SnowySA Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 Well, what can I say aboutt his. I'm a Muslim and I can tell you it's for her forbidden to date guys, wether Muslim or non-Muslim. And I do not know if you wanna to marry her but that's forbidden too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Dildo Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm a Muslim and I can tell you it's for her forbidden to date guys, wether Muslim or non-Muslim.And I do not know if you wanna to marry her but that's forbidden too. forbidden according to an extreme interpretation of Islam maybe. but most Muslim families living in the US don't make their children abide by such strict rules. their girls are allowed to date and marry, even if the man isn't a Muslim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SnowySA Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm a Muslim and I can tell you it's for her forbidden to date guys, wether Muslim or non-Muslim.And I do not know if you wanna to marry her but that's forbidden too. forbidden according to an extreme interpretation of Islam maybe. but most Muslim families living in the US don't make their children abide by such strict rules. their girls are allowed to date and marry, even if the man isn't a Muslim. Those Mulslim families you are speaking of are not living by the rules of Islam. And yet you can call it extreme or radical Islam. That's just, stupid. Islam protects the women but if women do not live by the rules of Islam, they might get hurt or even worse. But these days, barely Muslim people lives by the rules. Too bad people got a wrong view of Islam. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Dildo Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 Those Mulslim families you are speaking of are not living by the rules of Islam. well then, in that case, the rules of Islam are pretty stupid. no one should have to live by such silly rules. Islam protects the women but if women do not live by the rules of Islam,they might get hurt or even worse. how does Islam protect women? Islam subjugates women in almost every aspect of society. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SnowySA Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 Those Mulslim families you are speaking of are not living by the rules of Islam. well then, in that case, the rules of Islam are pretty stupid. no one should have to live by such silly rules. Islam protects the women but if women do not live by the rules of Islam,they might get hurt or even worse. how does Islam protect women? Islam subjugates women in almost every aspect of society. That you call Islam is stupid, there is nothing I can argue with you so I drop this discussion. I live by the rules of Islam and I love it. And who said no one should have to live by the rules of Islam? It's people their choices, no one forces them to live by the rules of Islam. People are free what they want to do and to believe. And your question about protecting women. If a woman wears attractive tight clothes, they increases the chance of being raped and forced to do any bad things. If they live by the rules of Islam, the chances are slim to be raped. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Icarus Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 If a woman wears attractive tight clothes, they increases the chance of being raped and forced to do any bad things.If they live by the rules of Islam, the chances are slim to be raped. ...seriously? Sexual assault is a crime of opportunity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Majestic81 Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I have a feeling this thread is about to turn into a sh*t storm, I think the OP got his answer by now. Keep it calm guys. SnowySA: bad people are out there and bad things happen, wearing a black skirt to hide your body wont minimize the chances of getting raped. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K^2 Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 OP, Iran has been a secular country for a good duration of time. The whole extremism thing is a recent development. If she's dressing in Western fashion, odds are good that she's from an entirely adequate family with entirely adequate views herself. Fact that she's Muslim should worry you no more than if she was Christian, Jewish, or Buddhist. Prior to filing a bug against any of my code, please consider this response to common concerns. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celticfang Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I'm a Muslim and I can tell you it's for her forbidden to date guys, wether Muslim or non-Muslim.And I do not know if you wanna to marry her but that's forbidden too. forbidden according to an extreme interpretation of Islam maybe. but most Muslim families living in the US don't make their children abide by such strict rules. their girls are allowed to date and marry, even if the man isn't a Muslim. Going back ten or so years, the Muslim kids I was at high school with here (North of England) weren't very religious, they openly talked about who they wanted to date and what they'd do. Even the so-say strict taxi drivers around here (and I live near a large Muslim area) smoke and drink, it isn't uncommon to drive through that area and see Muslim kids having a cigarette or a drink. there was one time in Year 10 when there were two Muslim students in my class, they got asked as a joke why they didn't bring prayer mats in (a bad taste joke I know) and they pretty much went on a 20 minute explanation of how and why they weren't strict and what the did. Best science lesson of the month. When one of my Muslim ex-friends went to London, he said last time I saw him, and I'll quote Rahim here, he went to London to go live with his famil You can do whatever you want, nobody gives a f*ck if you drink or sleep around Not every Muslim sticks strictly to scripture, that's true across all religions however. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EscoLehGo Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 Those Mulslim families you are speaking of are not living by the rules of Islam. well then, in that case, the rules of Islam are pretty stupid. no one should have to live by such silly rules. Islam protects the women but if women do not live by the rules of Islam,they might get hurt or even worse. how does Islam protect women? Islam subjugates women in almost every aspect of society. That you call Islam is stupid, there is nothing I can argue with you so I drop this discussion. I live by the rules of Islam and I love it. And who said no one should have to live by the rules of Islam? It's people their choices, no one forces them to live by the rules of Islam. People are free what they want to do and to believe. And your question about protecting women. If a woman wears attractive tight clothes, they increases the chance of being raped and forced to do any bad things. If they live by the rules of Islam, the chances are slim to be raped. Damn dude, you just sound so un-fun it isn't even funny. I hope you're a troll and if you're not I hope you're in a Taliban patrolled area of Afghanistan, spreading your propaganda in the hopes of gaining western followers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Dildo Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 That you call Islam is stupid, there is nothing I can argue with you so I drop this discussion.I live by the rules of Islam and I love it. I'm not saying Islam is stupid. I'm saying that some of their rules are stupid. If a woman wears attractive tight clothes, they increases the chance of being raped yeah maybe, or maybe not. there are plenty of attractive women who wear tight clothes all the time that have never been raped. it's not the woman's fault either. it's the mans fault for acting like an immature beast or barnyard animal. if you can't stop yourself from raping a woman just because she is beautiful, then guess what? YOU are the problem, not the woman and not the clothes. this is an example of a stupid Islamic idea. it doesn't mean the whole religion