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PrussianPrince

Well, I do not know where to start my story from, but I am motivated enough to make it posted here, as I know there's people that are more experienced that me and might give me good advices.

So, I met a girl in a bus while I was going to the school and on that moment, I really liked her. Also, while I was looking at her, I saw her looking at me. I really liked her, but I knew it's a teen emotion that's flying once you meet your friends and start talking about something else.

But, the next day, I saw her again. I wanted to find out where she's studying, but I am not that good at speeches with girls.

In the same day, I went to a local restaurant, to buy myself a sandwich, just nearby my highschool and I saw her there too, with her friends, as I was.

Lately I found out that she was studying in the same highschool as me.

I was trying to find out what's her class and lucky, I did it. I also had an old friend there and she helped me to get her contact, like her Facebook profile.

I also got her Yahoo Messenger address and we started talking. I was doing good and eventually, in the same night we were speaking, I got her phone number.

Then, we were mostly talking in SMS. I invited her to hang out, but she said she cannot do it at the moment, because she has a boyfriend and he might get annoyed if she's hanging out with me. I didn't put pressure and we kept talking. I see the chat is going really well, but I am not sure what to expect. She told me she didn't knew me until today, when she told me she finally saw me in the same bus.

So, basically, my question is what should I do next...? I am pretty shy when I meet girls I like, or I am talking to, but I do not really know. I mean, should I give it a go and keep the cordial relations until her relationship gets broken? Or am I wasting my time in waiting?

Thanks for reading.

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Law0070

i'd stay friends for the time coming, when her relationship breaks it's not sure AT ALL that you will be "the next one", after all she'll probably have to recover from the breakup a bit then, when she's available again you might have a chance...just don't put pressure, cause if u f*ck it all up after all you'll have lost her friendship AND a chance on being in a relationship with the girl you want...

 

just be patient...

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Lithium
Well, I do not know where to start my story from, but I am motivated enough to make it posted here, as I know there's people that are more experienced that me and might give me good advices.

So, I met a girl in a bus while I was going to the school and on that moment, I really liked her. Also, while I was looking at her, I saw her looking at me. I really liked her, but I knew it's a teen emotion that's flying once you meet your friends and start talking about something else.

But, the next day, I saw her again. I wanted to find out where she's studying, but I am not that good at speeches with girls.

In the same day, I went to a local restaurant, to buy myself a sandwich, just nearby my highschool and I saw her there too, with her friends, as I was.

Lately I found out that she was studying in the same highschool as me.

I was trying to find out what's her class and lucky, I did it. I also had an old friend there and she helped me to get her contact, like her Facebook profile.

I also got her Yahoo Messenger address and we started talking. I was doing good and eventually, in the same night we were speaking, I got her phone number.

Then, we were mostly talking in SMS. I invited her to hang out, but she said she cannot do it at the moment, because she has a boyfriend and he might get annoyed if she's hanging out with me. I didn't put pressure and we kept talking. I see the chat is going really well, but I am not sure what to expect. She told me she didn't knew me until today, when she told me she finally saw me in the same bus.

So, basically, my question is what should I do next...? I am pretty shy when I meet girls I like, or I am talking to, but I do not really know. I mean, should I give it a go and keep the cordial relations until her relationship gets broken? Or am I wasting my time in waiting?

Thanks for reading.

If she has a boyfriend don't waste your time.

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860

Leave it. She's got a boyfriend. Just because shes talking to you doesn't mean she wants your babies.

 

Fish in the sea and so on..

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PrussianPrince

What would I like to say is that, if a girl sees you really want her, she might break up with her boyfriend for a "more interesting" relationship. At least that happened to me, when my girlfriend broke up with me after 5 days and got in a relationship with my friend. I was warned before having a relation with her to hurry up, I refused, but I was convinced to do it. She also said that she's only for me, but it was wrong. I knew I had to listen of myself, not of my friends.

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Rhoda
What would I like to say is that, if a girl sees you really want her, she might break up with her boyfriend for a "more interesting" relationship. At least that happened to me, when my girlfriend broke up with me after 5 days and got in a relationship with my friend.

