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Mister Pinkerton

Quitting Porn Altogether

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Dealux
The whole time my girlfriend and I were just fine and nothing changed between us when I transitioned to and from my casual habit.

Did you tell her about it?

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Baseball

Watch lesbian porn only.

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Sanjeem

Well, I'm a 17 year old male, Had sex once and since I'm not the lady's man out of my group of friends or just in general I feel satisfied with what I've accomplished, although I do get the feeling sometimes that it has been too long as the last time I was 16. Last girl I got with was at a New years Eve party but nothing spectacular happened. I also think this has something to do with porn, it just makes me too picky with a lot of women, and come to think of it, I'm probably not the finest specimen there is on this Earth. I've started cutting down, I only really watch porn now when I smoke weed, as for some reason I get super horny, especially when your not with your mates haha

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Oddsock
The whole time my girlfriend and I were just fine and nothing changed between us when I transitioned to and from my casual habit.

Did you tell her about it?

No, I don't think so. I stopped as soon as we started dating but when I started again I didn't mention it. Sometime later I remember we looked at porn together once or twice because she was curious how to give me a better blowjob and I said we should look together so she knew i looked and had no problem with it. We did watch it a bit once or twice just out of curiosity. Watching porn with others is hugely entertaining.

 

You're wrapped tight man.

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gtamann123
If you want to masturbate I really have no say in the matter but I do hope that you realise that while you're laying there rubbing yourself I'm enjoying a nice run, or watching an awesome TV show or delving into a good book or engaging in some sort of interesting debate (probably theological since that's always interesting) or just having a great time with the people who are close to me.

 

Here's the thing bud, I could give a f*ck what you're doing and what your demeanor is while you're doing it when I'm in the midst of a masturbation session. I simply don't care. Why do you care about me and my masturbation session so much? Leave me be, I'm reading all your posts in Richard Simmons' voice at this point.

I don't really care so much about you in particular, more about our society in general. You want to masturbate in drink in a lonely corner that's fine with me.

 

As I've said do what you want, I really have no place telling you what you should and shouldn't do, but this being a forum and all I thought I'd just list my opinions on the subject. That's all, nothing more. I'm really just trying to understand what makes you do these things since as an asexual, I understand very little about this thing 99.99% of humans have called a sex drive.

 

And if it's true that porn is addictive (and no, I don't care if you want to subject yourself to that hilarity for months of your life) then it's probably beneficial that those of you that are on the fence about cutting down on the porn and masturbation in general would probably be better of doing so.

 

Once again, these are my OPINIONS, they are nothing but OPINIONS, if we all had the same OPINIONS the world would be boring, bland and dull.

I watch porn everyday and I don't sit in a lonely corner and drink. I also work out everyday and have friends I hang out with. Not everyone who enjoys porn and beating the meat daily is some lonely 35 year old who lives in his moms basement.

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Finite

 

If you want to masturbate I really have no say in the matter but I do hope that you realise that while you're laying there rubbing yourself I'm enjoying a nice run, or watching an awesome TV show or delving into a good book or engaging in some sort of interesting debate (probably theological since that's always interesting) or just having a great time with the people who are close to me.

 

Here's the thing bud, I could give a f*ck what you're doing and what your demeanor is while you're doing it when I'm in the midst of a masturbation session. I simply don't care. Why do you care about me and my masturbation session so much? Leave me be, I'm reading all your posts in Richard Simmons' voice at this point.

I don't really care so much about you in particular, more about our society in general. You want to masturbate in drink in a lonely corner that's fine with me.

 

As I've said do what you want, I really have no place telling you what you should and shouldn't do, but this being a forum and all I thought I'd just list my opinions on the subject. That's all, nothing more. I'm really just trying to understand what makes you do these things since as an asexual, I understand very little about this thing 99.99% of humans have called a sex drive.

 

And if it's true that porn is addictive (and no, I don't care if you want to subject yourself to that hilarity for months of your life) then it's probably beneficial that those of you that are on the fence about cutting down on the porn and masturbation in general would probably be better of doing so.

 

Once again, these are my OPINIONS, they are nothing but OPINIONS, if we all had the same OPINIONS the world would be boring, bland and dull.

I watch porn everyday and I don't sit in a lonely corner and drink. I also work out everyday and have friends I hang out with. Not everyone who enjoys porn and beating the meat daily is some lonely 35 year old who lives in his moms basement.

You clearly haven't read the whole damn conversation.

 

 

I'll stick to my lonely drinking and masturbation sessions, thank you.

