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BarelyLegal

The benefits of abstaining from masturbation

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Dealux

 

The problem with masturbation for me is the feeling of guilt or dissatisfaction afterwards,

I have the same feeling :/ But it only shows up if I watch porn. I get that feelingright after I finish, and I have to stop the movie right away. I don't get that feeling when I watch porn with my bf, or have sex with him

 

Yeah, upon closer introspection it only seems to happen when I watch porn.

 

 

I have been un-laid since july... but yeah if i ever get lucky of course I'll lay off the goods

Just try to limit yourself to once a week, if not twice a week, and make sure you use lube and you're not dry chokin. If at all possible, get a fleshlight or pocket pussy. Gotta work to retain your nerve endings son.

 

Why lube? I'm uncircumsised

 

To prevent irritation I guess. It can happen.

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Vercetti27

is having sex with a dead body a form of masturbation? if so there are numerous benfits to abstinence

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mr quick

 

 

The problem with masturbation for me is the feeling of guilt or dissatisfaction afterwards,

I have the same feeling :/ But it only shows up if I watch porn. I get that feelingright after I finish, and I have to stop the movie right away. I don't get that feeling when I watch porn with my bf, or have sex with him

 

Yeah, upon closer introspection it only seems to happen when I watch porn.

 

 

I have been un-laid since july... but yeah if i ever get lucky of course I'll lay off the goods

Just try to limit yourself to once a week, if not twice a week, and make sure you use lube and you're not dry chokin. If at all possible, get a fleshlight or pocket pussy. Gotta work to retain your nerve endings son.

 

Why lube? I'm uncircumsised

 

To prevent irritation I guess. It can happen.

 

I must have built up harder skin over the years :ph34r:

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Dealux

I watch porn with my bf

I hear this stuff a lot lately. Why would you watch porn with your partner, especially while having sex? Doesn't that kinda hint at the fact that you might not be satisfied with your partner?

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Finn 7 five 11

 

I watch porn with my bf

I hear this stuff a lot lately. Why would you watch porn with your partner, especially while having sex? Doesn't that kinda hint at the fact that you might not be satisfied with your partner?

 

I've heard it's healthy actually.

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Dealux

Healthier than regular sex? Or maybe you mean healthy for relationships (by maintaining variety).

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Finite

More than likely it gives people who are comfortable with each other an added boost to their libido.

 

As for any actual benefits to refraining from masturbating I'm afraid I don't see many, you could use a lot of the spare time your spend jerking off to do something productive or creative, but masturbation itself is as natural and as healthy as eating or drinking for most people. I don't understand how anyone could feel "guilty" for doing something that should in no way induce feelings of guilt or regret.

 

I'm probably missing something here as I personally have no first-hand (pun somewhat intended) experience with masturbation, but at the very least on paper there doesn't seem to be real benefit at all to abstinence.

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Graven

If You call shrinkage a benefit. I never have felt guilt of masturbating. It´s a great way to relieve stress and is healthy. Of course when You are living in a relationship, You don´t do it as often.

Someone mentioned earlier that You will have a limb dick by the 40s if You masturbate "too much". That´s utter bulls*it! I wake almost every morning with a boner, regardless have I been beating it or not.

 

"Don´t knock masturbation, it´s sex with someone You love". - Woody Allen

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BuyMeTheMoon

 

I watch porn with my bf

I hear this stuff a lot lately. Why would you watch porn with your partner, especially while having sex? Doesn't that kinda hint at the fact that you might not be satisfied with your partner?

I guess that can be the case for a lot of people, but not for me. I'm satisfied with him, but I'm a very "oversexed" person(don't know if that is the correct word, but it was the only translation I could find)so I think a lot about sex and like to watch other people have sex even when I'm doing it myself. It turns me on and spices up things a lot, and I don't see any reason not to do it :)

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Dealux

Watching porn often can "spoil" people.

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Mcquiz

I tried it, did 9 days without and let me tell you after day 6 my libido was gone.

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Zancudo

That's strange, because after 7 days of abstinence I was about to rape anything that moved.

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The Odyssey

This whole thread is bollocks. Just a bunch of men babbling about how long they can go without spanking the sausage.

Edited by The Odyssey

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BuyMeTheMoon

Watching porn often can "spoil" people.

How?

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Dealux

There are a number of studies on this subject (you can find a compilation of them here). Watching too much porn can decrease your interest in regular sex and it can make you find regular people unattractive apparently. It the had the reverse effect on me, but I don't think I watched a lot of it to affect me in a negative way.

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jln22

Well excessive masturbation has surely an impact over your self-esteem and confidence. I've managed to keep myself out for three days, then the morning I woke up I couldn't take it anymore as I dreamt f*cking a girl. Dreams mostly influence me all day so I was really horny. I've been a day off yesterday and fapped twice, now I am trying to abstain again, not sure how much it's gonna take as I really want to f*ck.

