Crying and how to Control Adrenaline in a fight

[KD himan]

I have a silly Problem, since i am in my 9th grade, i've have to face many class fights and and all of them were not harmful to me, but i think it only happens to me,

Here in my country, students in my standard or other standards just want a reason to fight, weather to make anyone irritate and angry, they only want to fight and show off them self. i am not one of those punks who do unreasonable Fights, i am a good student who gets a A+ in his grade [ Believe me ] and ofcourse other students are jealous of me. they always makes joke on me which are over limit and just f*cks my brain, They do not bully me! just make me fight with them.

 

Alright here's the question - When i began to start a fight with someone [ i am not any martial artist or anything ] my heat beats starts running fast as hell, i cant really control myself, this was not the first time i've ever facing a fight, even i got beat up sometimes shamefully, so why i always become frustrated and cant control my Adrenaline? today, i just hit my knee to my classmate's throat and he was unable to breathe [ he was so f*cking acting like a pro and wanted to get me hit by teacher -_- ] and after the fight ended, i become to cry, i dont know why i cry even i beat up someone, i think its only water in my eyes. but this really annoying. i want some suggestions on how should i control my Adrenaline in a fight.

 

I dont need any fighting tips because i know how to street fight

 

 

Summary - I just need any tips on how should i let my heartbeat slower in fight and try to stop getting tears [ *water ] in my eyes.

 

 

please don't tell me to ''study kid, ignore them, report to teacher or other stuffs, i cant let myself shut up like dumbs, please sorry for my bad english, i know it cant be understandable for you but please try so and i am expecting some good answers.

 

[Harley]

YOU CAN ACT LIKE A MAN

[KD himan]

Acting is in other way, but i was talking about fight, even i am bit skinny but students who have much strength then me are shorter than me and that's my +tive point.

 

EDIT - I forget to tell you that i do not cry, idk just tears come in my eyes.

Edited April 24, 2014 by KD himan

[Shmoopy]

Make a deep breath , that should stabilize your heartbeat , then out of nowhere pull out a massive Subwoofer and hit the play button : http://o5wap.ru/content/mp3/full/4/c/b/MC_Hammer_-_U_Cant_Touch_This.mp3

And show them what you can you do with your hands

[I cucked Alex Jones]

What are you? Some kind of woman?

[WTFThisIsntWii]

I'm in the military and we have to control our breathing during combat to ensure we can think and aim better. Best tactic is to breathe in count to 3, breath out count to 3, breath in count to 3 and repeat. It'll slow your hear rate down.

 

Also 90% of amateur fights will start with a right hook. So be prepared to raise your right arm for a block and hit with your left at the same time.

 

If they lunge at you step to the side and pull them towards you. They'll trip and you can smack them while they're on the ground.

 

Try to avoid kicking as its easy for them to grab your feet. Try sweeping them with your foot or tripping them.

 

Even if you don't win, make sure you lay into the bully enough so he won't f*ck with you again.

 

Don't worry about clean fighting hit them where you can when you can.

 

Also don't worry about what those guys calling you weak. I think wanting to fight back or to defend yourself is a strong decision. These bullies won't stop unless you give them enough of a beating to make them go hey he'll fight back let's not pick on him. Remember you don't have to beat them just injure them as much as you can and don't cry. If you get smashed and can stand up and walk away they'll be scared to try it next time. If you want some more tips bro just ask.

Edited April 24, 2014 by WTFThisIsntWii

[Voodoo]

Get some badass sunglasses to hide those tears.

 

[I cucked Alex Jones]

Don't be this guy.

 

Edited April 24, 2014 by Nipperkins

[KD himan]

Who's this guy? ^ i've seen in Member's photo thread.

EDIT - Thanks WTFThisIsntWii that may help me

Edited April 24, 2014 by KD himan

[Otter]

Don't fight. Use your words. Sounds like you can handle yourself if you are attacked, so that's good, but it sounds like you let you emotions get the better of you in these situations.

[WTFThisIsntWii]

Don't fight. Use your words. Sounds like you can handle yourself if you are attacked, so that's good, but it sounds like you let you emotions get the better of you in these situations.

