IveGotNoValues Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 I don't and never have had friends IRL, is that good or bad? Friends are overrated anyway man. The less friends you have, the less bullsh*t you have to deal with, and the less heartbreak you'll have to endure if anything happens to them (whether it be death or betrayal). nkaujrog and Kalvin 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Harwood Bitcher Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 I don't feel like making friends (look at me, i'm the most original person of the forum!!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shhhhhhhhh Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 People can be pretty sh*tty. But you have to remember that there are good people out there. It may take a while to weed them out from the others, but they're definitely there. Sometimes too though, you have to do a little soul searching and really look back at yourself because while you think you're an awesome person or whatever, someone else could see some character flaws that you need to work on. And for the love of everything, don't stop being a decent, caring human being just because someone f*cked you over. The world needs more good hearted people. Affalterbach and Flūttershy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
headmetalbanger Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 Find good friends is hard to me, 6 years ago I met amazing people from other countries, in my country in those 6 years I found no one. Most people here are boring. There only old friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crazyeighties Posted October 3, 2014 Author Share Posted October 3, 2014 People can be pretty sh*tty. But you have to remember that there are good people out there. It may take a while to weed them out from the others, but they're definitely there. Sometimes too though, you have to do a little soul searching and really look back at yourself because while you think you're an awesome person or whatever, someone else could see some character flaws that you need to work on. And for the love of everything, don't stop being a decent, caring human being just because someone f*cked you over. The world needs more good hearted people. I know I have to work on certain things, and I am doing so, but when these "flaws" turn out to be something that can't be helped the so called friends use these flaws that can not be helped or corrected against you it makes one feel like rubbish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nkaujrog Posted October 3, 2014 Share Posted October 3, 2014 I'm not good at keeping female friends, but I tend to be good friends with my male friends. I don't know why that is .. even now I don't have a female friend I can truly confide in because they don't last long .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarshalMoo Posted October 3, 2014 Share Posted October 3, 2014 Everyone who thinks friends are bad just need to find good friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Osho Posted October 3, 2014 Share Posted October 3, 2014 Nope. Most of them are like part of the family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twilight Sky Posted October 3, 2014 Share Posted October 3, 2014 (edited) People can be pretty sh*tty. But you have to remember that there are good people out there. It may take a while to weed them out from the others, but they're definitely there. Sometimes too though, you have to do a little soul searching and really look back at yourself because while you think you're an awesome person or whatever, someone else could see some character flaws that you need to work on. And for the love of everything, don't stop being a decent, caring human being just because someone f*cked you over. The world needs more good hearted people. I don't know. I've been losing my desire to be a good person, gradually.. and while I wont "lash out" at people, my altruistic nature probably wont be there anymore. Edited October 3, 2014 by Twilight Sky Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Onett Posted October 3, 2014 Share Posted October 3, 2014 Both are especially hard for me, since I have Asperger's I tend to alienate people without even realising it, but I'm getting better, I suppose. hornedturtle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thatguy718 Posted October 3, 2014 Share Posted October 3, 2014 Friendship is magic although I don't bother with it due to the fact I'm more the loner type and finding a decent friend is near-impossible. I can't be dealing with friends especially when I've got video games that require my attention anyway. I do however have a few good friends online that I can have a decent conversation with. IveGotNoValues 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LiniArc Posted October 3, 2014 Share Posted October 3, 2014 Friends sometimes turn out to Rival;But still I behave the same way with them as I did before. I remember what my mother says:God is with Truth Always. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IveGotNoValues Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 I'm not good at keeping female friends, but I tend to be good friends with my male friends. I don't know why that is .. even now I don't have a female friend I can truly confide in because they don't last long .. I have the same problem with lack female friends...but I'm a guy so it's different I guess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nkaujrog Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 I'm not good at keeping female friends, but I tend to be good friends with my male friends. I don't know why that is .. even now I don't have a female friend I can truly confide in because they don't last long .. I have the same problem with lack female friends...but I'm a guy so it's different I guess Be my friend then. