Girish Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 As I see it, you've two options: 1. Dump her. 2. Cheat on her, get even and then dump her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Just get out of it bro. We all deserve the best we can get from our significant other. If they don't have that for you, or can't give it to you, or whatever, she isn't worth your life. There's many many perfectly compatible beautiful ladies out there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA 360 Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Seriously man, you need to talk to her. -If she says she didn't do it, she's a lyar, so you should chuck her out. -If she confesses to you she's a cheater, so you should chuck her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
E.A.B. Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 She probably just wanted a green card/whatever it is immigrants get when they marry an American. srsly. Or maybe she's just not that into you/weak. Actually talk with her and discuss your future. If her answer is ''cheat on me to get even'', well....ehh...I question her seriousness on the whole matter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jesus'En'Hitler420 Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Just f*ck some other bitches and sh*t thats what u need dude. She wants you to cheat so cheat. Cheat so hard you don't want that sh*t anymore cause you got so laid. Man. It s like long division you knaw. Divide whole bitch by 5 you got yourself 20 pussies. 20 pussies better than 1. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K-Malo94 Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 ending a relationship always sucks! I should know because I just went through the same thing. I know that the last thing you probably want to do right now is end it (I've been there), but it would be for the best. IF you do, remember to CUT OFF ALL CONTACT! The whole "lets just be friends" BS is not gonna work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 ending a relationship always sucks! I should know because I just went through the same thing. I know that the last thing you probably want to do right now is end it (I've been there), but it would be for the best. IF you do, remember to CUT OFF ALL CONTACT! The whole "lets just be friends" BS is not gonna work. Plus when you do no contact you get over and through it much quicker. Often if you contact exes wanting to work sh*t out or miss them or whatever, it ends up back firing on your progress and is a huge set back. I learned that one the hard way years ago. Get rid of her, she is obviously a negative person at this time in her life. Maybe if you meet again a few years down the road she'd be different, but who knows. I gave my now twice ex girlfriend/fiancee a couple chances, and I don't regret it, but it's time to change. And if you do leave her, she may end up contacting you as well, and I'd say stick to no contact unless there's some real reason behind it. Such as settling bills, leases, etc. SHE'S NO GOOD! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cuse Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 Thanks I dunno if i want to be petty or not either and spread her crime all over the place. I'm thinkin to myself why the f*ck did this happen to me? if i got back sooner I would have been fine but its also good this happened now so i know it wouldnt happen later if we got in deeper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrpain Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Thanks I dunno if i want to be petty or not either and spread her crime all over the place. I'm thinkin to myself why the f*ck did this happen to me? if i got back sooner I would have been fine but its also good this happened now so i know it wouldnt happen later if we got in deeper. You seem like a good man. Frankly, your wife doesn't deserve you if she's cheating on you. Don't go deeper into the hole, there's only darkness there. Get out of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 f*ck her one last time, put porno on internet, leave her and find a woman who deserves you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Law0070 Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 such a lot of people judging someone after having heard of one action done by her... 2 months is a long time in a bar is alcohol, alcohol and feelings dare to...coöperate...well "feelings" you know her best mate, she didn't f*ck him, did she? well...at least she says but it doesn't mean you have to put everything in doubt.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.Funny12 Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 You can hire a private investigator for her "girls night out". Or try and play her game and say your going for a boys night out and she might get suspicious of you sparking a conversation about both of your activities. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leik oh em jeez! Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 such a lot of people judging someone after having heard of one action done by her...2 months is a long time in a bar is alcohol, alcohol and feelings dare to...coöperate...well "feelings" you know her best mate, she didn't f*ck him, did she? well...at least she says but it doesn't mean you have to put everything in doubt.. Alcohol is nothing but an excuse used by the weak minded. I got drunk one night and watched two girls make out. Did I join in? No, because at the time I was in a relationship. Most women can't be trusted. Especially when they don't want you do go with them on their "nights out." Get rid of her, and don't talk to her afterwards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tchuck Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Thanks I dunno if i want to be petty or not either and spread her crime all over the place. I'm thinkin to myself why the f*ck did this happen to me? if i got back sooner I would have been fine but its also good this happened now so i know it wouldnt happen later if we got in deeper. It wasn't your fault man. What if she cheated on you the day you left? Or the day after? Or the day before you arrived? It wouldn't make a difference when you returned, she might have cheated on you anyway. Thinking about the ifs won't help in this case, as sh*t has already happened. Since she cheated on you this time, she might do it again next time you are away, and you know you will be away again one day. And it happened to you because sh*t happens sometimes. But it's nothing you can't bear it. Instead of thinking "why did this sh*t had to happen to me?" think "thank god this happened before we got married!" and you'll recover better and sooner. And regarding spreading her crime, I'd say to just live and let live. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Alcohol and two months is no excuse for any sort of sh*t like that. As leik oh em jeez! said, it's an excuse for the weak minded, and weak hearted. True love doesn't sway in any amount of time. Even when you get over a relationship there is still a part of it attached to you forever and you learn from it and build character and move on to hopefully, a better woman, who will love you no matter what. I don't know how long you've been with this woman, since you said she was your fiancee. I imagine at least a couple years. Like others said, at least you aren't married. That would make matters just a little worse emotionally and mentally, plus paperwork etc. If you leave her, you'll be alright, and probably better off from the sounds of it. My ex fiancee also said sh*t about suicide a time or two, or how worthless she felt and a sh*t load of insecurity issues which leads to feeling unwanted combined with a weak mind, is no good. Some people need to grow. I don't know, just giving my .02 in. Good luck in whatever you choose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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