The Breakup

[Jesus'En'Hitler420]

You guys were right, the same bed thing wasn't a good idea. Something "bad" happened. 

Regret not taking our advice now dont you? And I'm sure now you feel even worse than you did before the incident took place. Oh well, at least now you know.

 

If something happened you need to pack your sh*t up and leave. Tell her you'll come and collect whatever you leave once you've got yourself sorted. If you don't and you even fall into the stupid mistake of sharing a bed again your never going to accept you've broken up.

She said it was the best break up she ever had...and I said yeah, because it's like we're not even broken up yet. She'll miss me once I'm gone I guarantee it. The dog will also be heart broken..poor little guy.

Sounds like she's toying with you now. Get the f*ck out of there dude. The only way now for you both to get back together is if she is the one that initiates conversation after you're gone. Otherwise, never look back.

[Tyler]

Advice:Find a GTAF member near you and become his friend,then proceed to live with him and steal his Jeep and booze

Ryan would be the closest, but I don't think he has a jeep. We could be security buddies though.

So long as he is willing to get into skin tight outfits and pose for us, I'd say why not.

[Max]

Advice:Find a GTAF member near you and become his friend,then proceed to live with him and steal his Jeep and booze

Ryan would be the closest, but I don't think he has a jeep. We could be security buddies though.

Could you stand the taint of ginger all day everyday?

[_-=Zombie=-_]

An advice is an advice, like it or not.

And you guys just can not stop the feeding, can you?

[Jay]

And you guys just can not stop the feeding, can you?

So you admit you were trolling?

[Moonshield]

An advice is an advice, like it or not.

And you guys just can not stop the feeding, can you?

You're all right, guy. I liked it when you used that one joke from that one place. We should hang out some time.

[Illousion]

 

 

f*ck yeah this song kicks ass. Really a great song for a bad day. Take some time to listen to it.

[Voodoo]

An advice is an advice, like it or not.

And you guys just can not stop the feeding, can you?

Worthless spam is worthless.

 

 

[_-=Zombie=-_]

An advice is an advice, like it or not.

And you guys just can not stop the feeding, can you?

Worthless spam is worthless.

Worthless spam about worthless spam is worthless. This is actually worthless too. Everything here is a unbreaking circle of worthlessness.

But hey, wortless stuff is fun, right? RIGHT?

[Ryan]

Advice:Find a GTAF member near you and become his friend,then proceed to live with him and steal his Jeep and booze

Ryan would be the closest, but I don't think he has a jeep. We could be security buddies though.

Could you stand the taint of ginger all day everyday?

If I had the space in my room, I'd let ya come live with me for a bit, but I've barely got enough room for myself as it is, plus this place shuts down for the winter break.

[chris]

An advice is an advice, like it or not.

And you guys just can not stop the feeding, can you?

Worthless spam is worthless.

Worthless spam about worthless spam is worthless. This is actually worthless too. Everything here is a unbreaking circle of worthlessness.

But hey, wortless stuff is fun, right? RIGHT?

Hey look! It's the guy who nobody likes.

[RoamPT]

Sad to hear that buddy, did you found anything already?

[san andreas state]

 

always puts me in a better mood when I'm in situations like these.

I watched then I started watching more videos until I relized I was watching the chinese spongebob .

 

O AND DUDE SUCKS ABOUT YOUR GIRL EX-GIRL. 9Sorry for caps .)

[junkie2115]

My Girlfriend broke up with me other some stupid sh*t. She said i ignored her and never talked to her. When i called her house everyday and her mom said she was f*cking busy. sh*t is soo f*cking stupid. I just threw my arms up and said f*ck it!. I've been out with the girl twice and both times sucked. So I'm moving on. Breaking up is hard to do. I'll say something really sweet and cute and soo heartfelt right after the girl dumps me. So i can make them feel like sh*t or make them feel like they made the wrong decision breaking up with me. Girls come and go. Same with guys. It's going to be that way until you get married and hell your still going to have problems then.

 

The first time i've gotten heartbroken, I ended up in a mental hospital and same with the 2nd time and after that. I learned that love sucks. But i never wanna die alone and never be a player. sh*t gets sooo f*cking twisted.

