Ryder15 Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 I made a post some time back about my girlfriend having a brain tumour. Well on the 14th of may at 4.12pm she was taken away from me and her family. Her body could no longer Handel the pain any longer and her body finally have in. I know, myself, this is something that I will never forget, everything we went though together I will never forget. Not only did I loose her, I lost my family that we always wanted to have. She is in a better place now, the pain and suffering is over. I just want to thank everyone that inboxed me and comment a few months back and say thankyou, it means a lot. Regards, Matty (Ryder15) "I will love you forever babe, you where my number one, you where my world" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Master of San Andreas Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 Wow, that's so sad and terrible man, It must be horrible for her family and of course you, sorry I didn't reply on your previous topic, I don't think I saw it. RIP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danz. Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 This is terrible. Rest in peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AKalashnikov Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 Wasn't here for your previous post but so sorry to hear. One Aussie to another I wish the best for you in future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NCONiall Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 I remember your post a few months back. Four months of this must have been very difficult for you. My condolences to you and her family; may she rest in peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Girish Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 Sorry about your loss, mate. Stay strong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleBlueTroll Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 Sorry to hear that mate, i won't even pretend i know what you must be going through. All the best to you and her family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolf of Badenoch Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 Sorry for your loss. R.I.P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vercetti27 Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 so sorry mate. Rest in Peace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Space Cowboy Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 R.I.P. That's terrible, I can't imagine how hard it must be to loose somebody. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shoumaker Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 My condolences to you, your family and to her family. It's better for her to be in heaven rather than to suffer over here. I know what it's like losing family; my brother died when he was six days old back in 2001. He would have grown up by now and I can only imagine the memories we would have had together like you would have with your girlfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Korpi Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 (edited) Sorry for your loss. Edited May 30, 2013 by Markwey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTAforthe21thcentury Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 Sorry for your tragic loss. Rest in peace. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MIKON8ERISBACK Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 I'm very sorry to hear that this happened. We all know in one way or another how it feels to lose someone. Her, you, your family, and her family are all in my prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
universetwisters Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 I'm sorry to hear that, amigo. My brother died from a brain tumor when he was 8. It definitely wasn't pretty. Just be sure to know that your girlfriend still loves you, and she's looking down on you from heaven Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Secura Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 (edited) Now I know this might come as a shock to a majority of the members here, but you're most likely lying. You see, after quickly checking your post history it seems that about a month ago you declared publicly that you'd become a father to a little girl in five months time. Since then you've not mentioned her at all and seemed to look past the fact that you've never mentioned her since or prior to that moment I'm having some difficulties believing what you've said. What makes things even worse is that you want your girlfriend to rest in piece yet you were either having another relationship with another women or simply forgot to mention the fact that your own daughter died along with your girlfriend which is something that I find rather hard to believe, especially considering that you seem to retain more information about a videogame then your own child and loved one. This is all hypothetical but unless you can explain this I'm afraid I really can't stand what you've done here, lying about the death of a loved one or you being a father's hardly a good thing to do, especially if you'd want anyone to believe a word you say in the future. Waiting another 5 months till I meet my daughter for the first time. Yeah this guys gunna be a daddy :-) The weird part about this comment is that you seem almost certain that you'll be a father in one month (April, just fifteen days prior to her death) and yet act as if you've noticed no drastic change in your girlfriend's health during that time period? You had time to comment on a number of topics just a few weeks before and a few days after she died only really mentioning it now over two weeks after her death - you seem to hold the value of a videogame over that of both your daughter and your girlfriend and that my friend is rather disturbing to say the least. Either your pregnant girlfriend was diagnosed with brain cancer,(even though you ceased to mention her pregnancy entirely throughout this period and would really have no reason not to mention it earlier) another possibility you were never going to be a father in the first place and simply lied about the pregnancy and it's also likely you never had a girlfriend in the first place. Don't get me wrong this is the internet and of course you deserve to retain certain aspects of anonymity but in this case it's absolutely despicable, lying about a loved one being diagnosed with a brain tumor and then later dying isn't the best way of garnering attention. If it was a simple mistake then I apologise for my response but the more I look at this it just seems like a rather f*cked up way of getting attention on the internet. Edited May 29, 2013 by Lightning Strike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sgt. Foley Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 I think I remember your first topic about her... so sorry to hear about what happened. R.I.P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EvilFuture Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 