Hey everyone

[ExtremoMania]

Oh sorry for you loss mate, condolences for you and for her.

 

RIP

[Gtaghost22]

I do remember your post; I was hoping for a happy ending but life sucks I guess. Sorry for your loss, man. Stay strong.

 

Now I know this might come as a shock to a majority of the members here, but you're most likely lying.

Seriously?

Edited May 30, 2013 by Gtaghost22

[Finn 7 five 11]

I do remember your post; I was hoping for a happy ending but life sucks I guess. Sorry for your loss, man. Stay strong.

 

Now I know this might come as a shock to a majority of the members here, but you're most likely lying.

Seriously?

There's a lot of bullsh*t artists on the internet, It's fair to question validity.

[Algonquin Assassin]

It's never easy watching a loved one suffer from cancer. Unfortunately time doesn't fix that wound entirely.

 

Be strong dude.

[Polish_Trucker]

Sorry to hear for your loss man, stay strong and positive.

R.I.P

[Shenmue18]

Very sorry for your loss. Rest in peace, stay strong my friend.

[mdr279]

Yes, I remember that topic. My condolences, very sorry to hear You and your family try to stay strong.

[acmilano]

Sorry for your loss man. Lost my mom two years ago from cancer too. May your girlfriend rest in peace and hope that you will be ok,even if it looks hard right now.But life will go on. At least you were with her until the end and she knows she was not alone.

[AKalashnikov]

 

Now I know this might come as a shock to a majority of the members here, but you're most likely lying. You see, after quickly checking your post history it seems that about a month ago you declared publicly that you'd become a father to a little girl in five months time. Since then you've not mentioned her at all and seemed to look past the fact that you've never mentioned her since or prior to that moment I'm having some difficulties believing what you've said.

 

What makes things even worse is that you want your girlfriend to rest in piece yet you were either having another relationship with another women or simply forgot to mention the fact that your own daughter died along with your girlfriend which is something that I find rather hard to believe, especially considering that you seem to retain more information about a videogame then your own child and loved one. This is all hypothetical but unless you can explain this I'm afraid I really can't stand what you've done here, lying about the death of a loved one or you being a father's hardly a good thing to do, especially if you'd want anyone to believe a word you say in the future.

 

 

Waiting another 5 months till I meet my daughter for the first time. Yeah this guys gunna be a daddy :-)

 

The weird part about this comment is that you seem almost certain that you'll be a father in one month (April, just fifteen days prior to her death) and yet act as if you've noticed no drastic change in your girlfriend's health during that time period? You had time to comment on a number of topics just a few weeks before and a few days after she died only really mentioning it now over two weeks after her death - you seem to hold the value of a videogame over that of both your daughter and your girlfriend and that my friend is rather disturbing to say the least.

 

Either your pregnant girlfriend was diagnosed with brain cancer,(even though you ceased to mention her pregnancy entirely throughout this period and would really have no reason not to mention it earlier) another possibility you were never going to be a father in the first place and simply lied about the pregnancy and it's also likely you never had a girlfriend in the first place. Don't get me wrong this is the internet and of course you deserve to retain certain aspects of anonymity but in this case it's absolutely despicable, lying about a loved one being diagnosed with a brain tumor and then later dying isn't the best way of garnering attention.

 

If it was a simple mistake then I apologise for my response but the more I look at this it just seems like a rather f*cked up way of getting attention on the internet.

Once again, I wish you the best with everything you're going through. I've also lost someone close to me to cancer and I've never gone through anything quite so difficult. But after reading this post I did a little research and it did get me wondering about pregnancy and cancer and what options there are available. I understand this is more of an emotional topic than a medical one, but being Australian like yourself I'd like to know there was help on offer if a member of my family was in this terrible situation. Here's something I found from an article about a woman with a similar predicament.

 

-

 

In a week's time, Jacqui Graf went from a happy expectant mother to a woman with an aggressive cancer diagnosis and a 1-pound, 13-ounce premature baby.

 

"It's very scary," Graf's mother, Cindy Poulain of Belle Fourche, said Monday. "You know, she's 22 years old. She's so young to be going through this."

 

On Monday, Graf, who is also from Belle Fourche, began chemotherapy at Avera McKennan Hospital in Sioux Falls. In the same hospital, her daughter, Haylee, born at 26 weeks, is getting around-the-clock care in the neonatal intensive care unit.

 

Graf was six months pregnant when she began having intense pains the last week of January. Doctors in Spearfish airlifted her to Avera McKennan on Jan. 27 after tests showed a large mass in her abdominal area, Poulain said.

