So My Girlfriend Wants To Take a Break...

[Burbalade]

Yea dude, cancel that bitch like Nino. Being "friends" with your exs is a terrible idea, especially if they dicked you around while you were together.

Not always. Semi-patching things up is what got me a blow job in a 4th floor bedroom of a beach house while overlooking the waterway. She came back to town one weekend and I was essentially treated like a king. For that short period of time I had all of the advantages of a relationship with none of the disadvantages.

 

Once you've been separated long enough to get over the whole idea of 'loving' each other, exes can turn out to be decent friends. Sometimes, that's all you should have been to start with.

[Chillzz01]

Im having almost the same exact situation as the OP atm. I actually googled my situation and this topic popped up. Anyway, same as the OP my now ex girl wanted to take a "break" because because she didn't feel like she liked me enough to be in a relationship. She said "I dont date best friends" So she wanted to stay best friends. A hour or so after we broke up she stated kissing me and stuff idk why. The next day my group and i were hanging out (shes in my group) me and my friend went home she stood and hanged with my other best friend for a bit. I find out a 2 days later from my other best friend that she almost had sex with him and showed him her body. That same day just before i found out what happened she deleted my number, facebook, skype and any form of communication from me. I tried calling her but she said "Fu*k off" and that was it. I still didn't hear anything back from her. It turns out shes trying to hook up with both of my best friends at the same time. They also feel that something is wrong and weird. Is been a few days.  I have very strong feelings for her even though we have been only dating for 2 months. Idk what to do. I dont mean to take the spotlight from the OP but im at a difficult situation and very confused. Any help is appreciated. As to the OP if things dont work out as my best friend told me just keep on trucking.

Forget her and move on. She sounds like a crazy f*cking bitch to me, genuine nice girls don't go whoring around with guys and basically use them either. She's not even worth you getting worked up about it. If she thinks she can get away with it she's very very wrong. Once word gets around she'll get a terrible reputation. Go find yourself a girl who will treat you right and wont f*ck you over like that.

Thanks man. Yeah im trying to get over her but its hard. She never appeared as a slut or whore to me at all. She dosnt look like one, sound like one, even acted like one. But i guess you cant judge a book by its cover. Both of my friends think the same thing and that they both look at her compleatly diffrent after what happened. If anything shes probably gonna loose 3 great friends including my self. But i just want to know her explanation on what happened. Ill update on what she says. Again thanks it helped.

[Dingdongs]

 

Im having almost the same exact situation as the OP atm. I actually googled my situation and this topic popped up. Anyway, same as the OP my now ex girl wanted to take a "break" because because she didn't feel like she liked me enough to be in a relationship. She said "I dont date best friends" So she wanted to stay best friends. A hour or so after we broke up she stated kissing me and stuff idk why. The next day my group and i were hanging out (shes in my group) me and my friend went home she stood and hanged with my other best friend for a bit. I find out a 2 days later from my other best friend that she almost had sex with him and showed him her body. That same day just before i found out what happened she deleted my number, facebook, skype and any form of communication from me. I tried calling her but she said "Fu*k off" and that was it. I still didn't hear anything back from her. It turns out shes trying to hook up with both of my best friends at the same time. They also feel that something is wrong and weird. Is been a few days.  I have very strong feelings for her even though we have been only dating for 2 months. Idk what to do. I dont mean to take the spotlight from the OP but im at a difficult situation and very confused. Any help is appreciated. As to the OP if things dont work out as my best friend told me just keep on trucking.

Forget her and move on. She sounds like a crazy f*cking bitch to me, genuine nice girls don't go whoring around with guys and basically use them either. She's not even worth you getting worked up about it. If she thinks she can get away with it she's very very wrong. Once word gets around she'll get a terrible reputation. Go find yourself a girl who will treat you right and wont f*ck you over like that.

Thanks man. Yeah im trying to get over her but its hard. She never appeared as a slut or whore to me at all. She dosnt look like one, sound like one, even acted like one. But i guess you cant judge a book by its cover. Both of my friends think the same thing and that they both look at her compleatly diffrent after what happened. If anything shes probably gonna loose 3 great friends including my self. But i just want to know her explanation on what happened. Ill update on what she says. Again thanks it helped.

Sucks dude... letting it go is the right thing to do. She may not be a slut, even the nicest of girls do sh*t like f*cking around with your best friends to get to you... See if you can f*ck her best friend or something since she's trying to do that to yours. Even if the best friend is fat - you do what you have to do.

