Guest Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 Muslim girls are awesome man. They'll blow you away. Yea man, Muslim girls are where it's at, they really know how to have a blast. Mind you, finding out if their parents don't like it, it'll get you into a bit of a sticky situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ClaudeSpeed1911 Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 OP, I say stay away because even if you take her out you won't be able to marry her without being a Muslim. Trust me I'm a Muslim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abel. Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 OP, I say stay away because even if you take her out you won't be able to marry her without being a Muslim.Trust me I'm a Muslim. I don't think he's looking for marriage to be honest. Valid point nonetheless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swoorup Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 I tried. Turned out that she was 10 years more old than me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Double L. Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 There's no matter about to date friend. First all you have to know covered clothing does not apply to ever county, in Turkey a lot people wear whatever they want so they can wear all clothes, it's likes this in Turkey, i don't know how it's in other muslim countries. There are a little people wear like real muslim in Turkey. And it's not true my old teacher has got Christian ex so it doesn't matter. And in my view that doesn't matter. I can out with any girl (muslim, christian, jew). Because you're a lover! In islam it's appropriate. Be relax. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Typhus Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 Muslim girls are awesome man. They'll blow you away. Yea man, Muslim girls are where it's at, they really know how to have a blast. Mind you, finding out if their parents don't like it, it'll get you into a bit of a sticky situation. That's enough now, your jokes are starting to bomb. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Majestic81 Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 No sex before marriage is something you have to look out for OP, Good luck with that... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raavi Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 Just do it man, nothing ventured nothing gained! – overeducated wonk who fetishises compromise Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimmy_Leppard Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 You should do it. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no. Life is full of disappointments and in this case at least you'll know you asked her.. If you don't, you might ask yourself a couple of weeks/months from now: ''Why didn't I do it?'' Also, if she says yes, by your words about her, you'll hit the jackpot. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RATEDR307 Posted January 16, 2013 Author Share Posted January 16, 2013 (edited) Get to know this chick, see how she behaves around you, and, if you can, ask her (implicitly) about her religious beliefs. Then, after a week or so (don't leave it too long) ask her out (having planned a killer date in advance, of course). Well she sat right next to me, we had a little conversation and she brought up that she was Persian, I made a few jokes about Ahmajinadad (spelling?), I asked her if she was Muslim and she said yes. I didn't want to ask her if she was secular or not because I thought it would be rude, but she did say that she planned on going back to Iran once she finished college so who the hell knows. I'll see her again next week (my history class is only on tuesdays) and hopefully all goes well. Edited January 16, 2013 by RATEDR307 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abel. Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 Get to know this chick, see how she behaves around you, and, if you can, ask her (implicitly) about her religious beliefs. Then, after a week or so (don't leave it too long) ask her out (having planned a killer date in advance, of course). Well she sat right next to me, we had a little conversation and she brought up that she was Persian, I made a few jokes about Ahmajinadad (spelling?), I asked her if she was Muslim and she said yes. I didn't want to ask her if she was secular or not because I thought it would be rude, but she did say that she planned on going back to Iran once she finished college so who the hell knows. I'll see her again next week (my history class is only on tuesdays) and hopefully all goes well. I understand how that could come off as rude. However, subtlety is the key--in-fact, if you ask her out and she says yes, then you'll know that she's not that religious because there's no way a strictly religious Muslim would date a Jew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AtomicPunk Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 (edited) There's this girl in my class, she is from Iran. Dresses like a typical college girl. She's smart, funny and beautiful. She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out because I hear muslims can't date non muslims. I would think that your family would have just as big of problem as hers. Most people from Iran that I've had the pleasure of being around have been really kind, loving people. When it's love, nothing else matters. Iran hasn't attacked anyone for over 2500 years. What has Israel been up to? Also, what if she made a joke about some jew like you joked about Ahmydinnerjacket? I've found that jewish people sure like to dish it out, but they cannot take it. @Typhus No, I'm not. But you just did. I'm just making a valid point. This guy is being leary of a girl and asking on a forum if he should go for it because of the muslim bashing fear mongering that goes on. It's ignorant. If you love someone. none of that sh*t matters and it ceases to exist. Edited January 16, 2013 by AtomicPunk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Typhus Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 There's this girl in my class, she is from Iran. Dresses like a typical college girl. She's smart, funny and beautiful. She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out because I hear muslims can't date non muslims. I would think that your family would have just as big of problem as hers. Most people from Iran that I've had the pleasure of being around have been really kind, loving people. When it's love, nothing else matters. Iran hasn't attacked anyone for over 2500 years. What has Israel been up to? Really? We're really turning this thread into an Anti-Israel thing? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abel. Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 There's this girl in my class, she is from Iran. Dresses like a typical college girl. She's smart, funny and beautiful. She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out because I hear muslims can't date non muslims. I would think that your family would have just as big of problem as hers. Most people from Iran that I've had the pleasure of being around have been really kind, loving people. When it's love, nothing else matters. Iran hasn't attacked anyone for over 2500 years. What has Israel been up to? Also, what if she made a joke about some jew like you joked about Ahmydinnerjacket? I've found that jewish people sure like to dish it out, but they cannot take it. I've been subject to racial jibes in my time and have taken them on the chin and stood my ground. However, I've never had the intention of treating others in the same way, so don't say nonsense like ''Jews like to dish it out but cannot take it''. On another note, have you ever been subject to racial abuse, so do you understand how demeaning it can be? Honestly, what drove you to bring the subject of Israel and Judaism into this topic? Why do you seem to have contempt for Jewish people? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.Mister Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 Stop using stupid excuses. Your not in the middle east Your making up imaginary fears. Just do it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carbine23 Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 There's this girl in my class, she is from Iran. Dresses like a typical college girl. She's smart, funny and beautiful. She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out because I hear muslims can't date non muslims. I would think that your family would have just as big of problem as hers. Most people from Iran that I've had the pleasure of being around have been really kind, loving people. When it's love, nothing else matters. Iran hasn't attacked anyone for over 2500 years. What has Israel been up to? Also, what if she made a joke about some jew like you joked about Ahmydinnerjacket? I've found that jewish people sure like to dish it out, but they cannot take it. I've been subject to racial jibes in my time and have taken them on the chin and stood my ground. However, I've never had the intention of treating others in the same way, so don't say nonsense like ''Jews like to dish it out but cannot take it''. On another note, have you ever been subject to racial abuse, so do you understand how demeaning it can be? Honestly, what drove you to bring the subject of Israel and Judaism into this topic? Why do you seem to have contempt for Jewish people? yeah wtf does Israel have to do with being Jewish. Just because it's run by a mostly Jewish government doesn't mean anything. There's jews of pretty much almost every race, ethnicity, background. Like Elanman is Welsh, and it just so happens his religion is Judaism. In today's age, most westernized people don't care anymore about religion. I see first generation americans acting like every other normal american Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abel. Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 (edited) There's this girl in my class, she is from Iran. Dresses like a typical college girl. She's smart, funny and beautiful. She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out because I hear muslims can't date non muslims. I would think that your family would have just as big of problem as hers. Most people from Iran that I've had the pleasure of being around have been really kind, loving people. When it's love, nothing else matters. Iran hasn't attacked anyone for over 2500 years. What has Israel been up to? Also, what if she made a joke about some jew like you joked about Ahmydinnerjacket? I've found that jewish people sure like to dish it out, but they cannot take it. I've been subject to racial jibes in my time and have taken them on the chin and stood my ground. However, I've never had the intention of treating others in the same way, so don't say nonsense like ''Jews like to dish it out but cannot take it''. On another note, have you ever been subject to racial abuse, so do you understand how demeaning it can be? Honestly, what drove you to bring the subject of Israel and Judaism into this topic? Why do you seem to have contempt for Jewish people? yeah wtf does Israel have to do with being Jewish. Just because it's run by a mostly Jewish government doesn't mean anything. There's jews of pretty much almost every race, ethnicity, background. Like Elanman is Welsh, and it just so happens his religion is Judaism. In today's age, most westernized people don't care anymore about religion. I see first generation americans acting like every other normal american Actually, I'm an atheist with Jewish ancestry, like the OP. I am of an ethnically mixed background, i.e, not Caucasian. AtomicPunk was slating both Israel and Jews, by which I suppose he means those proud of their Jewish ancestry and practising Jews, hence my reaction encompassing both topics. Like you said though, in the West religion is thankfully becoming less of a barrier between people, and perhaps one day people like the OP won't need to question whether or not they should engage in a relationship with someone for religious reasons. Edited January 16, 2013 by elanman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Fromage Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 (edited) Go ahead. I have grown up between muslims and they are not that different as non-muslims. I know a lot about the Islam and it is not allowed in the islam to have sexual contact and tings like kissing/touching each others private places,... before merriage. But if you want to eat something with her or go to a film with her, just do it. As I said, I have grown up between muslims and they are pretty nice actually. A friend of me (atheist) was dating a muslim girl, and her family knew it and they were ok with it (as long as they avoid those things I said before). It's not like muslims are like those people we see on the news. good luck EDIT: Muslims can date with non-muslims. The uncle of a friend (muslim) is married witha christian woman. Edited January 16, 2013 by Chris Fromage Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orbitalraindrops Posted January 16, 2013 Share Posted January 16, 2013 Allah created all people equal regardless of there social background, economic status, sexuality, ethnicity or religion so I'm sure he wouldn't mind a non muslim dating a muslim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newest Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 @ Topic starter: Have you investigated islam first ? If you didn't, check out "islam guide". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oddsock Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Allah created all people equal regardless of there social background, economic status, sexuality, ethnicity or religion so I'm sure he wouldn't mind a non muslim dating a muslim. "Do not marry unbelieving women until they believe. A slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman, even though she allures you.... Unbelievers beckon you to the Fire. But Allah beckons by His Grace to the garden of bliss and forgiveness. And He makes His signs clear to mankind, that they may receive admonition" (Qur'an 2:221). "Under no conditions is a Muslim woman permitted to marry anyone but a Muslim man. The same verse cited above (2:221) mentions, "Nor marry your girls to unbelievers until they believe. A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever...." No exception is given for women to marry Jews and Christians, so the law stands that she may only marry a believing (Muslim) man. As head of the household, the husband provides leadership for the family. A Muslim woman does not follow the leadership of someone who does not share her faith and values." Granted, we're talking about dating, but you can imagine the rules probably don't diverge much from scripture. Also, is anyone a little suspicious of "Newest" and his join date? I suppose if there is any time to proselytize, people go for it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vercetti27 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 Even if she says yes, I'm just worried about us finding things we have in common seeing as she comes from a completely different culture. Either way thanks for the input ya'll. Isn't that the point in conversing with other people? Finding different viewpoints and ideas about life? Ultimately it will highlight yourself as more of an individuality in her eyes, if she was similar to you in every way it would be very boring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The__Phoenix Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 By my experience, while studying in a college from USA, Muslims (girls and boys) who study in the colleges from USA, are quite different to the muslim stereotype we have in mind, specially if they were born and raised in the USA. Most of them are smart, funny and trustworthy. There is nothing to distrust imo. Man up, RATEDR!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ziggy455 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 There's this girl in my class, she is from Iran. Dresses like a typical college girl. She's smart, funny and beautiful. She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out because I hear muslims can't date non muslims. Stay clear of her and her violent religion. Nothing good will come of conflicts with belief. Find a nice normal girl. I know this reply may seem bigoted or blasphemous but it's due to personal experience with girls and this religion. "I might have laughed if I'd have remembered how." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sgt. Foley Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 There's this girl in my class, she is from Iran. Dresses like a typical college girl. She's smart, funny and beautiful. She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out because I hear muslims can't date non muslims. Stay clear of her and her violent religion. Nothing good will come of conflicts with belief. Find a nice normal girl. That's a bit racist... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ziggy455 Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 There's this girl in my class, she is from Iran. Dresses like a typical college girl. She's smart, funny and beautiful. She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out because I hear muslims can't date non muslims. Stay clear of her and her violent religion. Nothing good will come of conflicts with belief. Find a nice normal girl. That's a bit racist... Check the post. I did edit it. "I might have laughed if I'd have remembered how." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarrinPA Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 she did say that she planned on going back to Iran once she finished college so who the hell knows. Um, if this is a long term relationship that you want - are you willing to go to Iran? Are Americans allowed into Iran? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Dildo Posted January 17, 2013 Share Posted January 17, 2013 there's no way a strictly religious Muslim would date a Jew. yeah... that's not true. not all Muslims are extremists. not all Jews are Orthodox. in the Western world, religion doesn't stop 2 young people from dating if they're attracted to each other. Stay clear of her and her violent religion. Nothing good will come of conflicts with belief. Find a nice normal girl. once again, not all Muslims are extremists. I dated a Muslim girl in college for about a year. she was perfectly "normal." I don't care if you're basing your opinion off one bad experience, it's not fair to paint everyone in the same light. Are Americans allowed into Iran? yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Fromage Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 There's this girl in my class, she is from Iran. Dresses like a typical college girl. She's smart, funny and beautiful. She is a muslim, I'm an agnostic with jewish ancestry. Would it be a bad idea to ask her out because I hear muslims can't date non muslims. Stay clear of her and her violent religion. Nothing good will come of conflicts with belief. Find a nice normal girl. That's a bit racist... Check the post. I did edit it. Now it's a generalization... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Creed Bratton Posted January 18, 2013 Share Posted January 18, 2013 Are Americans allowed into Iran? yes. However, they are not allowed out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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