girl and try flirting with her, it always ends in a big, fat "no", a middle finger in my face, and some curse words. Every. Single. Time. I'm tired of people telling me something along the lines of "There's someone for everyone"- NO. It's a load of bullsh*t. I don't believe it. Enough with the lies. I'll never meet a girl that will like me. Ever.

sounds like they want you to make a move but you put yourself in the friendzone.

[I cucked Alex Jones]

After nearly a year, I think I finally figured out why girls don't like me; I'm a softie. I'm too compassionate and caring. I'm too friendly. Every girl I've been hitting on hasn't liked me because of it. They want a guy who has a sh*t load of money, is super athletic, and is too damn focused on sex to care about anything. I'm not like that. I'm not rich. I'm not athletic. I'm someone who will actually care and think about the girl I like. But none of it f*cking matters. Whenever I like a girl and try flirting with her, it always ends in a big, fat "no", a middle finger in my face, and some curse words. Every. Single. Time. I'm tired of people telling me something along the lines of "There's someone for everyone"- NO. It's a load of bullsh*t. I don't believe it. Enough with the lies. I'll never meet a girl that will like me. Ever.

[LightningLord]

 

After nearly a year, I think I finally figured out why girls don't like me; I'm a softie. I'm too compassionate and caring. I'm too friendly. Every girl I've been hitting on hasn't liked me because of it. They want a guy who has a sh*t load of money, is super athletic, and is too damn focused on sex to care about anything. I'm not like that. I'm not rich. I'm not athletic. I'm someone who will actually care and think about the girl I like. But none of it f*cking matters. Whenever I like a girl and try flirting with her, it always ends in a big, fat "no", a middle finger in my face, and some curse words. Every. Single. Time. I'm tired of people telling me something along the lines of "There's someone for everyone"- NO. It's a load of bullsh*t. I don't believe it. Enough with the lies. I'll never meet a girl that will like me. Ever.

Then what should I do? Give up?

[AlienTwo]

After nearly a year, I think I finally figured out why girls don't like me; I'm a softie. I'm too compassionate and caring. I'm too friendly. Every girl I've been hitting on hasn't liked me because of it. They want a guy who has a sh*t load of money, is super athletic, and is too damn focused on sex to care about anything. I'm not like that. I'm not rich. I'm not athletic. I'm someone who will actually care and think about the girl I like. But none of it f*cking matters. Whenever I like a girl and try flirting with her, it always ends in a big, fat "no", a middle finger in my face, and some curse words. Every. Single. Time. I'm tired of people telling me something along the lines of "There's someone for everyone"- NO. It's a load of bullsh*t. I don't believe it. Enough with the lies. I'll never meet a girl that will like me. Ever.

There is someone for everyone. I don't mean to be sounds belittling, but it will come with time, you're you young to just give up. Stay true to being a nice fella, a kind an compassionate dude. It will get noticed, by the right girl, and your life will be awesome. I promise.

 

Seriously.

[Voggs]

If they only care about you if you have money and all muscles, then you shouldn't even think about them anymore, people like that don't know how to love and will eventually leave you for another dude.

It's really good that you're a nice person, and that is what should matter, IMO. There's gotta be someone who will be interested in that.

[LightningLord]

...It's really good that you're a nice person, and that is what should matter, IMO. There's gotta be someone who will be interested in that.

From what I've seen and experienced, girls don't want that.

[Flachbau]

My guidance counselor keeps bringing up the topic of college. I don't know how to politely tell her, but I seriously cannot afford the outrageous expenses - and it sucks because I would love to actually go and pass and get a degree but I don't think it'll ever happen.

 

I'm just really upset right now.

Edited December 2, 2014 by android

[LightningLord]

My guidance counselor keeps bringing up the topic of college. I don't know how to politely tell her, but I seriously cannot afford the outrageous expenses - and it sucks because I would love to actually go and pass and get a degree but I don't think it'll ever happen.