[Chillzz01]

Im having almost the same exact situation as the OP atm. I actually googled my situation and this topic popped up. Anyway, same as the OP my now ex girl wanted to take a "break" because because she didn't feel like she liked me enough to be in a relationship. She said "I dont date best friends" So she wanted to stay best friends. A hour or so after we broke up she stated kissing me and stuff idk why. The next day my group and i were hanging out (shes in my group) me and my friend went home she stood and hanged with my other best friend for a bit. I find out a 2 days later from my other best friend that she almost had sex with him and showed him her body. That same day just before i found out what happened she deleted my number, facebook, skype and any form of communication from me. I tried calling her but she said "Fu*k off" and that was it. I still didn't hear anything back from her. It turns out shes trying to hook up with both of my best friends at the same time. They also feel that something is wrong and weird. Is been a few days.  I have very strong feelings for her even though we have been only dating for 2 months. Idk what to do. I dont mean to take the spotlight from the OP but im at a difficult situation and very confused. Any help is appreciated. As to the OP if things dont work out as my best friend told me just keep on trucking.

Forget her and move on. She sounds like a crazy f*cking bitch to me, genuine nice girls don't go whoring around with guys and basically use them either. She's not even worth you getting worked up about it. If she thinks she can get away with it she's very very wrong. Once word gets around she'll get a terrible reputation. Go find yourself a girl who will treat you right and wont f*ck you over like that.

Thanks man. Yeah im trying to get over her but its hard. She never appeared as a slut or whore to me at all. She dosnt look like one, sound like one, even acted like one. But i guess you cant judge a book by its cover. Both of my friends think the same thing and that they both look at her compleatly diffrent after what happened. If anything shes probably gonna loose 3 great friends including my self. But i just want to know her explanation on what happened. Ill update on what she says. Again thanks it helped.

Sucks dude... letting it go is the right thing to do. She may not be a slut, even the nicest of girls do sh*t like f*cking around with your best friends to get to you... See if you can f*ck her best friend or something since she's trying to do that to yours. Even if the best friend is fat - you do what you have to do.

Thanks dude. I just don't know what happened. literally 1 hour we were fine than a next she just completely deleted me out of her life. Our friendship meant alot to me also. The thing that kills me is that shes really close to one of my best friends while the other is just kinda kept in the dark. Idk whats going on to be honest.

[Finn 7 five 11]

 

Just an update for you all~

 

We are friends again for now at least, she realised how stupid it was to push me away and she said she can't live without me. I found out through someone else that she loves me a lot still but she needs to sort her life out first.

Girls are master manipulators. Enjoy being strung along until she finds another fancy.

 

I'm not trying to be a dick. I just don't want to see a brother go down a bad road and lose a bunch of time that could be used for finding a chick that has your best interests in her heart too - and not just hers.

 

You're getting played Like a trumpet, trip said it perfectly.

Just because she said that stuff to someone else doesn't make it true, girls don't just say " I dumped him, got over it looking for someone else", they will say stuff like that to avoid looking like a bad person.

[DP Man]

UPDATE

Well sorry for the bump but you deserve to know what happens now....

 

Well I've finally realized, I'm getting played at the moment. I know she's stringing me along, whether that's because she wants the security, the knowledge that someone will take her back etc and quite frankly I'm not taking that at all. She's f*cking with my head so much that I can't stand it anymore.

 

TL;DR I'm going to "dump" her as a friend in a nice but not exactly polite way and leave her to deal with all of the bullsh*t in her life without that one person who understood her that much

Edited September 1, 2012 by DP Man

[DP Man]

Okay guys so I'm going to text her something which is a pretty bittersweet goodbye I'm texting it to her because she never broke up with me in person, she did it on Facebook so what should I put in it which will leave her regretting what she's done? That and what do I do when she gets all sorry and upset?

[Vercetti27]

you messed me around too much and i'm not going to take it, i'm dissapointed with how this worked out.

 

good?

[Floro Solo]

Okay guys so I'm going to text her something which is a pretty bittersweet goodbye I'm texting it to her because she never broke up with me in person, she did it on Facebook so what should I put in it which will leave her regretting what she's done? That and what do I do when she gets all sorry and upset?

Don't do it bro. I know how hard it is to ignore her but do it. That will make her regret it big time. The more you show her you don't care the better. If you send her a text (which is weak anyway) she will think your pathetic.