 

In future read the whole damn conversation if you want to add your opinions.

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EvilFuture

I'll go ahead and say, I've watched porn for a while, even before anything even happened. The first porn experience for me was bad, because I was way too young to understand. So basically it was one of those like 20 minutes long BJ videos, and at the end he came all over her face. I was disgusted. I thought that he had some kind of f*cking disease or something, and I got sick. So, I cleared the history and my granny called for breakfast. Guess what we had? f*cking Gravy and Buscuits. I took a huge bite out of that mother f*cker and then instantly thought about what I had just seen. I puked all over the place, and my granny thought it was her cooking, I told her it was just a nasty picture I had seen lol.

 

Then, when I was around 12 or so I started watching it again. This time, I would just watch it because I could and it was something to pass the time. I understood what was happening then....

 

THEN came one of the worst times was when I tried to fap to it. I knew what fapping was, a lot of people talked about it (mainly the kids who were a little older than me) and I tried all the time and nothing happened. I would literally be sitting in the bathroom for like 40 minutes and nothing would ever happen. I thought I had some kind of mental deformity or something. I tried forever all throughout till I was late 13, then when I turned 14, it was like some miracle happened. I tried it again and like a drop or 2 or clear liquid shot out, it felt kind of weird and tickled a lot. I remember from then on out I couldn't even finish it tickled so bad. Then, it wasn't clear, it was white, and it felt amazing. Now I do it like... almost every day, but I guess that's normal for a 15 year old (soon to be anyway) but I try not to watch porn much, but it's sometimes hard not to. It's so boring without it. I'll probably have to worry about it more when I get older but for now I guess it's just something to pass the time, and it relieves stress, and it feels amazing.

 

Hope you enjoyed my story. smile.gif lol

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Baseball
I guess it's just something to pass the time, and it relieves stress, and it feels amazing.

 

How much stress can a 15 year old have?

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EvilFuture
I guess it's just something to pass the time, and it relieves stress, and it feels amazing.

 

How much stress can a 15 year old have?

A lot for me... Especially lately. My grades are dropping, my uncle has brain cancer and they couldn't get it all out... so yes, a 15 year old can have stress.

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EscoLehGo
I'll stick to my lonely drinking and masturbation sessions, thank you.

 

In future read the whole damn conversation if you want to add your opinions.

I did read it, you sexless robot. Shouldn't you be busy being the change you want to see in the world or participating in some wholesome activity that involves growing into a better, more well rounded human being? There are more people to meet and learn from out there, log off, take a jog around the block and let me know what you find.

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Finite

 

I'll stick to my lonely drinking and masturbation sessions, thank you.

 

In future read the whole damn conversation if you want to add your opinions.

I did read it, you sexless robot. Shouldn't you be busy being the change you want to see in the world or participating in some wholesome activity that involves growing into a better, more well rounded human being? There are more people to meet and learn from out there, log off, take a jog around the block and let me know what you find.

No you evidently didn't considering that the post wasn't even meant to be for you. I was simply stating that he failed to read the conversation we were having earlier to its fullest extent.

 

Here's a piece of advice to you people, just for life in general. READ.

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Killerdude
May God give you the strength to pull through this, It will truly be the challenge of your lifetime..

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Hardly, there are many far more difficult things in life than not masturbating to porn. Though if you're addicted to it I suppose it'd present a noticeable amount of difficulty but it's nothing like trying to get over the loss of a loved one or finding a new job in this economic climate.

Not masturbating for the normal Male Human is a task that is next to impossible to perform, most people can't make it very long before they have a field day wankin' it...

Though there might be something psychologically different between me and you, physically we're both human and I've never felt the need to masturbate.

 

Therefore I wouldn't say that it's impossible for a normal person with a sex drive to not masturbate, it may be difficult but it's nowhere near impossible. Hell if it was damaging to not orgasm or masturbate then I'd probably be dead by now, though I still do not understand why people have a sex drive I'm trying to understand why they crave it so very badly.

 

 

Wait, what? I haven't read the previous pages, so I'm only basing this off what you've wrote above, but you are asexual, right? So whilst you might find it extremely easy to not masturbate, I'd say that this doesn't apply to everyone.

 

I tried to not jerk it for a week, and by day 5 I was practically walking around with a pitched tent. The slightest brush of a human against my arm as I was walking down the street almost caused me to orgasm on the spot.