is stupid, but that attitude about men and women definitely is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celticfang Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 So I went to get a paper and walked past a Muslim owned off license, take a guess who were in there buying alcohol, cigarettes and candy? EVERYBODY WAS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronmar The Only Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 There's this girl in my class, she is from Iran. Dresses like a typical college girl. She's smart, funny and beautiful. She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out because I hear muslims can't date non muslims. My sister married a guy who's father is from Iran. Obviously that turned out fine. Just had their first child this past summer. Everyone is different, but I wouldn't base a decision solely on someone's religion. Now, if you knew more specifics, such as if she is strict adherer to one of the major versions of Islam, it most likely would not work. My brother-in-law is rather agnostic about his father's religion though would probably still identify himself as Muslim (it should be noted that his father married an American who is a Seven Day Adventist). Also, who cares how it might end up. Enjoy the ride of life in all the ways you can. Visit Writers' Discussion Compilation of Works: From a Storyteller Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Fromage Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 I think this topic is not going the right way And OP: You probably saw all the replies. Almost everyone says you have to ask her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Finn 7 five 11 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 In case it doesn't work out for you... Is that...Sub-Zero? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Gold Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Mate, Persians are stereotyped as being very secular, liberal and wealth-seeking, much like politically-active Western Jews. Although Iran has succumbed to Islamic Revolution which, as far as I'm certain, is supported and manipulated by a small minority of Iran's population, Azerbaijan and its people, who are also Persian and near-identical to Iranians in culture, language etc., has boomed since leaving the Soviet Union (despite some human rights frailties), and prides itself as being the most liberal and secular nation in the Islamic World, ahead of even Turkey (who, themselves, are very liberal and secular). Honestly, her being Persian and you being Jewish has little to do with anything, especially when you're both college students in the US of all places. I'm sure you know that American Jews don't have very strong political ties to Israel, much in the same way that Persians have very weak links to the Ahmedinejad regime. In fact, there are numerous Persian Jews living in the US; a lot live in the western LA area. El_Diablo is not alone in his example. I'm a secular Christian and I dated a Jewish girl once, who went to high school at a private Orthodox Jewish school of all places. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RipGore Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Dress like a Muslim. Act like a Muslim. You will be good to go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Zilcho Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Convert her to reason... U R B A N I T A S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dingdongs Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Curious as to how this went lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daz Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Is that...Sub-Zero? And Scorpion. Id hit it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stephan90 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 (edited) I'm a Muslim and I can tell you it's for her forbidden to date guys, wether Muslim or non-Muslim.And I do not know if you wanna to marry her but that's forbidden too. forbidden according to an extreme interpretation of Islam maybe. but most Muslim families living in the US don't make their children abide by such strict rules. their girls are allowed to date and marry, even if the man isn't a Muslim. Those Mulslim families you are speaking of are not living by the rules of Islam. And yet you can call it extreme or radical Islam. That's just, stupid. Islam protects the women but if women do not live by the rules of Islam, they might get hurt or even worse. But these days, barely Muslim people lives by the rules. Too bad people got a wrong view of Islam. Brainwashed people like you make me sick. Girls/Women are free human beings that should be allowed to date whoever they want. What you talk about is just used as a pretense for oppressing a whole gender. Only in sick societies women need to hide their face and body and stay home in order not to get raped. Edited February 5, 2013 by Stephan123 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EgyptianStar Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 Everyone can have different interpretation of Islam. Free Will is the basic tenets meaning you alone decide, and you ultimately are in control of your own destiny. And you may live by the Islamic tenets you see fit. Liberty and a life of happiness is your natural right. No Imam No human authority should ever negate that. That is why Muslims have no religious authoritative body. Although a massive fraudulent Saudi funded authoritative system hell-bent on power seems not to care. Bottom line do what you please. In the End we'll all be judged whether your a believer or not. live your life in the most righteously of ways and do good onto others as you would want done to you. PS: I'm a muslim. And the context of the scriptures change from generation to generation. For example the part of Muslims women only marrying Muslim men was interrupted so that the newly small religion would be able to retain its population and grow out further. Furthermore polygamy was also interrupted so that Muslim men would marry non-Muslim women have a numerous families and from their the religion would grow on. Nowadays 1.6 billion Muslims the practices of the 7th century and the traditional ancient Arabian culture doesn't fit with modern times. The headscarf Muslim women were isn't mentioned anywhere in the scriptures, the scarf and the niqub Pre-date Islam by centuries. That was a cultural thing, which relates to the environment they lived in. Look at the Islamic world in the Pre 1970s. Before the age of Political Islam. It was a completely different World. In Egypt Muslim never wore a headscarf its was considered a taboo something unnecessary that only a few souls would accept today its the opposite. I always ask did it magically appear in the scriptures or was it a calculated move by those self-proclaimed religious scholars who seek to control the society's moral standard. Which is no different to what some politicians seek to do. Anyways to try to keep it civil. And good luck asking her out. Read up on Iran she'll probably like it if your more informed about Persian history. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA_stu Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Sounds like something a comedy central exec would come up with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T0X1C Posted February 6, 2013 Share Posted February 6, 2013 It depends on the family, man. I'm Muslim and I dated a couple of non-muslim girls during my school days. The thing is that I never told my parents, I kept my relationships to myself, as I didn't know how they'd react. Not sure if you want to go down that secretive route. When it comes to marriage it has to be with another Muslim, but IMO dating is fine. If the parents are "new-age" and cool with it then you're lucky. It could even be a bit of a cultural thing, I'm sure not sure how an Iranian family would react. Ask her, if she says no because of her family then don't feel bad, you were just unlucky. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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