ivpanzer Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 I have some situations yesterday with two mens and a girl in my work, they don't talk and are quiet but work very fast, I think don't have friends or something is wrong here, when I go to my mealtime they sit and in this table they don't talk only sit down and eat. I'm surprised much because they are young (around 20 or 22) and physically are nice, I mean this years are to be happy, party, technology, read, all this stuff, not be a sad person. How try with this different people? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Average white guy Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 Um... uh... well... uh... what... what the f*ck did I just read? Rougarou 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 (edited) I'm not a 100% sure what you said OP, but some people just don't like to socialize and prefer to keep to themselves. Me included. Edited February 16, 2014 by Yolo Swaggins Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ivpanzer Posted February 16, 2014 Author Share Posted February 16, 2014 I'm not a 100% sure what you said OP, but some people just don't like to socialize and prefer to keep to themselves. Me included. I'm russian sorry, Is not good sometimes my english. Yes, but they look very nice people, this girl is beautiful and this guys too (not gay), I think they likes skrillex or something since than I see a shirt of a guy. Black & White and Rougarou 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tacymist Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 Some people are just shy and need time to get used to another person's company before they feel comfortable enough to socialise. I'm like that myself. There are also people who just aren't social at all, unfortunately. Captain Arthur 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. House Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 Two mens. Rougarou 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katherine.93 Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 Called too 'peace of mind' and leave them alone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Osho Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 This reminded me ...my own, the very first day at the job, with striking similarities being quiet, less social and more involved in the work. Though, in my case, it was not about having no friends or such, but problem of language (english) and since it was first major change in my life, job in such a good company and workplace with totally no work experience, made it just difficult to begin with or any attempt to engage a conversation whatsoever except my seniors who helped me a lot in building the confidence, understanding the environment and develop the required attitude. It took some time, but it's not the same thing anymore and with patience it's actually quite easy than initially feared. I think, they are not different rather need more time. There's no alternative to talks and with continued efforts it'll become more easy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exkabewbikadid Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 Just remember, in the future there will be robots. Two mens and a girl be robots as I call it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Scratch Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 Two mens and a half? MarshalMoo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Der Süden Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 (edited) So you're in Russia and work with other Russians? Isn't it common for Russians to not talk much and to be kind of cold, not showing much emotions? No offense. Most of the Russian Germans (Germans that once moved to Russia and back a long time later) met and most of the Russians I saw speaking on tv seemed not to talk more than necessary and gave short answers. When I was in school and there was a Russian German in my class, he/she almost always prefered to keep to himself/herself and didn't talk much. Only in 2012 a German Russian surprised me. I met him at work and we became friends. He liked to talk a lot, liked to smile and to laugh a lot, was a kind person. Open-minded, open-hearted, gregarious. Edited February 16, 2014 by Preusse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graven Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 You should remember that work is work. All people don´t like to socialize so much at work, and keep their private life separated. Colleagues are not your friends usually. But I small talk and chat with my work buddies every day, other than work related things too. It would be damn strange not to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShadowDog94 Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 lol Skrillex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GrandMaster Smith Posted February 17, 2014 Share Posted February 17, 2014 Probably because you're at work, and 75% of all people who work low paying jobs don't enjoy their job therefore aren't happy to be there. It could also be because it's their break and just want to be left alone. I'm a rather social person at work but when it comes down to lunchtime the last thing I want to do is try to have a conversation with somebody while I'm trying eat. My mouth is full of food, I'm trying to be quick, you're also eating so conversations are kept small and pointless and most people would rather just avoid it all in the first place. If you want to socialize come outside and smoke a cigarette with me afterwards while I'm not trying to stuff my face with food. I'm almost always eating by myself during break, not that I'm shy or sad or unattractive it's just a pet peeve having someone talk to me while I'm eating and they just sit there in silence staring at me expecting a response to their small talk while I'm trying to swallow my food and get all the peanut butter out of my teeth. I respond, take another bite of my food then just rinse and repeat all the above mentioned.. yeah, no thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonshield Posted February 17, 2014 Share Posted February 17, 2014 Did they also own a pizza place? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimmy_Leppard Posted February 17, 2014 Share Posted February 17, 2014 And what happened when you woke up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gtamann123 Posted February 17, 2014 Share Posted February 17, 2014 Probably because you're at work, and 75% of all people who work low paying jobs don't enjoy their job therefore aren't happy to be there. It could also be because it's their break and just want to be left alone. I'm a rather social person at work but when it comes down to lunchtime the last thing I want to do is try to have a conversation with somebody while I'm trying eat. My mouth is full of food, I'm trying to be quick, you're also eating so conversations are kept small and pointless and most people would rather just avoid it all in the first place. If you want to socialize come outside and smoke a cigarette with me afterwards while I'm not trying to stuff my face with food. I'm almost always eating by myself during break, not that I'm shy or sad or unattractive it's just a pet peeve having someone talk to me while I'm eating and they just sit there in silence staring at me expecting a response to their small talk while I'm trying to swallow my food and get all the peanut butter out of my teeth. I respond, take another bite of my food then just rinse and repeat all the above mentioned.. yeah, no thanks. How do you know they work low paying jobs? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GrandMaster Smith Posted February 17, 2014 Share Posted February 17, 2014 Probably because you're at work, and 75% of all people who work low paying jobs don't enjoy their job therefore aren't happy to be there. It could also be because it's their break and just want to be left alone. I'm a rather social person at work but when it comes down to lunchtime the last thing I want to do is try to have a conversation with somebody while I'm trying eat. My mouth is full of food, I'm trying to be quick, you're also eating so conversations are kept small and pointless and most people would rather just avoid it all in the first place. If you want to socialize come outside and smoke a cigarette with me afterwards while I'm not trying to stuff my face with food. I'm almost always eating by myself during break, not that I'm shy or sad or unattractive it's just a pet peeve having someone talk to me while I'm eating and they just sit there in silence staring at me expecting a response to their small talk while I'm trying to swallow my food and get all the peanut butter out of my teeth. I respond, take another bite of my food then just rinse and repeat all the above mentioned.. yeah, no thanks. How do you know they work low paying jobs? I just assumed because most people in their early 20's usually work in customer service and aren't working for much more than minimum wage. Devoting all your time towards living paycheck to paycheck tends to make people who don't enjoy having to be there very much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fireman Posted February 17, 2014 Share Posted February 17, 2014 They don't talk to you, you say. But have you spoken with them yet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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