My teachers keep bringing up college too. I don't have a job, grades are average, I don't see myself going to college. It's too expensive. Edited December 2, 2014 by LightningLord411

[AlienTwo]

 

...It's really good that you're a nice person, and that is what should matter, IMO. There's gotta be someone who will be interested in that.

From what I've seen and experienced, girls don't want that.

 

Like I said, be patient. The good ones do.

[Undyne]

I'm currently recovering from a really bad flu. I can't wait until I'm finally able to taste food and smell like normal people.

[Gay Tony]

It could be worse lighting, you could be gay, living in a christian community, with only 3-5% of the general population who think like you.

[Aby]

My guidance counselor keeps bringing up the topic of college. I don't know how to politely tell her, but I seriously cannot afford the outrageous expenses - and it sucks because I would love to actually go and pass and get a degree but I don't think it'll ever happen.

 

I'm just really upset right now.

 

Community college.

[LightningLord]

 

 

My guidance counselor keeps bringing up the topic of college. I don't know how to politely tell her, but I seriously cannot afford the outrageous expenses - and it sucks because I would love to actually go and pass and get a degree but I don't think it'll ever happen.

 

I'm just really upset right now.

Community college.

I've heard of that but don't know what it is. Can you explain it?

[feckyerlife]

 

My guidance counselor keeps bringing up the topic of college. I don't know how to politely tell her, but I seriously cannot afford the outrageous expenses - and it sucks because I would love to actually go and pass and get a degree but I don't think it'll ever happen.

 

I'm just really upset right now.

 

Community college.

 

is expenive these days too. when i went, which was like 12yrs ago. it was like 40bucks a credit, now its like almost 200 a credit.

 

 

My guidance counselor keeps bringing up the topic of college. I don't know how to politely tell her, but I seriously cannot afford the outrageous expenses - and it sucks because I would love to actually go and pass and get a degree but I don't think it'll ever happen.

 

I'm just really upset right now.

Community college.

I've heard of that but don't know what it is. Can you explain it?

 

local colleges funded by the state or city, usually you can what they call an associates degree then transfer to a 4yr school. or you can get certified as well

[Aby]

I've heard of that but don't know what it is. Can you explain it?

 

 

-You go there for two years, and transfer to a 4-year school when you're done.

 

-Extremely cheap compared to a 4-year school, especially since everyone commutes, there is no living on campus

 

is expenive these days too. when i went, which was like 12yrs ago. it was like 40bucks a credit, now its like almost 200 a credit.

 

I'm in community college right now, and I'm not paying "200 a credit."

[mr quick]

Page 175 !

 

 

I feel sh*tty that I can't play music because of my tendinitis =(

Edited December 2, 2014 by Marwin Moody

[feckyerlife]

 

I've heard of that but don't know what it is. Can you explain it?

 

 

-You go there for two years, and transfer to a 4-year school when you're done.

 

-Extremely cheap compared to a 4-year school, especially since everyone commutes, there is no living on campus

 

is expenive these days too. when i went, which was like 12yrs ago. it was like 40bucks a credit, now its like almost 200 a credit.

 

I'm in community college right now, and I'm not paying "200 a credit."

 

are you in american or some other country

 

this is the local college to me

http://www.nvcc.edu/future-students/paying-for-college/tuition-fees/

[Aby]

I'll have to check my registration statement for my bill. Community college is not expensive, and if you get financial aid (I don't)? PFFFFFT you're completely covered, plus more. I got a friend who is covered by financial aid so he basically gets his classes paid for, and has money left over to spend. Dude bought an $800 laptop.

[Zook]

My guidance counselor keeps bringing up the topic of college. I don't know how to politely tell her, but I seriously cannot afford the outrageous expenses - and it sucks because I would love to actually go and pass and get a degree but I don't think it'll ever happen.

 

I'm just really upset right now.

