Deffpony Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 What have you done recently or ever that you are ashamed of. Something you wish you could take back. Something that doesn't reflect the real you. When I was in middle school I used to bully this kid. We called him Ellion Gonzalez cause at that time it was a huge story and he looked like him. For story sake lets just call him Ellion. I wouldn't really beat him up but I would physically torture him at times. I'd give him dead legs and push him around. I would always call him names and make fun of him in class or gym. I would encourage others to join. Last year Ellion found me on Facebook and messaged me. He stated that he wished I didn't treat him like that because it set a precedence for the rest of his days in school even through college. He never made any friends and struggled socially. He told me that he was gay and that coming out was impossible since he was already tortured as a straight kid let alone being gay. He couldn't be the person he truly was openly through out high school and college and even still hasn't told his parents. I begin to apologize for everything. I told him I was a dumb kid and I wish I would have known then what I know now so I could go back and make it right. We eventually met for coffee one day and I got to know the real Ellion. The one behind the abuse. He's a great guy. Loves his family and is friendly to everyone. He's currently a teacher and he loves his job despite the pay. We keep in touch fairly regularly and I am glad that I got a chance to make amends for the stupid things I did. I'm glad he turned out so great despite the abuse and I wish that he could have had a normal childhood like he deserved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.Mister Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 I used to hit on girls quite abit on Facebook when I had 0 confidence. Turns out it was an old friends girl... he beat me up infront of his and my friends. Havent seen him since Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DEALUX Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 Many years ago, I used to be a jerk with my girl buddies. I did some stupid things and kind of ruined my friendship with them but at the moment I'm still friends with two out of three. I'm sort of in love with one of the two and the third one I exchange a few words with from time to time but we don't talk like we used to. I probably hurt her because apparently she loved me at some point and I didn't because I was just trying to get laid. I'll have to apologize one day to all of them when I find the right opportunity. I don't blame myself for it and I must say I don't think I should regret it because after all, those things made me what I am today and things can still be fixed today probably. The past is not important though; you are here and this moment is all you really have. The Audiophile Thread XB271HU | TESORO Gram XS | Xtrfy MZ1 | Xbox Elite v2 | Hifiman Sundara | Fiio K9 Pro i7 4790K 4.4 GHz | GTX 1080 Ti | 32 GB Crucial DDR3 | ADATA 256GB | Samsung 860 PRO 2TB Xbox | Xbox 360 | Xbox Series X | PS2 | PS3 | Google Pixel 6 Pro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
na89340qv0n34b09q340 Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 When I was in eighth grade I pressured this girl into kissing me through our mutual friends, they wanted us to be together, but she was repulsed by me. I really wish I could go back and apologize to her, good thing it never went farther than that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamil121 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Well moments of shame happen to all of us. I actually got few stories. first one is the day i got my driving licence, i had a 1.6 Opel Vectra i was so confident that it's the fastest car ever and as i was 17 I wanted to race so i stop at lights and there is a 1.0 l Suzuki pulling up to me and he started reving up the car so i was like come one then. So Lights go green my car is in the lead. Second gear in and my gearbox blew and i lost to a 1.0 l car. I was ashamed cuz turns out it was a girl that beat me so thats one thing i never talk about, Now im a better driver and i got a little more experience with whole engine and power thing but i learned a valuable lesson - It doesn't matter if you got more resources if you don't know how to use them Second story is about a girl Well this one is pretty quick so there was this girl i liked for ages so we started talking on FB then txting and we finally met up. Im a nice guy so things went very smooth and we kissed and actually met up a couple more times. Then one day me and my friends went out clubbing so we had a bit to drink not too much as i learned my lesson from drinking anyways (I'll tell you about it in another story) So i see her and she was with her friends and i come up to her so she gives me a kiss we were talking and then some guy comes up and things get pretty hot and we start to make out anyways a guy comes up and tells me to leave his "Girlfriend" alone I was like WTF and she's like get away from me and stuff like that in front of her and mine friends and she tells the guy i started kissing her so he punched me and that was pretty embarassing but i kicked the guy's ass so im kind of proud of myself too. An this is my last one for today So on Saint's Patricks day me and my friends were drinking this was last year and we were about 2 bottles in each and we were drinking whiskey and then mixed it with vodka (Bad Idea) so then we go clubbing get more drinks there. Shot after shot And at some point i blacked out and i woke up in a unknown apartment next to my old school teacher. I tried to sneak out while she was sleeping but i tripped and fell flat on my face she woke up she went pure red so did i. She told me she didnt remember anything neither did i but we had sex anyways it's kind of a win as she's attractive but it's weird cuz she knows my parents and she visit's them often and its just maybe not a shame but its very awkward anyways so since then if i drink i may have a shot or two not more cuz i don't know who next am i going to end up with. Anyways that's it for today might post something tomorrow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I<3GTAV Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Trying to ask a girl out over facebook. Stupidest thing I've ever done, and I wish I could of had the balls to actually talk to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
