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Why are people so concerned with who I date?


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It sounds like your coworker's miserable and feels the need to bring somebody else down to make themselves feel better. She's more than welcome to feel "slighted", but don't let her petty issues get to you - tell her to mind her business or ignore her, either way it's not your problem.

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If it makes you feel any better, I don't give a sh*t who you date.

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I am dating a woman 10 years younger than me meaning I am in my 30s and she is in her 20s. The other day she came by to give me something and I introduced her to my coworkers and one in particular wants to get on my case about why I can't date a woman my own age. She also says I need to grow up and stop being a Peter Pan. This from somebody who wouldn't know a healthy relationship if it fell on her lap and is in a ton of debt. Why is she concerned with my business?

Why are you concerned about them being concerned about your business?

 

But anyways, I hear ya. My gf is 28, I'm 37. It's never really been an issue for me, and if it was, I'd just tell people it's none of their f*cking beeswax.

Signatures are dumb anyway.

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I am dating a woman 10 years younger than me meaning I am in my 30s and she is in her 20s. The other day she came by to give me something and I introduced her to my coworkers and one in particular wants to get on my case about why I can't date a woman my own age. She also says I need to grow up and stop being a Peter Pan. This from somebody who wouldn't know a healthy relationship if it fell on her lap and is in a ton of debt. Why is she concerned with my business?

i am 34 my wife is 28, i dont see the big deal. hell jayz is like 20yrs older then beyonce, tell them to go ask him

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Either:

 

a.) She's lonely, miserable, and wanna drag you in into her misery

 

b.) She's secretly in love with you

 

or

 

c.) She actually think that the age gap between you and your gf are absurd.

 

Nonetheless, if you both happy and she is still bothering you, then ignore her. My grampa and step-granma had a 25-year age gap and both of them happy until the end.

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My GF is not in debt and she seems capable of having a healthy relationship. I am talking about my coworker. In fact my GF is a lot more mature and together than many women twice her age.

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There was a 20 years difference in age between my mom and step-father (deceased) so I fail to see a problem with dating someone younger or older than you. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters.

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As long as she is of the legal age of consent, All is well, Your co-worker just has a stick up her ass.

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RandallFlagg00

 

 

 

 

Maybe because you're in your 30s and you don't know when to use "whom?"

But using whom makes you sound like an old lady

 

Do you also have a problem with this advertisement?

 

Did they have to make them awkwardly run and punch in place. Did not help make their point.

It sounds like your coworker's miserable and feels the need to bring somebody else down to make themselves feel better. She's more than welcome to feel "slighted", but don't let her petty issues get to you - tell her to mind her business or ignore her, either way it's not your problem.

This is what it is.

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Ai®a©ob®a

 

 

well, US law would call it statutory rape. but yeah.

I wasn't the only senior dating a freshman.

you don't usually hear too many statutory cases being brought against high school kids.

 

 

all it takes is some batsh*t crazy, or religious (i know there's a joke in there somewhere), parents. and i bet you it happens way more often than you'd think.

 

Personally, i think in most cases your example is no problem, especially since most 18 year old boys are on the same level of maturity as 14 year old girls.

I'll clear something up here...

 

Most states in the U.S have a law that allows people who are of consent age to have sex can have sex with someone who is 3 to 5 years their senior so if where he lives the age of consent is 14 which it is in some states and him being 18 he may not have gotten in trouble but in other states he would've.

 

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Solo is correct it happens ALOT more than you think, These cases aren't reported by the media.

 

OT: Because some people are too damn nosy for their own good.

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Did they have to make them awkwardly run and punch in place. Did not help make their point

The point of the video was to show what adults and men think that little girls do when doing those things and the girls show how they actually do it.

 

It's a good video but like you said it doesn't make much sense

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RandallFlagg00

 

 

Did they have to make them awkwardly run and punch in place. Did not help make their point

The point of the video was to show what adults and men think that little girls do when doing those things and the girls show how they actually do it.

 

It's a good video but like you said it doesn't make much sense

I get the idea. And I think they made a good point. But it kind of backfired with the fake throwing, running, and punching in place. If they'd had them actually throwing a ball, running for real, and maybe kicking the sh*t out of somebody it would have been more effective.

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I am dating a woman 10 years younger than me meaning I am in my 30s and she is in her 20s. The other day she came by to give me something and I introduced her to my coworkers and one in particular wants to get on my case about why I can't date a woman my own age. She also says I need to grow up and stop being a Peter Pan. This from somebody who wouldn't know a healthy relationship if it fell on her lap and is in a ton of debt. Why is she concerned with my business?

 

Just use what you know about her to your advantage and then say that you don't get involved in her business so she should stay out of yours. There is nothing wrong with going out with someone that is older or younger than you. The girl you're dating is in her 20s so she is mature enough to be in a serious relationship. It's not like you're 32 and you're dating a 14 year old girl that doesn't even understand the meaning of love or a serious relationship.

 

Even if I did object against it, why the f*ck should I or anyone else care? It's your life therefore it is your business

 

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it

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I see nothing wrong with age differences in relationships, insofar that both individuals are at least the age of consent. Shortly after high school, I moved in with a woman 12 years older than me for a period of about 3 months until it was apparent that the relationship was based purely on attraction. She had a thing for younger guys and I honestly didn't mind being with an older woman, my parents weren't too pleased though.

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This from somebody who wouldn't know a healthy relationship if it fell on her lap and is in a ton of debt. Why is she concerned with my business?

You answered your own question buddy. You're an older man who's either good looking, charming (or both) enough to attract a woman 10 years younger and she's jealous you're capable where she's failed. Tell her to mind her own business and tell her if she spent more time worrying about her own relationships than other people's she wouldn't be alone.

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