HOW'S ANNIE? Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 (edited) As far from normal as it sounds, I'm 19 years old and have absolutley no interest in love/sex/relationships in general. I mean, about 2 years ago I just stopped caring about trying to get women (and before you say it I know I'm gay). I have feel no real desire to try and find a girlfriend, no desire to get laid just the need to go do something fullfilling with my life. It's not like I can't talk or party with women, it's just when I talk to them I don't ever think of them like that. I want to know if this is normal in any way, or if there's a proper definition for it? Edited June 2, 2013 by Niko Vercetti 112 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyler Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 I feel like you might have cancer dude. Might want to check WebMD. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BullworthAcademy Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 You're not weird. Although coming from me that means nothing because I'm the most sex obsessed person in my whole school lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Of Monra Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 Well, yes and no. There are quite a lot of people who are not interested in sex. But love? (love does not = sex btw) You are not interested in the love your family and friends give you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AKalashnikov Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 Maybe you should be exploring other aspects of your life that you consider important or that you're passionate about and let the chips fall where they may in regard to your love life. Most relationships I made of all kinds happened without my thinking about it. If it feels good, do it. Except drugs. Stay in school kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HOW'S ANNIE? Posted June 2, 2013 Author Share Posted June 2, 2013 There are quite a lot of people who are not interested in sex. But love? (love does not = sex btw) You are not interested in the love your family and friends give you? O.k I probably put that the wrong way, I'm basically not interested in getting into relationships, or having sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NCONiall Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 I want to know if this is normal in any way, or if there's a proper definition for it? Asexuality based on: I'm basically not interested in getting into relationships, or having sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rizqan7 Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 Yeah, so weird, you can't get kids and your wife never can pregnant because you not sex with them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corndawg93 Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 You're not weird.Although coming from me that means nothing because I'm the most sex obsessed person in my whole school lol. Aren't you 14? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ziggy455 Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 In all honesty, some people just aren't into the whole finding a girlfriend and settling down thing. To be honest, neither am I anymore. But I've had too many bad experiences. Besides, girls this age pretend they want a relationship to invest in and 80% of the time, they end up cheating on you or breaking up with you. It's good you're asexual, it means you can focus on bettering yourself as a person, not being tied down. "I might have laughed if I'd have remembered how." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raavi Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 You sound like you're Asexual. Asexuality/Non-sexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone or low or absent interest in sexual activity. It may be considered the lack of a sexual orientation, or one of the four types thereof, alongside heterosexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality. – overeducated wonk who fetishises compromise Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BullworthAcademy Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 You're not weird.Although coming from me that means nothing because I'm the most sex obsessed person in my whole school lol. Aren't you 14? Yes but that doesn't mean that I don't talk about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FAH-Q Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 You're not weird.Although coming from me that means nothing because I'm the most sex obsessed person in my whole school lol. Aren't you 14? Yes but that doesn't mean that I don't talk about it. LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elesdee95 Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 @OP, do you fap often? That might be the problem for not being interested in having sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyZimmzy Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 Have you ever had sex to begin with? Cause I was the same. Then after I'd had the fill once, it became potent to get it again. Now after a few months of a dry spell, I start to get some mad cravings and start striking up convos with girls again to try and get some. If that crave wasn't there, my life would be so much more chill. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracksuit Hitman Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 @OP, do you fap often? That might be the problem for not being interested in having sex. Nonsense, regular masturbation would in usual cases mean the person is deprived of their strong feelings for the need of sexual intercourse. Saying that masturbation leads to the lack of interest in sexual intercourse is terrifyingly stupid. aka geobst Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Zilcho Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 The real question is whether you masturbate regularly / at all? If you do, you're still sexual. If you don't, you may be asexual. Either that or you're trying to sound all edgy about not being able to get girls ("I don't want them") but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. U R B A N I T A S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Typhus Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 The real question is whether you masturbate regularly / at all? If you do, you're still sexual. If you don't, you may be asexual. Asexuals still masturbate, it sates a basic need for sexual release. The difference comes from a lack of impetus to engage in romantic or sexual relationships. Basically, the human element is completely missing and there is no real desire to fill that void. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shmoopy Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 Its just you didn't find your soulmate yet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FAH-Q Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 Nothing is weird anymore nowadays. Youre safe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guib Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 The real question is whether you masturbate regularly / at all? If you do, you're still sexual. If you don't, you may be asexual. Asexuals still masturbate, it sates a basic need for sexual release. The difference comes from a lack of impetus to engage in romantic or sexual relationships. Basically, the human element is completely missing and there is no real desire to fill that void. Depends, you have different kinds of asexuals, you have the ones who don't need sex, but still want a relationship, you have those who don't want any relationship at all, and many more... Some do masturbate and some don't need or want to... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elesdee95 Posted June 2, 2013 Share Posted June 2, 2013 @OP, do you fap often? That might be the problem for not being interested in having sex. Nonsense, regular masturbation would in usual cases mean the person is deprived of their strong feelings for the need of sexual intercourse. Saying that masturbation leads to the lack of interest in sexual intercourse is terrifyingly stupid. Terrifying stupid? What if I tell you I have no sexual drive for a good amount of days after I fapped few years on a constant basis and haven't got sex yet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HOW'S ANNIE? Posted June 3, 2013 Author Share Posted June 3, 2013 Either that or you're trying to sound all edgy about not being able to get girls ("I don't want them") but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. This is the internet my friend. If it was really the case that I couldn't get girls if I wanted, I would simply lie. But what do I really get out of lying about this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtremoMania Posted June 3, 2013 Share Posted June 3, 2013 It's not because your weird, it's the fact that you know when you have your limitations when it comes to sex. You try to prevent some risky moves that might undergo through passage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lil weasel Posted June 3, 2013 Share Posted June 3, 2013 Some sexuality is peer generated. Without friends expressing a lot of activity on the subject most teen/adults don't give it much thought. Then there is the Drug or an illness caused lack of desire. Have you been check for diabetes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Zilcho Posted June 3, 2013 Share Posted June 3, 2013 Either that or you're trying to sound all edgy about not being able to get girls ("I don't want them") but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. This is the internet my friend. If it was really the case that I couldn't get girls if I wanted, I would simply lie. But what do I really get out of lying about this? You would be surprised, it is quite common - but as I said, I don't think that is what you're going for here. U R B A N I T A S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Finn 7 five 11 Posted June 3, 2013 Share Posted June 3, 2013 @OP, do you fap often? That might be the problem for not being interested in having sex. Nonsense, regular masturbation would in usual cases mean the person is deprived of their strong feelings for the need of sexual intercourse. Saying that masturbation leads to the lack of interest in sexual intercourse is terrifyingly stupid. Terrifying stupid? What if I tell you I have no sexual drive for a good amount of days after I fapped few years on a constant basis and haven't got sex yet? That's exactly the same as saying sex decreases sex drive. Your lack of interest has nothing to do with masturbation. And if the 95 in your username refers to birth date, then I willtell you your lack of interest is due to puberty slowing down/ finishing, you are much more horny at 13-16.than most 17 year Olds, depending on how old you were when puberty began. There have been many studies done on what you claim, no results suggest what you say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orbitalraindrops Posted June 3, 2013 Share Posted June 3, 2013 Have you ever had sex to begin with? Cause I was the same. Then after I'd had the fill once, it became potent to get it again. Now after a few months of a dry spell, I start to get some mad cravings and start striking up convos with girls again to try and get some. If that crave wasn't there, my life would be so much more chill. The crave nigga the crave!!!. I'm like a different person when I'm horny. When I'm thinking with my brain instead of my D-I-ick I find life is alot more clearer and more manageable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtremoMania Posted June 3, 2013 Share Posted June 3, 2013 Some sexuality is peer generated. Without friends expressing a lot of activity on the subject most teen/adults don't give it much thought. Then there is the Drug or an illness caused lack of desire. Have you been check for diabetes. True, influence can be the achieving factors for sexual arousal. However if you have any friends that doesn't express any sexual thoughts, there could be no intervening factors. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudy Posted June 3, 2013 Share Posted June 3, 2013 @OP, do you fap often? That might be the problem for not being interested in having sex. Nonsense, regular masturbation would in usual cases mean the person is deprived of their strong feelings for the need of sexual intercourse. Saying that masturbation leads to the lack of interest in sexual intercourse is terrifyingly stupid. Terrifying stupid? What if I tell you I have no sexual drive for a good amount of days after I fapped few years on a constant basis and haven't got sex yet? That's because you were raised without being exposed to porn, and your parents blocked all the porn sites in your internet when they brought you a pc. The LAST (first) time you caught a glimpse of boobies is when you intentionally asked your mommy to breastfeed you when you were like 8. The reason you stated for no libido is clearly lulish. I mean, LUL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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