bad sport problems and glitches

[TortoiseEclipse]

first of let me start by say yes I love blowing up sh*t and I don't go blowing up to many personal vehicles but if someone is chasing me in there car then I have a right to blow them the f*ck up but anyways I became a bad sport for about two days and ok I deserved it il live up my sentence peacefully but today when I logged on I had about a half hour remaining and at about two minutes left I had to go do something so I turned off my xbox about and hour later I logged back on to join a friends game and I could not because apparently I was still a bad sport I waited for the time to show up to see what was wrong and it is now at 22 hours! seriously gta online has been a mess from the start im loving the game but after waiting two days to play with my friends again I now have to deal with people driving around the map blowing me up with tanks well my friends are making money and actually enjoying the game! please rockstar get your sh*t together