 

Obviously I'm joking, but it was incredibly hard for me not to do it for a few days. Everyone is different. I'm glad I have a sex drive, but there's plenty of reasons why I wish I didn't as well.

Edit: f*ck. Top of the page.

 

Once again, I'm not going to pretend that I know how easy or hard it is for someone with a sex drive to stop masturbating, though as I've previously mentioned there do not seem to be any physical barriers or side effects to actually going without masturbation.

If you're a normal Human Male, It is practically impossible.

 

Just ask anyone..

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0909090

Believe me or not I haven't watched porn or masturbated for more than 3 years. I just don't feel need to do it, I never think about it.

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EvilFuture
Believe me or not I haven't watched porn or masturbated for more than 3 years. I just don't feel need to do it, I never think about it.

Wow... That's... that's pretty crazy. lol as a lot of people said it's hard to even go like a week without it.

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Finite

 

If you're a normal Human Male, It is practically impossible.

 

Just ask anyone..

...

 

 

Believe me or not I haven't watched porn or masturbated for more than 3 years. I just don't feel need to do it, I never think about it.

 

This is just too perfect.

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Remix
Believe me or not I haven't watched porn or masturbated for more than 3 years. I just don't feel need to do it, I never think about it.

HOW? Seriously, how? How old are you? Are you asexual? Are you human? TELL ME EVERYTHING YOU KNOW.

 

Anyway, I've imposed a "no fap" challenge for myself - for science, of course. I'm 20 hours in and normally right now is fap o'clock. Safe to say my right hand is twitching.

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0909090

Once you will find other way to spend your time, something which you enjoy you won't feel need to watch porn. At least it was just like that in my case. In fact I only masturbated/watched porn very few times and then just quitted. Well maybe I'm weird but I felt really bad after doing these things confused.gif it was kinda shocking to me to realise what I'm doing..when I was younger and my friend showed me where I can find porn I was disgusted after I watched. And now I started to watch it regularly..it sure felt a bit weird. My hate or rather dislike to porn is because I'm christian so I should avoid these things.. I never watched porn since then, maybe I'm weird yes. But I just wanted to say that it's possible to quit porn/masturbating.

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Finite

 

Once you will find other way to spend your time, something which you enjoy you won't feel need to watch porn. At least it was just like that in my case. In fact I only masturbated/watched porn very few times and then just quitted. Well maybe I'm weird but I felt really bad after doing these things confused.gif it was kinda shocking to me to realise what I'm doing..when I was younger and my friend showed me where I can find porn I was disgusted after I watched. And now I started to watch it regularly..it sure felt a bit weird. My hate or rather dislike to porn is because I'm christian so I should avoid these things.. I never watched porn since then, maybe I'm weird yes. But I just wanted to say that it's possible to quit porn/masturbating.

 

Of course it is, though I'm in no way religious and it's most likely due to my no sex drive I've never in my nearly twenty years of life ever masturbated.

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Kwabs
Of course it is, though I'm in no way religious and it's most likely due to my no sex drive I've never in my nearly twenty years of life ever masturbated.

So you're trying to say you never masturbated? That's quite impossible. Every child (male and female) between 10 and 16 should have masturbated at least a few times. It's part of explorering your body.

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Finite
Of course it is, though I'm in no way religious and  it's most likely due to my no sex drive I've never in my nearly twenty years of life ever masturbated.

So you're trying to say you never masturbated? That's quite impossible. Every child (male and female) between 10 and 16 should have masturbated at least a few times. It's part of explorering your body.

No, I'm asexual. So I've never had a sex drive, therefore I haven't had any reason to masturbate.

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Darth Yokel

Good for you. Last porn I saw was back in 2009. But I was never into it so I can't comment on positive or negative aspects of such decision. I find porn incredibly boring and a complete waste of time.

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.dre.

I have a date in 12 days so I'm going to go without for that long if I nut too early then that's all the reason to wank off every now and then.

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Killerdude
Once you will find other way to spend your time, something which you enjoy you won't feel need to watch porn. At least it was just like that in my case. In fact I only masturbated/watched porn very few times and then just quitted. Well maybe I'm weird but I felt really bad after doing these things confused.gif it was kinda shocking to me to realise what I'm doing..when I was younger and my friend showed me where I can find porn I was disgusted after I watched. And now I started to watch it regularly..it sure felt a bit weird. My hate or rather dislike to porn is because I'm christian so I should avoid these things.. I never watched porn since then, maybe I'm weird yes. But I just wanted to say that it's possible to quit porn/masturbating.