 

-

 

After reading your first topic on the 27th of January which informed the community here of your partner's cancer, and discovering the stomach was first attacked (as well as the brain) I thought it was astonishing that the child survived for so long inside the mother. As you can interpret from the above article, neonatal intensive care unit technology has made significant advancements. You spoke of the stomach being treated by operation on the 27th of January. Given that on the 29th of April the baby was to be due in 5 months I can only assume your partner was pregnant during the stomach procedure performed on the night of the 27th of January. All being as you said, having an unborn child survive stomach cancer removal (which most of the time involves removing the entire stomach) in such an early stage of pregnancy is nothing short of a miracle. Then to have the unborn child survive inside the mother for over 3 months afterwards, through cancer treatment, truly is defying all of the odds. If everything you've revealed is in fact true, it sounds like something divine must have been on your family's side. As I said originally, best of luck to you in future. I hope you find happiness once again.

Edited May 30, 2013 by AKalashnikov

[Master of San Andreas]

 

Now I know this might come as a shock to a majority of the members here, but you're most likely lying.

Are you mad? That's.... That is a very rude thing to say, dude. If you were the OP and I barge in and say you are lying, how would it feel for you?

 

Also Ryder I Think you were the one who made a topic months back about your brother and friend who got killed in a bike accident? This is really sad man.... Another tragedy has struck you... I wonder how you are coping up with it.

Edited May 30, 2013 by Master of San Andreas

[Secura]

 

Now I know this might come as a shock to a majority of the members here, but you're most likely lying.

Are you mad? That's.... That is a very rude thing to say, dude. If you were the OP and I barge in and say you are lying, how would it feel for you?

Clearly you failed to read anything that I wrote down, the fact is this is the Internet and it's highly probable that the guy could be lying as when you take all of the stuff that he says and add it all together you get put into a virtually improbable situation. My criticisms towards this man and his apparent loss of a loved one were and still are to an extent valid, you should never just blindly believe what you hear on the Internet as such ignorance can be very damaging.

 

As for the "How would I feel?" question, probably pissed off that someone believed I was lying without a valid basis. However in this situation I had every right to be questionable and your response towards me's hardly something that'd worry me, I can't really see why I'd bother lying about something this serious anyway. Death is no laughing matter and should be the last possible thing that a person thinks to lie about, even more so the death of a loved one; in this case a girlfriend or daughter.

 

I'd like to remind you to read up on the situation before you blindly comment like this again, you've clearly no knowledge of the current situation so accusing me of being mad is hardly a smart thing to do. Regardless I do recommend that you re-read this thread through again, so as to give you a better understanding of what I said what I said and allow you to make a much more informed decision on whether or not you believe that Ryder's lying about this entire situation.

 

Considering that this is the Internet, I'd take everything that you hear with a pinch of salt.

[TextureData]

I Don't know ya man..

but if you need me or want to talk about it.

I'll be there for you brother.

 

Rest in Peace she's in a place that we never have seen before.

And in the best shape of her life up there

[nightwalker83]

Damn man I too know how it is to lose someone you love and care about to cancer.

[Acehilm]

Stay strong brother. At least she doesn't have to suffer no longer. Head up and stay strong.

[Verdant]

Damn. This is one of the most saddest things I have come accross in my life so far.

Rest in Peace .

[Fireman]

 

You see, after quickly checking your post history

Not gonna say you were rude or anything but;

 

OH **** ITS THE CYBER POLICE.

 

I find it hilarious that you'd go through that trouble.

[Secura]

You see, after quickly checking your post history

Not gonna say you were rude or anything but;

 

OH **** ITS THE CYBER POLICE.

 

I find it hilarious that you'd go through that trouble.

What you mean the twenty odd seconds I spent checking someone's post history? Yeah that took so much time and was a real hassle to do.

[Ryder15]

Alright enough, enough with the f*cking bullsh*t!!

 

I couldn't give 36 f*cks if you don't believe me, that's your choice, I respect that, freedom of speech blah blah blah.

 

My life couldn't be any worse, I'm staying as strong as I can, I find ways to keep myself occupied, be however I do that! Play games come and make post/comment about GTAV. The past 5 days I have spent working on my car. I pulled out the engine for no reason, rebuilt it, stroker kit over sized cam racing pistons, would have cost me over 7 grand, all to keep myself occupied and not break down.

 

I was so lucky to have her in my life, I'd do anything to have her back, I want my family, what We worked for. But no, obvious she was needed else where and I will never forget her, I have her name tattooed on my chest even, and in the future if/when I decide to try again with another person so be it, I can't put my life on hold forever.

 

I apologize if anyone does find what I have said affensive

 

And I would like to thank those people that have said kind words to me,

I'm not attention seeking, I ride a motorcross bike in front of thousand of people countless Times though out the year, and thats my passion, The last thing I need to do is make a horrible story up like this.

Edited May 31, 2013 by Ryder15

[Rizqan7]

I also sad with happened to you, its too sadly, makes me so, do you find another girlfriend or stay single?

[Miro]

Sorry to hear that mate. I have indeed read the topic you've made a few months ago when you were fearing this. I hoped this wouldn't have happened, but I guess it couldn't be stopped. It must be really tough for you to lose your lover. May she rest in peace, and you my friend stay strong. Life also has good things, you just need to believe in them.