Your ex-girlfriend left you for you friend because he was more interesting, but you're hoping this girl will leave her boyfriend for you?

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PrussianPrince

Why not? I might have changed a bit in the last months. And what if her boyfriend is not good enough and she wants another try with someone else?

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Node
Why not? I might have changed a bit in the last months. And what if her boyfriend is not good enough and she wants another try with someone else?

If she wanted a try with someone else wouldn't she have accepted your "hangout" request?

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Josh

Take her for a ride in one of your various Mercedes.

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UNRATED69

Why not just be her friend, instead of trying to get into her pants. I'm sure she'll respect you for it. Also, 9 times out of 10, young relationships won't last very long, and if they do break up, you can be there for her.

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Node
Why not just be her friend, instead of trying to get into her pants. I'm sure she'll respect you for it. Also, 9 times out of 10, young relationships won't last very long, and if they do break up, you can be there for her.

Which will more than likely lead to her liking you more for comforting her through the hard times

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lt_yao

At times like these I like being a misanthrope. Never can get into a relationship for I just hate... That's it...

 

My advice is, don't strain yourself. Best would be to put on your pokerface and move on until you find someone else.

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Typhus
Why not just be her friend, instead of trying to get into her pants?

You really have to ask why that's such an unappealing prospect?

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ChossenOne

You're going to have take the boyfriend out of the picture. Do you know anyone that can make him 'disappear?'

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UNRATED69

 

Why not just be her friend, instead of trying to get into her pants?

You really have to ask why that's such an unappealing prospect?

To you maybe, but I'm sure she'd appreciate it.

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GTA 360

 

You're going to have take the boyfriend out of the picture. Do you know anyone that can make him 'disappear?'

I have a long knife in the kitchen if that's what you're thinking.

If you slash his tyres he'll never get to school.

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Prometheus

 

Why not just be her friend, instead of trying to get into her pants?

You really have to ask why that's such an unappealing prospect?

It is a truly unappealing prospect, yet it has an ambiguously disgraceful meaning, the days of those athelings has been hidden under the welkin of thy yeme.....

 

I have no idea what have I just said

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Machiavelli's Prophecy

 

blablablabla story

If she has a boyfriend don't waste your time.

Why not? This dude is probably like 17 or so anyway so it doesn't really matter if she has a boyfriend. You don't want to know how many girls I know with boyfriends who still get with other dudes. It's become pretty normal and from the looks of it she's into this dude so I say go for it. Unless the boyfriend is a crazy motherf*cker who will stab you or beat your ass. You should make sure you're stronger than the boyfriend cause if you're not trust me it's not worth it(also seen many dudes get the sh*t kicked out of em for hanging with someones girlfriend) So check that before you do anything lol.

Edited by Machiavelli's Prophecy

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Lithium
blablablabla story

If she has a boyfriend don't waste your time.

Why not? This dude is probably like 17 or so anyway so it doesn't really matter if she has a boyfriend. You don't want to know how many girls I know with boyfriends who still get with other dudes, it's pretty normal and from the looks of it she's into this dude so I say go for it. Unless the boyfriend is a crazy motherf*cker who will stab you, you should make sure he isn't before you make any move lol.

Well some people have respect. I talk to girls with boyfriends, but I don't try to get on them.

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Machiavelli's Prophecy

 

blablablabla story

If she has a boyfriend don't waste your time.

Why not? This dude is probably like 17 or so anyway so it doesn't really matter if she has a boyfriend. You don't want to know how many girls I know with boyfriends who still get with other dudes, it's pretty normal and from the looks of it she's into this dude so I say go for it. Unless the boyfriend is a crazy motherf*cker who will stab you, you should make sure he isn't before you make any move lol.

Well some people have respect. I talk to girls with boyfriends, but I don't try to get on them.

I edited my post.

 

But anyway yeah dude I understand that, but I don't know how old you are? If you are like 20 or older then you shouldn't do this but really if you're younger than that you're basically still kids and noone is looking for a real relationship at that age so it doesn't really matter. That's just how I see it. It's kinda f*cked up to steal another guys girlfriend though but hey, life is f*cked up tounge.gif

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Max

You're going to get friendzoned...hard. To be honest it may have already happened. The fact you got her contact details through backward channels and not through her is creppy enough...