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gdog Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 yes. i've just always been a quiet guy. i was alright until half way through highschool. people started leaving and i just never kept in touch with them. i had a group of friends in high school until i left but ever since i've only really spoke to one of them. and it's been that way for pretty much the last 6 years. i don't need a lot of friends and i like to spend a lot of time by myself. and i love my best friend but...yknow just kinda wish it was easier to make friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoleInTheSky Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 Keeping them. That's what separates flybys to real friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dudclub55 Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 I find it hard to make AND keep friends because I don't give a f*ck. I'm am introvert and I love it. nkaujrog 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnny_zoo Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 Yes. I generally don't want lots of friends and am picky about who I would be around but I still want a friend here and there to talk to and confide in its just hard to open up with new people and jump from acquaintance talk, to close friend talk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twilight Sky Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 Keeping them. That's what separates flybys to real friends. Yeah, you shouldn't have to *try* and keep them. Real ones will stick around for years.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Femme Fatale Posted October 8, 2014 Share Posted October 8, 2014 (edited) I usually make friends at work. Especially pretty or decent looking females who are single. It doesn't matter how old she is. Unlike my picky relationship with guys, I'll date 40 or even 50 year old females. You gotta love Milfs... Sometimes it's hard to maintain a stable friendship... Edited October 8, 2014 by MotelGuy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gnocchi Flip Flops Posted October 8, 2014 Share Posted October 8, 2014 (edited) I don't make friends as I'm pretty much an introvert and like to keep to myself. I have made some acquaintances in the past but that's it. I don't even like to have conversations that much and find small talk to be tedious and annoying. I couldn't really be bothered with having a real friendship unless I meet somebody who I can really connect with. Edited October 8, 2014 by Sting4S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
79'Blazer4x4 Posted October 8, 2014 Share Posted October 8, 2014 I don't seem to have any problem making and keeping male friends(though I tend not cause I'm not a very social person), however I can never seem to keep a friendship with a female for more than a year. If I were to guess why that's the case I'd say I'm too clingy towards them and it drives them away cause people generally don't like clingy, It's one of the things I hate the most about myself and no matter how hard I try not to be I always end up being clingy, haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fallcreek Posted October 8, 2014 Share Posted October 8, 2014 (edited) Growing up, I always had a tough time making friends. Mainly because my anxiety, and low self-confidence. I was, by definitition an introvert. With that said, i'm more sociable over the internet, and i've met some of my greatest friends here; on the internet, gaming. They've stuck around for over 7 years. Seemed like such a long time ago, playing the original Saints Row and GTA IV lol. Edited October 8, 2014 by Fallcreek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kohr-Ah Posted October 8, 2014 Share Posted October 8, 2014 I have had few true friends throughout the course of my life. But the friends that I have made have always held a place in my heart (cheesy but true). Of course, I don't talk to them face-to-face anymore, for reasons I won't disclose here (it's nothing bad, I assure you). But I do still talk to them over Xbox and the like, so it's something. I find it easier to speak over a mic anyway. But yeah, I find it a bit hard to make more friends nowadays. I think it's because I want to avoid prejudice, and so I try to talk only when I need to. But who knows. Maybe I'm just an antisocial coward. Time will tell, I suppose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ed85 Posted October 10, 2014 Share Posted October 10, 2014 op it seems to me you are public enemy number one or the talk of the town it can't be coincidence so many people jerk you around. being a gay man or a man sexually attracted to children can turn a lot of people off and the big secret of them not knowing you know that is what they don't like about you can make your life hell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Majestic81 Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 (edited) Friends are overrated anyway, i noticed most people who when i first meet, one of the first things they say to me is ''i have lots of friends'' are f*cking posers. you only need one or two friends in your life who are loyal. Edited October 12, 2014 by Majestic81 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
79'Blazer4x4 Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 Friends are overrated anyway, i noticed most people who when i first meet, one of the first things they say to me is ''i have lots of friends'' are f*cking posers. you only need one or two friends in your life who are loyal. Agreed, when someone says they have "lots of friends" what they actually mean is they have lots of aquaintances who will just abandon them as soon as the "friendship" isn't opportune for them. Not saying it's bad to have a lot of those or anything since they're good for having fun with but you shouldn't rely on them in times of need and should at least have a couple real friends as well that will stick with you when stuff gets bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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