Word's won't help, if you talk back to a bully they're not going to see your view or logic and just leave you alone. They're going to feed on this, twist your words, pick on you more because they're getting a response. It doesn't help that most bullies have those stupid friends who will support them and chime in.

 

I agree with what your saying but up to a point words aren't going to help. If someone wants to fight you they're not going to be convinced not to by a few words especially immature kids looking to act tough. It's not like the movies where someone picks on you, you say a clever line and they leave you alone. Or you fight back, win and everything is good.

 

Telling the teachers won't do much in my experience, they'll either give the bullies a warning or just tell you come back when something happens. The bullies will probably ramp up the abuse once you tell on them.

 

Honestly not fighting back isn't really a good choice either, lots of schools have zero tolerance policies. I've seen many fights where a kids been bullied and bashed without fighting back. But the school will punish both the assailant and victim equally. So you might as well put a few hits in while you can.

 

The best thing you can do is lay into them. If they want to fight you, stand your ground. They may be all talk because they know you won't fight them. If they do go through with it make sure you hurt them as much as they hurt you. This will make them think twice before bullying you again because hey this kid stands up for himeself and will hit me back. They'll find someone else to bully. So I say go for it give them a run for their money.

 

Remember the first punch is normally always a right hand so get ready to block it and counter with your left to the nose. The nose is cartlidge so easy to reset if you break it compared to a jaw. But it'll still hurt. This will give you enough time to hit them in the stomach below the rib cage. This will wind them, no bones so softer on your knuckles and it'll cause them to bend over. Once they're bent over you can uppercut them in the face or bring a knee into their face. This will cause them to day bent over then simply pull them forwards and trip them. There 3-4 hits and your enemy is on the ground. At this point just walk away and hand yourself in to the office. But don't run. By leaving them on the ground and walking away you look like you've beat them up. If you keep laying info them you'll give them a chance to hit you or the other kids may view you as a bad sport. Heading to the office will ensure the bully if he does get up can't get back at you, the kids will spread the rumour you bashed him and you might get a lesser punishment for telling the truth and turning yourself in as the teachers will appreciate it.

[Mr. Scratch]

The next time they try to hit you just tell them this: "No, don't do that, you'll give me an erection".

[Max]

What country are you from? Also, Adrenaline can have that effect on people. Your body is so tense and ready for anything that when the moment goes and you start to calm down you can get tearful, get the shakes, anything. It's remarkable.

[DeafMetal]

As someone who used to do boxing, I can tell you that I had tears pop up when I sparred all the damn time. Pretty normal when fighting... I don't know the exact science of it, but they weren't caused by actually crying, but from being hit in the face. Just worry about the other guy being on his ass. You could wear a mini skirt as long as the other guy is on the losing end.

[make total destroy]

Just behead your opponent. No one will even notice the tears.

[lil weasel]

Obviously, you are allergic to violence. Next time just walk away.

[Otter]

What I'm saying is, fighting should be the last resort, and only if they throw down first. Again, sounds like this guy gets emotionally compromised and goes into rage mode, and this is gonna have to be addressed sooner rather than later.

 

One day, fighting will be looked upon universally with disgust. There's usually very little reason to do physical harm to someone if they haven't done anything physical to you or anyone else. I've brought this up before, but throwing the first punch is an immediate revocation of any rights you have to not get your ass handed to you. In fact, depending on the scenario, it could land you maimed, crippled, or dead. No one sheds a tear for a hothead who gets gutshot.

 

Bullies come in all shapes and sizes, but most of them are cowards. They'll fight, yeah, and threaten to fight, but will put the onus on you to throw down first. "Show up here, you're dead". Call them on their bullsh*t, tell 'em they're a waste of space, and top it off with a few insults. f*cking guys are usually ugly or fat.

 

It's harder than fighting, but its the more rewarding upper road. Guys who talk with their fists are utter c*nts.

[Mr. Scratch]

Hmm, maiming's what I prefer, psychologically.

[EphemeralStar]

I used to cry too when I got into fights in elementary, even if I did beat the crap out of them. It was really embarassing back then, and whoever I was fighting would make fun of me for it so then I got more angry and hurt them even more...so it kind of helped? But in all honesty, it kind of sounds like you have a problem and instead of worrying about how to stop crying when you fight, you should be more concerned about stopping the fighting all together. Something really bad is bound to happen.