A good portion of my life is dedicated to occupying my time, but yet every 8 or so hours and I can't bear it.

 

How in God's sweet holy Earth have you gone 3 f*cking years without jerkin' it?

 

I know how, You're lying...

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0909090
I know how, You're lying...

 

You may think so, but I'm telling truth. wink.gif I just completely forgot about what I did 3 years old and never haven't done it since then.

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El Dildo

 

Believe me or not I haven't watched porn or masturbated for more than 3 years. I just don't feel need to do it, I never think about it.

Wow... That's... that's pretty crazy. lol as a lot of people said it's hard to even go like a week without it.

that's not crazy at all.

 

in fact that was perfectly normal for most of the population until about 10 years ago.

you think porn has always been this accessible?

 

all of these porn tube websites that young people use for porn nowadays didn't exist until fairly recently. it's the result of rampant piracy in the porn community. all of those clips from all of those tube sites were ripped from DVD's and pay-per-membership porno clubs. no one makes porn for free. it wasn't very long ago that if you wanted porn - and you weren't going to buy some VHS tapes at an adult bookstore - you still had to find a real porn site and use your credit card to become a member.

 

I'm in a relationship right now, so I don't need to jerk off by myself very much.

but even when I'm single, I find it pretty easy to go weeks or months without watching porn. it's pretty normal.

 

if you can't do that, you're either a 13-year old boy or you need help.

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Clem Fandango

Although I don't like porn for all the reasons I mentioned earlier, there's some people in this thread talking about fapping "too much" or quitting fapping altogether. I have no idea why you'd want to restrict your own sexual expression. It's perfectly natural and there's nothing wrong with it (yeah I know "friction burns" very funny lads), so would you want to limit it or stop altogether? Even if you're wanking for escapism I don't really know how that would qualify as unhealthy. I'm not sure why people take this attitude, if some came into this thread and told us he was wanking two dozen times a day we'd probably laugh at him and tell him he "has a problem" but if he told us he was having sex with his girlfriend just as much we'd buy him a beer and pat him on that back... or we would if this wasn't an internet forum. And sex and masturbation are done for the same reasons and produce the same results; obviously having sex with another person is better, but it's not intrinsically healthier.

 

Am I wrong?

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El Dildo

 

Am I wrong?

technically no.

 

but anyone will tell you that sex with another person is the goal, not a lifetime of pleasing yourself alone. it's better in every way.

and they'd be right.

 

it's not necessarily physically unhealthy to masturbate a lot.

it's just not the best thing you could be doing for yourself or your life.

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Clem Fandango
Am I wrong?

technically no.

 

but anyone will tell you that sex with another person is the goal, not a lifetime of pleasing yourself alone. it's better in every way.

and they'd be right.

 

it's not necessarily physically unhealthy to masturbate a lot.

it's just not the best thing you could be doing for yourself or your life.

1) I was obviously talking about mental health 2) even if masturbation is a substitute for sex, nobody masturbates instead of sex 3) if you only want a relationship so that you can have sex, you've got bigger problems.

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El Dildo

 

1) I was obviously talking about mental health 2) even if masturbation is a substitute for sex, nobody masturbates instead of sex 3) if you only want a relationship so that you can have sex, you've got bigger problems.[/color]

lol...

why are you taking offense to my reply??

I was basically just elaborating on what you said. but oh well. I guess we're arguing now tounge2.gif

 

1.) it wasn't "obvious" that you were referring only to mental health.

but even so, it doesn't change my point.

 

2.) what are you talking about?

plenty of people jerk off in place of sex. in fact, that's kind of the point. maybe you should rephrase that statement, I don't follow.

 

3.) most relationships start with sex.

because you have to be physically attracted to someone before the rest of the romance unfolds.

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Clem Fandango
why are you taking offense to my reply??

I didn't? The numbered list may seemed patronising, but it wasn't meant to be.

 

 

but even so, it doesn't change my point.

But I hold that there is nothing about Dr. Hans Jerkoff that is detrimental to mental health.

 

 

plenty of people jerk off in place of sex. in fact, that's kind of the point. maybe you should rephrase that statement, I don't follow.

I mean nobody chooses masturbation over sex or relationships.

 

 

most relationships start with sex.

because you have to be physically attracted to someone before the rest of the romance unfolds.

Yes, but that wasn't my point. My point was that if you only want a relationship so you can have sex instead of wanking, you may aswell be wanking. It'll certainly be better to have sex instead of wanking, but it won't be more healthy.

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