You cannot now but who's to say that you won't after completing your degree? If you really want to go for it. And while you're at it if you get loads of work experiences/internships. That should increase your chances of gaining graduate employment. But what do I know I have no idea what the American job market is like:S

 

But you get one life if you really want to go you may as well. YOLO

[feckyerlife]

I'll have to check my registration statement for my bill. Community college is not expensive, and if you get financial aid (I don't)? PFFFFFT you're completely covered, plus more. I got a friend who is covered by financial aid so he basically gets his classes paid for, and has money left over to spend. Dude bought an $800 laptop.

im not from a low income family, so i never qualified lol. which never made sense to me on why i couldnt

[dudclub55]

I just found a completely unused PS1 slim in my father's wardrobe. Feels.

[Xavierr]

I've realized why I can't stop thinking about that girl - I made a move ( a sucessful move) for the first time in four years - now I'm not sure if I want to make another move because I'm attracted to her or because I subconsciously want to prove to myself I can handle doing this romance thing.

 

 

but still , I'm not sure if she has something going on with my friend. And I am about to move soon anyways ,my brain says no, but I still wanna go for it anyways but I just really like intimacy and affection, which I haven't felt in four years....grrr

 

[PinkRibbonScars]

It feels like none of the friends that I have will be permanent, don't get me wrong I care for them and I would stick my neck out for a few of them, but I think as time moves on we may grow apart like a few other friends that I know of. It feels like most of the friends that I've made and will make will be considered chapter or a period of my life. It feels like my life will really be worth my while once I've made it out of this long story arc that I call the Trials and Perils of Academia.

[IveGotNoValues]

After nearly a year, I think I finally figured out why girls don't like me; I'm a softie. I'm too compassionate and caring. I'm too friendly. Every girl I've been hitting on hasn't liked me because of it. They want a guy who has a sh*t load of money, is super athletic, and is too damn focused on sex to care about anything. I'm not like that. I'm not rich. I'm not athletic. I'm someone who will actually care and think about the girl I like. But none of it f*cking matters. Whenever I like a girl and try flirting with her, it always ends in a big, fat "no", a middle finger in my face, and some curse words. Every. Single. Time. I'm tired of people telling me something along the lines of "There's someone for everyone"- NO. It's a load of bullsh*t. I don't believe it. Enough with the lies. I'll never meet a girl that will like me. Ever.

I've given up on girls man. I mean not that I was ever trying. The few girls I've ever had relationships with in my life all came to me. Like I've never actually tried to peruse a girl, f*ck that, it's not my thing at all...i'm too stubborn and introverted. I guess I do it all backwards, I just wait for the girls to come to me. It's a rare occurrence, but when a girl does take interest in me and starts a conversation (usually through text cause they somehow get ahold of my number) I just sort of act uninterested and I guess that really drives them crazy, so then they try to get more out of me. Eventually i'll open up to them though.

 

Basically that's my strategy with women, I call it the depressed loner technique (not really I just made that name up...i'm not THAT weird). Just mind your own business and look independent and mysterious, and there's a chance you might catch the curiosity of a girl. If not then whatever, there's more important things to worry about, and if you don't associate with girls (like me) then you don't have to worry about getting your heart broken and sh*t, cause that hurts alot.

Edited December 2, 2014 by IveGotNoValues

[Xavierr]

I just came across another cheater story on reddit... 8/10 am terrified of dating again.

[Aby]

Haven't been this stressed out and depressed since high school. These next few weeks need to blow over quickly...

[theadmiral]

Haven't been this stressed out and depressed since high school. These next few weeks need to blow over quickly...

What about a few months ago when that drug deal went south?

[Gay Tony]

Haven't been this stressed out and depressed since high school. These next few weeks need to blow over quickly...

Exams?

 

I feel your pain. so tense and anxious goddamnit

[IveGotNoValues]

Haven't been this stressed out and depressed since high school. These next few weeks need to blow over quickly...

I feel you. I'm waiting for the entire month of December to pass...maybe then things will improve, it being a fresh new year and all. I'm done with 2014.

[Gay Tony]

I feel you. I'm waiting for the entire month of December to pass...maybe then things will improve, it being a fresh new year and all. I'm done with 2014.

Extremely happy about this tho. Two weeks off school next week til after new year and only working a few hours.

 

I'm go into nerd mode

Edited December 3, 2014 by mr toasterbutt