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I cucked Alex Jones

Reading this topic makes me realize that I do have some semblance of self control.

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Mince

Actually if you masturbate a lot, your penis size will increase.

 

I can confirm that this is absolutely false in my experience. Excessive masturbation hasn't helped me in terms of size. I've actually felt like it has been hurting me, since I haven't grown throughout my teen years. It's likely genetics, but nonetheless, I've had no luck with masturbation.

 

I might actually try abstaining, if it gets rid of my sex drive. Every sex-related thought I have just depresses me due to thoughts of wasted teen years, shame related to being a virgin. It's all really pathetic, to be honest.

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gtamann123

 

 

Actually if you masturbate a lot, your penis size will increase.

I can confirm that this is absolutely false in my experience. Excessive masturbation hasn't helped me in terms of size. I've actually felt like it has been hurting me, since I haven't grown throughout my teen years. It's likely genetics, but nonetheless, I've had no luck with masturbation.

 

I might actually try abstaining, if it gets rid of my sex drive. Every sex-related though I have just depresses me due to thoughts of wasted teen years, shame related to being a virgin. It's all really pathetic, to be honest.

I agree. Being a horny virgin sucks. I spend pretty much all day dreaming about something I will never have and it gives me super deep depression. I too wish I could just not have a sex drive at all. Like have a surgery that removes that part of my brain.

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WBaker

 

 

 

 

I watch porn with my bf

I hear this stuff a lot lately. Why would you watch porn with your partner, especially while having sex? Doesn't that kinda hint at the fact that you might not be satisfied with your partner?
I guess that can be the case for a lot of people, but not for me. I'm satisfied with him, but I'm a very "oversexed" person(don't know if that is the correct word, but it was the only translation I could find)so I think a lot about sex and like to watch other people have sex even when I'm doing it myself. It turns me on and spices up things a lot, and I don't see any reason not to do it :)

I'd like to buy you a drink :D

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EphemeralStar

Masturbating makes me sleepy at night. :') it helps with my insomnia.

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Finn 7 five 11

Healthier than regular sex? Or maybe you mean healthy for relationships (by maintaining variety).

Healthy for relationships I meant. I'm not sure why exactly, I can't remember that much, just supposedly it's good for them, but there's conflicting info out there. Google it if you like, i'm a little too tired.

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Chukkles

You may find yourself bubbling away at the most inconvenient moments.

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Danz.

Masturbating makes me sleepy at night. :') it helps with my insomnia.

That's its best use, right there.

 

If you feel nausea, masturbate furiously and you will suddenly feel better. It's a fact.

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Travís.

Every one of your posts are disgusting, what the hell is the matter with you, no one wants to know that you came on your own face.

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W3BB13

Every one of your posts are disgusting, what the hell is the matter with you, no one wants to know that you came on your own face.

I do.

 

Masturbation is necessary on a regular basis. Otherwise you'll wake up stuck to your sheets.

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Graven

Sorry to bump this, I know masturbation is not something every one wants to talk about.

But my sledge has made a U-turn and I wanted to update my views.

 

I gave my cock away, and cannot masturbate anymore. No, I did not chop it off though that have crossed my mind many times in past.

But it´s like this. My cock has been in charge of my life. It has been in control. What should have been a little brother, turned into a big brother.

I did not want my cock to control me anymore, so I handled it´s ownership to my new Goddess.

 

Now I only masturbate at her command.

 

This should have happened earlier. I mean I like physical pain. Now That my penis is behind bars I have doubled my favorite feeling with this shackling mental pain.

This feels so wonderful. And I have already witnessed lot of bonus benefits.

No more getting hit by a car due to constant ass-and-tits rating and walking accidentally against reds. Other women mean nothing anymore.

Photoshopping is easier with 2 hands. I wish this leads to better renders and overall quality.

 

I´m feeling so high, this is a major leap in the mission of completing myself. I´m getting confident reaching that 100%.

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Gnocchi Flip Flops

Is it a tad bit strange that I'm not into wanking off?

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Khaos89

Just lately, I've came-across people who say that abstaining from masturbation leads to a more fulfilling lifestyle. Benefits include increased confidence, more 'get-up-and-go', and more.

 

What do you guys think? Does denying yourself masturbation make your life better? If so, in what way(s)?

It serves no purpose other than leaving you sexually frustrated.

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roxana.fantasy

Ok seriously?:))))) :|

Just tell u this, it is so harmful for ur body, as u see, when u do it a lot the way you think completely changes! The way u look and understand becomes poisoned, and u have some special cells that makes THE THING:d and by doing it all the time, they get old and u might lose the power of having babies!

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