018361 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 I'm not sure if this counts, but when I was younger my sisters friend had a baby that died at birth. Anyway not too long later she was at my house planning the funeral while my sister was trying to comfort her. She was crying and I walked into the room not knowing what had just happened and I said ' why are you crying? who died? ' and she just started absolutely bawling. A few moments later my sister took me to the other room and told me the situation and I felt so bad about what I had said to her. I really wish I hadn't said that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riquenunes Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Trying to ask a girl out over facebook. Stupidest thing I've ever done, and I wish I could of had the balls to actually talk to her. Well, did you succeed? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BCspeed34 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 How's this for shameful? Today at the local McDonalds the guy at the register asked me if I wanted "the usual". I've become a regular at McDonalds... ________________________________________ 専車SODO-MOTO International Vehicle Importers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oddsock Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 How's this for shameful? Today at the local McDonalds the guy at the register asked me if I wanted "the usual". I've become a regular at McDonalds... Hahaha! I have a pretty bad one, but before I say what it is, you all should know that she and the kid are fine and healthy. That being said, I once rear-ended a pregnant woman. I was in California visiting friends and I was driving my buddy's car (he doesn't like to drive but I love to) in convoy with some other friends of his to some timeshare cabin in the Californian wilderness for a weekend of off-the-grid fun. I was the last car in the 3-car convoy and still getting a bit used to it, and I also had four passengers. At one point we came to a T-junction and we were turning right. The first car went, then the car in front of me, being driven by the pregnant woman and her husband, looked to see if they could go. Coming down the road was a Jeep that was at a distance and pace that would allow us all to make it onto the road together if we moved quickly. I looked at the car in front of me, saw the tail lights blink off--so they had let off the brakes--then looked back at the Jeep and decided I could make it, so I hit the gas. I turned back forward to see that the two in front of me had actually stopped again to wait for the Jeep. I hit the brakes hard, but not as hard as I should have. In all the panic I got more worried about upsetting my passengers than I did hitting the car in front of me, and so I ended up tapping the rear bumper of the car in front at just a few miles an hour. There was no damage to either car, but the pregnant woman was freaked out beyond all hell. I felt like I had ruined everything and maybe even caused complications to someone's pregnancy. The people on the trip were understanding and made light of it all, but I couldn't forgive myself. Now I am much, much more wary about anticipating the movements of other drivers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ryan Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 About this time last year, my best girl friend and I ran into each other at the bar one night. We had a few drinks together and got pretty drunk. For some reason neither of us can remember, we agreed to head back to her place. Woke up the next morning in bed with her. Never intended for it to happen but it did. The shameful part is that she had a boyfriend at the time. He was conveniently never told of our accidental drunken adventure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triple Vacuum Seal Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 I occasionally bullied and 'jumped' the class reject in 5th grade to earn "respect" in an incredibly hostile environment. It was a difficult time for me; but there is no justification for that type of behavior. That's not me at all. Ten years later and +1000 mi away, I finally tracked down the victim on FB. I still haven't gathered the courage or motivation to apologize. Judging from the way some of these bullying victims take matters into their own hands - Jared Loughner, Adam Lanza, the Columbine kids - I'm starting to wonder if it's even worth the risk because the person looks very deviant and removed from society judging from their FB. I bet this guy's probably plotting kill me. "shut up, sit down, relax" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shyabang Shyabang Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 (edited) I was unusually very drunk when I went to a 24-hour spa at night. The person at the counter didn't notice my drunkenness or she didn't think it was severe. She handed me the shirt and shorts for me to wear at the unisex section. I entered the locker room and left my clothes in the locker. I went to the sauna and the bath. I forgot to wear the clothes that were handed to me when I entered the unisex rooms. Fortunately, it was after midnight, the room was a bit dim and everyone inside were sleeping (I think). I realized that I was naked when I looked at myself as I laid down on the floor. Edited January 17, 2013 by Shyabang Shyabang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I<3GTAV Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Trying to ask a girl out over facebook. Stupidest thing I've ever done, and I wish I could of had the balls to actually talk to her. Well, did you succeed? No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonjack Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Stealing little toy cars in a Vietnamese shop and it was the most baddest thing I have ever done in my life. Not really though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NaidRaida Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 How's this for shameful? Today at the local McDonalds the guy at the register asked me if I wanted "the usual". I've become a regular at McDonalds... Don't feel shame brother! Same happens to me when I go for a Pizza. And not only in one shop. In several. I don't feel any shame. I have an easy life with less talking. Everybody knows what I need. Tonno plus Peperoni. It's like... Bond... James Bond. But only... Tonno... Tonno Peperoni. I'm laughing my ass off.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarrinPA Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 I occasionally bullied and 'jumped' the class reject in 5th grade to earn "respect" in an incredibly hostile environment. It was a difficult time for me; but there is no justification for that type of behavior. That's not me at all. I still haven't gathered the courage or motivation to apologize. Judging from the way some of these bullying victims take matters into their own hands... I'm starting to wonder if it's even worth the risk because the person looks very deviant and removed from society judging from their FB. I bet this guy's probably plotting kill me. Honestly, better you than some random innocent people. Apologize to the person. Maybe it will work out like it did for Deffpony. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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