 

If you take any advice from this thread it would be leave her the f*ck alone and find someone else. Anyone telling you to wait around and 'be there for her' when she breaks up with her boyfriend is as single and as virginal as a nun.

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Potato Boggle

Rape.

It's the only way.

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MobBG
Rape.

It's the only way.

Agreed. Get drunk before you do it though.......

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Drift-Kingz
Rape.

It's the only way.

I concur. icon14.gif

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thejorens

There are tutorials on youtube for everything, from how to make crystal clear ice to how to pick locks and how to hotwire cars.

I`m pretty sure, that whatever question you have, youtube has an answer ready and waiting for you.

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Law0070
Anyone telling you to wait around and 'be there for her' when she breaks up with her boyfriend is as single and as virginal as a nun.

 

 

that's very kind of you, telling this guy being a jerk will make you more succesfull with girls...

 

at first, the jerks will have a bit more success...they are hard to get apparantly but "honest", but if you prove yourself to be a worthy friend towards someone, this will almost always be rewarded, be it with friendship, a relationship, or something in between wink.gif (the benefits)

 

and yes I do have experiences, and no i'm not a jerk/player...if i like a girl i just socialize with her without giving clear hints towards a relationship...most of them fall in love cause you are subtle, not cause you get into a relationship, f*ck her 5 times, come too early 5 times then gtfo for another one....

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Lithium
Anyone telling you to wait around and 'be there for her' when she breaks up with her boyfriend is as single and as virginal as a nun.

 

 

that's very kind of you, telling this guy being a jerk will make you more succesfull with girls...

 

at first, the jerks will have a bit more success...they are hard to get apparantly but "honest", but if you prove yourself to be a worthy friend towards someone, this will almost always be rewarded, be it with friendship, a relationship, or something in between wink.gif (the benefits)

 

and yes I do have experiences, and no i'm not a jerk/player...if i like a girl i just socialize with her without giving clear hints towards a relationship...most of them fall in love cause you are subtle, not cause you get into a relationship, f*ck her 5 times, come too early 5 times then gtfo for another one....

Sadly being a jerk does work with most of them. I'm not a jerk at first, but usually they piss me off enough to be a jerk and then like me even more. Girls are f*cked! monocle.gif

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TheNathanNS

for a 13 year old i can speak to girls a slight better than most boys my age can

if you want to speak to her just start with small things like a smiple "hi" and just a few NORMAL (not random stuff like will you go out with me) questions

simple really and over time you'll find it better to talk about bigger things

if she has a boy friend just do this to him

suicidal.gif

then bang and you'll be colgate.gifcolgate.gifcolgate.gif for ages to come..... until she finds out it was you

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Toup

Wtf is so weird about talking to girls, they're like guys... but girls, get it?

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thejorens
Anyone telling you to wait around and 'be there for her' when she breaks up with her boyfriend is as single and as virginal as a nun.

 

 

that's very kind of you, telling this guy being a jerk will make you more succesfull with girls...

 

at first, the jerks will have a bit more success...they are hard to get apparantly but "honest", but if you prove yourself to be a worthy friend towards someone, this will almost always be rewarded, be it with friendship, a relationship, or something in between wink.gif (the benefits)

 

and yes I do have experiences, and no i'm not a jerk/player...if i like a girl i just socialize with her without giving clear hints towards a relationship...most of them fall in love cause you are subtle, not cause you get into a relationship, f*ck her 5 times, come too early 5 times then gtfo for another one....

Sadly being a jerk does work with most of them. I'm not a jerk at first, but usually they piss me off enough to be a jerk and then like me even more. Girls are f*cked! monocle.gif

Girls are just so tough to understand, but when a girl really likes you you can easily see that It`s time to make the move.

She might also really like you, but live in self denial, coz she want`s to be faithful to her boyfriend.

btw, iv`e had a couple of relationships that didn`t work out, and in one of the cases, it was just coz there was no difference between us as a couple and us as friends, and now she is my top guide to how girls think, it`s pretty handy to have couple of female friends to help you get laid, or just to know when it`s time to make a move.

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