[SolidSnails]

Let them throw the first punch worst comes to worst your acting in self defense.

[RiskySeven]

Crying is caused by your emotions that are building up pressure inside of you prior to the fight. You know there's going to be a fight, so your emotions (fear, hatred, anxiety, anger, etc) begin to build pressure quickly and when you release that pressure by lashing out at them, your emotions hit a low point after everything has been expended leaving you with a feeling of emptiness and then you start to cry. That's my best guess.

[PJ-147]

What I'm saying is, fighting should be the last resort, and only if they throw down first. Again, sounds like this guy gets emotionally compromised and goes into rage mode, and this is gonna have to be addressed sooner rather than later.

 

One day, fighting will be looked upon universally with disgust. There's usually very little reason to do physical harm to someone if they haven't done anything physical to you or anyone else. I've brought this up before, but throwing the first punch is an immediate revocation of any rights you have to not get your ass handed to you. In fact, depending on the scenario, it could land you maimed, crippled, or dead. No one sheds a tear for a hothead who gets gutshot.

 

Bullies come in all shapes and sizes, but most of them are cowards. They'll fight, yeah, and threaten to fight, but will put the onus on you to throw down first. "Show up here, you're dead". Call them on their bullsh*t, tell 'em they're a waste of space, and top it off with a few insults. f*cking guys are usually ugly or fat.

 

It's harder than fighting, but its the more rewarding upper road. Guys who talk with their fists are utter c*nts.

 

If OP is really serious and honest he just needs to stop with starting fights, but even if he is being bullied the post i quoted covers it all.

IRL fighters are losers unless of course it's in a war zone.

[QuackinAColdOne]

I'm the same age as you and I've been into numerous fights so I can relate. Once you hit 9th grade you'd figure the sh*t would stop. Anyways, you should really larn how to fight, not only does it help you defeat your opponent but it also helps you keep calm because you're used to the environment and you know what do to. When I had my first fight, I think around 6th grade, the same thing happened to me.

[Mr. Scratch]

Crying is caused by your emotions that are building up pressure inside of you prior to the fight. You know there's going to be a fight, so your emotions (fear, hatred, anxiety, anger, etc) begin to build pressure quickly and when you release that pressure by lashing out at them, your emotions hit a low point after everything has been expended leaving you with a feeling of emptiness and then you start to cry. That's my best guess.

That or he's a pussy.

[theadmiral]

I'm a combat expert and i'm going to weigh in on this once I collect my thoughts. Until then, just avoid any fights.

[REVENGE777]

sh*t, you better swing at his ass back! If he's looking for a fight, you better give him one he won't forget! Fight like a savage! Chairs tables biting scratching whatever just get it his ass like charmin ultra strong.

[Saikou]

You could do what I do and get ridiculed for the rest of your life for letting people step all over you...

 

...or nah?

[THE GHETTO JEZUS]

When I got into fights I would beat that f*cker as hard as I beat my meat. So next time he'll learn not to f*ck with me. After a bit I would start thinking to my self why did I fight this guy ? and then I'll apologize since I can't handle the guilt. But I think you should just man up like if this sh*t is happening way to often then you should be used to it. Like just think to your self that if I didn't beat this guy someone from my family would of been hurt or something like that. But yea just man up as people will probably think you're a pussy and would just want to fight you as you're an easy target.

[gtamann123]

When I got into fights when i was younger I found myself paralyzed by adrenaline. Like I wanted to beat the hell out of the kid but I couldn't gain control over my arms to throw punches. Like I would just stand there like a zombie and could only move my legs and walk around. It was really strange. It was a different story on the wrestling mat because it was controlled and you weren't out to actually hurt your opponent. But in actual fights I couldn't do anything.

 

So I guess the advice I can give you to solve your problem is to just not pick fights. If you have to fight for some reason then i would just suggest trying to channel your adrenaline into focusing your mind on doing what you can to end the skirmish as quickly as possible. Use some kind of grappling moves to take down your opponenet and end the fight and get him under control before someone gets hurt.

[Saikou]

When I got into fights I would beat that f*cker as hard as I beat my meat.

So you couldn't beat him at all?