The Breakup

[beto]

There isn't no such thing as "time alone".

 

Hope you can find a place to stay quick.

this man. just move on

 

 

move back to your folks, get outta there

[Hell No..]

I hope everything goes well for you mate, really. I'm on that verge too it seems, me working too much and not spending enough time together, as well as other things is pulling us apart. She thinks it's best if I also move out, although, my home is over 400 miles away, not so easy. She now wants me to ring up work in Cardiff so I can transfer back. So, I took the chance, and now I can say I've tried it, had a good couple of months. It may work out still, but I doubt it.

 

Will be checking back here for your updates. All the best.

Edited December 9, 2010 by Hell No..

[Icarus]

We've already spoken on the phone and via text messaging, so I've already said what I needed to say, Junior.

 

My couch is still available to you, dude, but I think having to travel to the other side of the country defeats the purpose.

[Lithium]

We've already spoken on the phone and via text messaging, so I've already said what I needed to say, Junior.

 

My couch is still available to you, dude, but I think having to travel to the other side of the country defeats the purpose.

Lol, I do appreciate the offer though none the less buddy!

[RoamPT]

So any update?

[Lithium]

So new info has unfolded on the situation. She still wants me to move out but she knows that she is going to want to get back with me in the near future and still hang out. Like wtf...?

[Tyler]

Damn bro. How you holding up on everything? Got a secure place to stay in the near future?

[Lithium]

Damn bro. How you holding up on everything? Got a secure place to stay in the near future?

I'm moving in to a new place before or by January 1st, so that relieves a little bit of stress with the situation. Might be nice to get away for a little bit, who knows right?

[Mister Pink]

Sorry to hear this bad news man. I knew you live with her and it's sad to hear that.

 

Saying she might get back with you is probably a total lie is not constructive. How do we know what she feels. She probably doesn't quite know herself what she wants and she might be being decent and not stringing you a long whilst she has uncertainty.

 

I experienced something exactly like this in the summer. She said the same things. To take my mind off it (kind of impossible but is a huge help) I went and tried to better myself in every way I could. I ate healthier, set myself goals and achieved them and generally she saw what she was missing out on and it reignited the old flame between us. I do take responsibility for slacking towards our break up but I just tried to keep my chin up and basically do good. This kept my self esteem up and it made her think twice about what she was willing to give up.

 

It works both ways though and if you guys get back together you might hold some resentment to her for breaking up in the first place. I dunno, what to say but try and keep positive.

 

Think about the things you can do in the future for you and if she wants to be apart of it maybe you can work it out.

[Typhus]

You deserve to get some measure of revenge. You really do.

Does it seem wrong to anyone else that a person can just break your heart as easily as snapping their fingers? And because of THEIR problem, YOU are expected to drop everything and move along.

It's disgusting actually, being asexual I can't help but think that I really dodged a bullet.

 

Seriously, you need to find a way to get back at her. No one should be allowed to hurt you, not without getting hurt in return. Your emotions are not a f*cking toy, not something to be played with and set aside when it suits her.

Maybe you should take a sh*t in her bed, or, I dunno, leave a decapitated cat outside the door one day.

[Punk-in-Drublic]

 

You deserve to get some measure of revenge. You really do.

Does it seem wrong to anyone else that a person can just break your heart as easily as snapping their fingers? And because of THEIR problem, YOU are expected to drop everything and move along.

It's disgusting actually, being asexual I can't help but think that I really dodged a bullet.

 

Seriously, you need to find a way to get back at her. No one should be allowed to hurt you, not without getting hurt in return. Your emotions are not a f*cking toy, not something to be played with and set aside when it suits her.

Maybe you should take a sh*t in her bed, or, I dunno, leave a decapitated cat outside the door one day.

How would you get back at her?

 

I'm actually quite intrigued since you appear to be the forum sociopath.

[Runey]

You deserve to get some measure of revenge. You really do.

Does it seem wrong to anyone else that a person can just break your heart as easily as snapping their fingers? And because of THEIR problem, YOU are expected to drop everything and move along.

It's disgusting actually, being asexual I can't help but think that I really dodged a bullet.

 

Seriously, you need to find a way to get back at her. No one should be allowed to hurt you, not without getting hurt in return. Your emotions are not a f*cking toy, not something to be played with and set aside when it suits her.

Maybe you should take a sh*t in her bed, or, I dunno, leave a decapitated cat outside the door one day.

How would you get back at her?

 

I'm actually quite intrigued since you appear to be the forum sociopath.

Probably dismemberment and cannibalism judging from his posts here.