[Papi Chulo]

Sorry for your lost. My condolences goes out to you & her family. Losing someone close makes it hard to cope with the stress. Just know that she's in a better place then here & she ain't gotta suffer no more.

[Elesdee95]

So we all lost relatives, friends tragically, what's the point in sharing your pain with an Internet forum?

[DEALUX]

My life couldn't be any worse, I'm staying as strong as I can, I find ways to keep myself occupied, be however I do that! Play games come and make post/comment about GTAV. The past 5 days I have spent working on my car. I pulled out the engine for no reason, rebuilt it, stroker kit over sized cam racing pistons, would have cost me over 7 grand, all to keep myself occupied and not break down.

 

Those are good ways to empty your mind if you can't do it otherwise. Even though she meant a lot to you, you have to stop thinking about it and let the past be. There's nothing you can do about it. I don't think she would have wanted you to not get over this as soon as possible if she truly cared about you.

 

Getting over someone doesn't mean that you don't care anymore. Suffering is separate from caring. I don't think any reasonable person would want you to be sad or depressed for them. I wouldn't want that from anyone.

[Stuntzman]

My condolences, a really unfortunate situation.

[Stinky12]

Sorry for your lost, but life must still go on. Always want the family both you wanted?

Then go for it! While later on in life, you may find another woman, treat her the same way you treat

the one you lost. Get married, have kids, and start a happy family.

Make her proud.

[Ryder15]

Sorry for your lost, but life must still go on. Always want the family both you wanted?

Then go for it! While later on in life, you may find another woman, treat her the same way you treat

the one you lost. Get married, have kids, and start a happy family.

Make her proud.

Thanks bro, I appreciate the kind words, thanks to everyone that did. It really does mean a lot even though they are only words written on a forum they still hit home. And I really do appreciate it, thankyou again.

[KFranchise]

Stay Strong friend

[Nameless Foot Soldier]

You see, I look around our world and I see sadness like this everywhere. And I wonder to myself, why try? Why get up in the morning and pretend you're okay? I don't get why people go through life just to get sh*t on everyday. It's all meaningless and a pure waste. Why live if we are to die sad and miserable creatures? I ask you all here and now, why live? Why don't we all just kill ourselves. Don't you people see we'd be better off dead? In death we won't feel sad, or mad or anything. All we'd be doing is rotting in the ground for the rest of eternity. It may seem scary now but if you think about it, death is the way to go. Life is in the why of the infinite. We were dead before we were born and we will be dead after we are old and miserable. Why wait, why not just get over with it. WHY THE f*ck DO WE NOT JUST KILL OURSELVES?!

[LittleBlueTroll]

You see, I look around our world and I see sadness like this everywhere. And I wonder to myself, why try? Why get up in the morning and pretend you're okay? I don't get why people go through life just to get sh*t on everyday. It's all meaningless and a pure waste. Why live if we are to die sad and miserable creatures? I ask you all here and now, why live? Why don't we all just kill ourselves. Don't you people see we'd be better off dead? In death we won't feel sad, or mad or anything. All we'd be doing is rotting in the ground for the rest of eternity. It may seem scary now but if you think about it, death is the way to go. Life is in the why of the infinite. We were dead before we were born and we will be dead after we are old and miserable. Why wait, why not just get over with it. WHY THE f*ck DO WE NOT JUST KILL OURSELVES?!

Not only is this bewildering, its not exactly oozing in feel good factor in a topic like this, where sympathy and well wishes are needed.

[Ryder15]

You see, I look around our world and I see sadness like this everywhere. And I wonder to myself, why try? Why get up in the morning and pretend you're okay? I don't get why people go through life just to get sh*t on everyday. It's all meaningless and a pure waste. Why live if we are to die sad and miserable creatures? I ask you all here and now, why live? Why don't we all just kill ourselves. Don't you people see we'd be better off dead? In death we won't feel sad, or mad or anything. All we'd be doing is rotting in the ground for the rest of eternity. It may seem scary now but if you think about it, death is the way to go. Life is in the why of the infinite. We were dead before we were born and we will be dead after we are old and miserable. Why wait, why not just get over with it. WHY THE f*ck DO WE NOT JUST KILL OURSELVES?!

Why live??

 

Well even after all that has happened to me over the past few years, I don't regret a day that goes by, we make our own choices, we can't see the future, I lost my family, but ill never regret meeting her and loving her the way I did. It will never leave me, my best mate will never leave me. Life is hard, some people have it harder than others, I know my life is pretty screwed up but I know that their are people in this world that have it harder than me...

 

"We are just like chalk lines on the concrete, draw only to be washed away"

 

In some ways this is true. Some get wash away before others, it does make you wonder why? There is no explanation as to why, it's just that there time was up. It's horrible to think that one day my time will be up, but until the day whenever it may be, live life to the full extent and go out with a smile on your face knowing you lived you life the way you wanted!

 

That's why I live, ill never end my own life, I know I have a pretty big future ahead of me full of ups and down, but I will take them on 1 at a time.