[DP Man]

 

Okay guys so I'm going to text her something which is a pretty bittersweet goodbye I'm texting it to her because she never broke up with me in person, she did it on Facebook so what should I put in it which will leave her regretting what she's done? That and what do I do when she gets all sorry and upset?

Don't do it bro. I know how hard it is to ignore her but do it. That will make her regret it big time. The more you show her you don't care the better. If you send her a text (which is weak anyway) she will think your pathetic.

Tried that, she just thought I was avoiding her for a stupid reason, so yeah that didn't work

Edited September 1, 2012 by DP Man

[DEALUX]

Just tell her you can't be friends anymore. If she asks why tell her to think about the things that she did wrong. I don't see why you should make her feel bad. After all, you don't care about her anymore, right?

[Floro Solo]

Just tell her you can't be friends anymore. If she asks why tell her to think about the things that she did wrong. I don't see why you should make her feel bad. After all, you don't care about her anymore, right?

Obviously he does. Otherwise he wouldn't care about it this much. And I understand it I think all of us have been there at some point. You'll get over it though, the world is a big place.

[DP Man]

Well I really don't care about her anymore, that's kinda why I wanted to make sure there was a little bit of pain and regret experienced by her because she's a bitch

[DEALUX]

You're not any better if you want her to suffer.

[ryuclan]

Okay guys so I'm going to text her something which is a pretty bittersweet goodbye I'm texting it to her because she never broke up with me in person, she did it on Facebook so what should I put in it which will leave her regretting what she's done? That and what do I do when she gets all sorry and upset?

The worse thing you could ever do, and i dont recommend it, is talk to her in person and tell her your done with her with a smile on your face. She'll probably hate you.

[DP Man]

Okay guys so I'm going to text her something which is a pretty bittersweet goodbye I'm texting it to her because she never broke up with me in person, she did it on Facebook so what should I put in it which will leave her regretting what she's done? That and what do I do when she gets all sorry and upset?

The worse thing you could ever do, and i dont recommend it, is talk to her in person and tell her your done with her with a smile on your face. She'll probably hate you.

I've made my decision guys, I'm just going to cut that bitch out of my life for good. If she confronts me about why I'm not talking to her and sh*t I'll use your idea Ryu

[Sheriffz0rz]

I've heard it all before from an ex too. She then decided to get off with a friend.

 

If she has no feelings for you anymore, you can't force her to stay with you. As this is your first relationship, I'm guessing you're young. Let her go, there's plenty more sights to see if you know what you mean. In a couple months, you won't want to be around her.

 

As solid advice, stay away from women as long as possible, don't tie yourself down in a relationship. Enjoy yourself in high-school/college without worrying about a relationship.

Edited September 1, 2012 by Sheriffz0rz

[buzbegone]

It brings a tear to my eye how dedicated this forum is to solving sexually frustrated youngsters.

[Dingdongs]

Don't send her some retarded sentimental text. Just stop talking to her. Or, if you really want to upset her, invite her over and nail her, then never talk to her again after that. I swear to you if you do that, you will become a man.

[Garfield 2]

Put her picture here and we'll call her pretty. Then show her our posts and she'll feel better.

[AmyJones]

I see youre callin it quits on her then. Just some advice on the next girl, dont tell her you go by DP man on an internet forum. jus sayin.

[Hodgey.]

 

Put her picture here and we'll call her pretty. Then show her our posts and she'll feel better.

Really? You honestly think that that would work on GTAF maybe a Christian forum but defo not here. We'd be 3 post in saying how good she looks then ........ troll fest.

[DP Man]

Another Update

 

I found out through a friend that she thought I used her because I'm confident hah after the break up and after ignoring her. I don't even know if I should feel good after hearing that. I ended up telling her why I'm snubbing her and she never replied but saw my message so is that a good thing?

 

Oh and don't think I still want her back, just sayin'

[ghost of delete key]

 

There is no such thing as a 'break'. It's a euphemism to spare your feelings. The relationship is over and you should move on.

God, I hate to agree with Typhus, I mean it hurts me in the deepest reaches of my bowels to agree with Typhus, but he's right here.

 

Pro-tip: Next time, don't be so smothering, and don't hook up with a wishy-washy Facebook junkie.

[DEALUX]

Another Update

 

I found out through a friend that she thought I used her because I'm confident hah after the break up and after ignoring her. I don't even know if I should feel good after hearing that. I ended up telling her why I'm snubbing her and she never replied but saw my message so is that a good thing?

 

Oh and don't think I still want her back, just sayin'

I think that you should move on with your life.