I'm so sorry man. I don't know what it's like to lose anybody really close. Although my Uncle has a brain tumor and it looks like it's getting worse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryder15 Posted May 29, 2013 Author Share Posted May 29, 2013 (edited) Now I know this might come as a shock to a majority of the members here, but you're most likely lying. You see, after quickly checking your post history it seems that about a month ago you declared publicly that you'd become a father to a little girl in five months time. Since then you've not mentioned her at all and seemed to look past the fact that you've never mentioned her since or prior to that moment I'm having some difficulties believing what you've said. What makes things even worse is that you want your girlfriend to rest in piece yet you were either having another relationship with another women or simply forgot to mention the fact that your own daughter died along with your girlfriend which is something that I find rather hard to believe, especially considering that you seem to retain more information about a videogame then your own child and loved one. This is all hypothetical but unless you can explain this I'm afraid I really can't stand what you've done here, lying about the death of a loved one or you being a father's hardly a good thing to do, especially if you'd want anyone to believe a word you say in the future. Waiting another 5 months till I meet my daughter for the first time. Yeah this guys gunna be a daddy :-) The weird part about this comment is that you seem almost certain that you'll be a father in one month (April, just fifteen days prior to her death) and yet act as if you've noticed no drastic change in your girlfriend's health during that time period? You had time to comment on a number of topics just a few weeks before and a few days after she died only really mentioning it now over two weeks after her death - you seem to hold the value of a videogame over that of both your daughter and your girlfriend and that my friend is rather disturbing to say the least. Either your pregnant girlfriend was diagnosed with brain cancer,(even though you ceased to mention her pregnancy entirely throughout this period and would really have no reason not to mention it earlier) another possibility you were never going to be a father in the first place and simply lied about the pregnancy and it's also likely you never had a girlfriend in the first place. Don't get me wrong this is the internet and of course you deserve to retain certain aspects of anonymity but in this case it's absolutely despicable, lying about a loved one being diagnosed with a brain tumor and then later dying isn't the best way of garnering attention. If it was a simple mistake then I apologise for my response but the more I look at this it just seems like a rather f*cked up way of getting attention on the internet. "I lost my family that we always wanted" This is hard enough for me as it is. As for your "value" of a video game, Ever though maybe I wasn't ready to post about it, I did try but I didn't get to finish the post, certain things keep my mind off current situations in my life, and I will do a lot to keep my self aflote. We all though she was getting better day by day, but having a baby growing inside her wasn't the best for her in the situation she was in. We lost the baby just shy of wo weeks before she passed away (not to many days after I posted it on here), I don't have to share my entire life with everyone. But when I was told about this happening, apart of me became awhere that I was about to lose my family. And I did. You may find it hard to believe, fair enough. But if someone turn around and said that to me, I'd literally string you up and gut you like a fish. Again, I lost my family. Like I stated. Edited May 29, 2013 by Ryder15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Secura Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 Fair enough the friend, just seemed like there were a few too many loopholes in what you'd said. Anyway here's hoping you can move on from this terrible incident and in time put it behind you; remember that while time doesn't heal all wounds it can certainly help to dull the edges. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johan Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 I am extremely sorry for your loss, hopefully you, her family and yours stay strong. Cancer is a terrible thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
018361 Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 I'm very sorry to hear about that. I am very sorry for your loss. I know it may be a difficult time right now, but stay strong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blitz Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 Wow, I'm so sorry for your loss. At least she is at peace now. Stay strong. <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nlwt Posted May 30, 2013 Share Posted May 30, 2013 @Lightning Strike: That was low, man. OT: Sorry to hear about your loss bud, can't be easy. Make sure you stay strong. Again, sorry to hear it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stryfaar Posted May 30, 2013 Share Posted May 30, 2013 Seen your post before .. was really expecting she'd make it. Seeing this just when I woke up, terrible thing. I'm very sorry for your loss. Stay strong, I'm sure she's looking down on you wherever she is. I'm sure someday, you two will meet each other again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheIllaDopest Posted May 30, 2013 Share Posted May 30, 2013 my condolences, I too lost my mom from cancer a few years ago. Its hard, hang in there dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Secura Posted May 30, 2013 Share Posted May 30, 2013 @Lightning Strike: That was low, man. Hardly, it was simply me pointing out a flaw in his original post - a flaw that made him look like he was lying about this situation. Regardless, you're free to view the situation as you will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oddsock Posted May 30, 2013 Share Posted May 30, 2013 I'm sorry about your loss. By all means take your time and grieve, but I'm sure that she would not want you to fall into a dark place because of her passing. I hope you can one day grow and thrive with her as a wonderful memory to guide you to future happiness. But for now, I am truly sorry for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mitsuha Posted May 30, 2013 Share Posted May 30, 2013 Sorry for your loss man, condolences to you and her family, God bless Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I<3GTAV Posted May 30, 2013 Share Posted May 30, 2013 So sorry to hear, Ryder. Cancer sucks . It's taken a lot of my family also. Stay strong, she and her spirit will always survive in everyone's heart and memory. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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