jpalmer2004 Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 Hi Guys, So, I've got this situation going on right now with this girl. Long story short, We are both managers of the same department in a Hospital. She is my superior. I do all the training and patient contact stuff and she does the book work. We've known each other for a little over a year now. I am going to explain my side first. Since the first day she was hired I've always considered her attractive. But not until the last couple of months have I really gotten to know her and enjoyed being around her. Its crazy how much I think of this woman. I had very intimate dreams about her all last week (not sexual) and I woke up with a smile on face every morning. Now, her side. She's 37 (I'm 30) married with three kids 9, 17 and 21. I can't say how she feels about me. but, I can pick up on the subtle clues she really likes being around me. When she calls me to her office we can sit and talk about personal things for a long time together. We pretty much see things I to I. She's told me she feels very comfortable around me and she feels like she's known me forever. Our childhood was very similar as well. I also notice how she looks at me. I'm no Bradley Cooper. But, I go to the gym five days a week and I am pretty fit. Friday after work I got this really strange vibe from her while talking to her when she was going to pick up her daughter. We were talking like we always do. I would call it comfortable We know each other giggly stuff, all appropriate non affair kind of stuff. As soon as her daughter got in the car her tone changed to superior manager type talk and immediately she had to go. I got that whole she's trying to hide her true feelings kind of thing. With that said, I am not going to have an affair with my superior. I love where I work and never plan on leaving. But, I do see this whole thing evolving. I don't know what into. I know she's gone through marriage counseling and I don't think she'll ever cheat. What do you guys think I should do? Just let things sort themselves out and see what happens? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryan Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 You answered your own question the second you said she's married with three kids. grumpy cat meme, Mister Pink, Franceska and 25 others 28 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Tel Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 She is my superior She's 37 (I'm 30) married with three kids 9, 17 and 21. Avoid getting romantically involved at all costs. Also, avoid drinking alcohol around this woman ever. Melech, GN 92, milkmansun and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I cucked Alex Jones Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 Does listen to these guys. You can never have enough women. Imagine how cool all your friends will think you are. Acehilm, GrandMaster Smith, BnB and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jpalmer2004 Posted June 22, 2014 Author Share Posted June 22, 2014 Does listen to these guys. You can never have enough women. Imagine how cool all your friends will think you are. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I cucked Alex Jones Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 That's the spirit! Don't think about all the repercussions for you, or her, or anyone else. Just think about the pussy. Mr. House and Sugar Free Nos 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abel. Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 (edited) Do you feel comfortable with nice personolding a man? Do you feel comfortable with destroying a family unit and thus condemning several children to a broken home? If so, then go for it. Edited June 22, 2014 by elanman epoxi, universetwisters, Sugar Free Nos and 7 others 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Majestic81 Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 (edited) What the 2 first guys said. dont go for a woman with children. and dont think for a second that you're two close unless you're 100% sure of it. she could be using you for all you know. wouldnt surprise me. you said it yourself she likes you being around. thats probably it. Edit: lmfao, didnt read the married part, thought she was divorced with kids. yeah OP what the heck man? Edited June 22, 2014 by Majestic81 milkmansun 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jpalmer2004 Posted June 22, 2014 Author Share Posted June 22, 2014 (edited) Do you feel comfortable with nice personolding a man? Do you feel comfortable with destroying a family unit and thus condemning several children to a broken home? If so, then go for it. I want no part of cockholding a man. The whole family thing is my biggest fear. If anything does come out of this. I want all of it to be her choice The thing is. I was thinking about what if something does come out of this. I really don't care that she has kids. Every other girl i think about dating or getting into a relationship I immediately run when i see she has kids. I swear im going through some weird mind f*ck right now...I'm freaking out a little.. Edited June 22, 2014 by jpalmer2004 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Creed Bratton Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 Just whip it out. Andreas, The Leviathan, iBUCKEYE and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abel. Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 (edited) Do you feel comfortable with nice personolding a man? Do you feel comfortable with destroying a family unit and thus condemning several children to a broken home? If so, then go for it. I want no part of cockholding a man. The whole family thing is my biggest fear. If anything does come out of this. I want all of it to be her choice The thing is. I was thinking about what if something does come out of this. I really don't care that she has kids. Every other girl i think about dating or getting into a relationship I immediately run when i see she has kids. Well, do you feel comfortable with effectively usurping a man's position as husband and rendering his children unable to trust their partners in all future relationships? It's not my place to judge you, and I shan't, but there really is no point in asking us for advice. Are you trying to preemptively cleanse your conscience? If that's the case, then clearly you think that what you intend is wrong. If you feel no moral opposition to taking things further, then surely there's nothing stopping you and you needn't ask for advice. Edited June 22, 2014 by elanman johnny_zoo, milkmansun and Melech 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Leviathan Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 Just whip it out. iBUCKEYE, Sugar Free Nos and Finn 7 five 11 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Brown Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 Just don't do it. Keep it in your pants. Holy sh*t, I didn't think this even needed to be said. El Dildo, Andreas, Abel. and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Dildo Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 what are you 16? don't do it. go on Craigslist and get the poison out if you have to, but don't pursue this nonsense. she's married and you're both managers. you wanna' ruin her marriage, her life, and get you both fired? there's PLENTY of fish in the sea. Moonshield, Abel., Frank Brown and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theadmiral Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 Tell her while at work that you love her and have been having intimate (but not sexual) dreams about her and that you are willing to quit to be with her. TEoS and Mr. House 2 I AM SORRY ABOUT THE QUALITY OF THE VIDEO, BUT MY WEBCAM IS ABSOLUTELY RUBBISH. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xyn Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 She has kids and a husband and you don't want to leave where you work.... it's pretty obvious it's not going to work. A one time fling, perhaps...but I can't see this being positive in the long run. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 She's got three kids. You could probably toss a hotdog down that hallway by now. Killerdude, AboveAndBeyoncé, Durden and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
make total destroy Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 First thing that popped into my head. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA_stu Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 Don't be a home wrecker and sh*t all over a family. I mean you might as well just pull up in your car, wind your window down, stick your buttocks out and spray the 3 kids with diarrhea. In fact that'd be preferable to actually permanently wrecking their lives. Don't be that guy. Finn 7 five 11, Trinette, billy-pilgrim and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H. León Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 I say damned if you do, damned if you don't. Just remember love is one of the strongest emotions one can feel, if you feel something as good as that, go for it. Stop being a pussy and accept what you really want. After all, what if you lose your job? Does your job really make you that happy? If this crap went down the toilet, I'd personally be happier of losing my job in order to try to fulfill my passion. Regret is the worst thing in the world, listen to your heart. OR, just Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danz. Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 (edited) This is not a "Girl Question", this, actually, is a married woman's answer: NO! If you have any kind of lust for sexy MILFs, you can always find these kind of women, though you should look for the ones who don't already have a husband, unless you want to end up like this guy: Edited June 23, 2014 by Danz. EphemeralStar 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Brown Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 I say damned if you do, damned if you don't. Just remember love is one of the strongest emotions one can feel, if you feel something as good as that, go for it. Stop being a pussy and accept what you really want. After all, what if you lose your job? Does your job really make you that happy? If this crap went down the toilet, I'd personally be happier of losing my job in order to try to fulfill my passion. I think in some cultures they call that idiocy. Finn 7 five 11, Abel. and Andreas 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H. León Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 I agree my views might seem idiotic, but NOTHING beats happiness. To other cultures, it's called courage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Brown Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 I agree my views might seem idiotic, but NOTHING beats happiness. To other cultures, it's called courage. N-no? Sleeping with a married woman isn't courage. Abel., Finn 7 five 11, GTA_stu and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raavi Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 Your member title says it all. Andreas and Finn 7 five 11 2 – overeducated wonk who fetishises compromise Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
make total destroy Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 (edited) Happiness is hard to achieve when you're homeless because you quit your job to pursue some fairy-tale-esque, idealistic notion of romantic love. Edited June 23, 2014 by ShootPeopleNotDope Josh, Raavi, Finn 7 five 11 and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GunWrath Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 There's nothing wrong with handjobs though. Go for that instead.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyler Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 With that said, I am not going to have an affair with my superior. Well, problem solved then, isn't it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Finn 7 five 11 Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 I agree my views might seem idiotic, but NOTHING beats happiness. To other cultures, it's called courage. This is insanely ridiculous. Are you saying that because Hitler was in the pursuit of happiness it's fine and he's not idiotic, simply courageous? Courage and idiocy are often intertwined by the way. Don't be a f*cking home-wrecker, are you god damn serious right now? This woman and you probably do have a connection of sorts, but for you it's an obsession that you're willing to pursue to the bitter end - even if it means an ugly divorce and three kids growing up in a broken home. Did you know they've recently discovered that stress as a child can actually damage DNA? - However for your woman, you might just be some flirtatious fun at work, someone to still have a fun giggle with, but her love is with her husband, just take what you have man, at least you have someone to build up the sexual tension with so you can go home and masturbate, don't ruin it, good friendships like that without f*cking don't come along often, and you could possibly lose your job in a "Courageous" (Idiotic) effort to try and get your dick wet, with a married damn woman, don't ruin what's already a good thing for something that carries too much risk and is extremely stupid hurting too many people in the process. Andreas, na89340qv0n34b09q340, AboveAndBeyoncé and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danz. Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 There's nothing wrong with handjobs though. Go for that instead.. He can give himself handjobs, not worth the risk of losing the job. I can say that, in his age and situation, he can go as far as sucking what the maturity only improves in his boss. Anything more than that, would stablish stronger ties that could ruin his career. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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