[UNRATED69]

I say you go out and find some random bitch, then start hanging out with her. Bring her around your ex-girl's place, act all buddy-buddy, and you might make her jealous enough to take you back. It's worked for me before.

[RoamPT]

 

I say you go out and find some random bitch, then start hanging out with her. Bring her around your ex-girl's place, act all buddy-buddy, and you might make her jealous enough to take you back. It's worked for me before.

That's the worst thing that anyone could do, i really think he doesn't need advices to do/or not do to stuff to his ex-gf, he must do what his "heart" says. Just move on mate ;D life is short, don't waste it

[massrcor]

I wish you the best dude.

 

I'm going through something very similar... I just wish I could at least stop thinking about her

[Finn 7 five 11]

Everyone says you gotta get out which is true, so move to a friends place, you gotta have some friends right? if i lived anywhere near you you could live with me, but im in Australia, so that could be a potential problem hehe.

 

I warn you it will be f*cking weird if she brings another guy home.

[Useless Dave]

The girl I absolutely love and adore with my whole heart has broken it two times. All I can say to you, man, is that sh*t sucks right now, but things do get better. You got along in life before you even met her, and you still can, without her. But you gotta get out of that place. It's only going to be a constant reminder of everything. You may not get over this today, or tomorrow, or the next day, but you are going to get over it. I don't mean that in any type of rude way, if it seems like that, this is all coming from personal experience. It seems like the ones you love the most are always the ones who hurt you the most. You just gotta hang in there and be with your friends. True bros will cheer you up. Just get out there, man. There's no use staying when you know it's best to hit the ground running.

 

I'm still with that girl, and to be honest, it feels like at times she's going to break my heart again, but she loves me, and I love her. She didn't take any satisfaction out of doing it before, and they were legitimate reasons as to why she broke up with me. All I can tell you is that those days were the worst days (emotionally) that I have ever had in my life.

 

And also I can tell you, out of personal experience, that if seems like something she said to you like "I need time" is an excuse, it may be, but don't immediately brush it away as such. My girl needed some time a while back, and I understood. Then we got back together stronger than ever because she realized how badly she needed me, and how much I needed her, and she realized how much I loved her, that I was willing to give her that. This situation of yours could turn out the same way. Maybe so, maybe not, but that's to be seen.

 

Remember, you will survive. sh*t's pretty bad right now, but it can only go up from here, right? You're just in a hole you need to climb out of, with someone's help or not. But you are going to get out of that hole, and then you're going to fill it in.

 

Godspeed.

[Lithium]

I think I may have found a place. It's $350 a month for everything but internet/cable. I think that's the cheapest I'm going to find. I going to have to live with a guy I don't know really well, but I'm sure we'll get along. It's a big decision to sign a 1 year lease with him though when I really have nothing to stay in the city for anymore. She did say that she would be sad if I moved back home though. That's whats f*cking me up.

[d00d]

I think I may have found a place. It's $350 a month for everything but internet/cable. I think that's the cheapest I'm going to find. I going to have to live with a guy I don't know really well, but I'm sure we'll get along. It's a big decision to sign a 1 year lease with him though when I really have nothing to stay in the city for anymore. She did say that she would be sad if I moved back home though. That's whats f*cking me up.

Why is it a concern for her, if she's breaking up with you? And why are you so worried about it, again, if she's breaking up with you?

[Lithium]

I think I may have found a place. It's $350 a month for everything but internet/cable. I think that's the cheapest I'm going to find. I going to have to live with a guy I don't know really well, but I'm sure we'll get along. It's a big decision to sign a 1 year lease with him though when I really have nothing to stay in the city for anymore. She did say that she would be sad if I moved back home though. That's whats f*cking me up. 

Why is it a concern for her, if she's breaking up with you? And why are you so worried about it, again, if she's breaking up with you?

I don't know why. Maybe it's just because I'm thinking she'll change her mind and want to be with me once she has her time alone/with friends. We were pretty much married that's why this bothers me so much.

[RoamPT]

I think I may have found a place. It's $350 a month for everything but internet/cable. I think that's the cheapest I'm going to find. I going to have to live with a guy I don't know really well, but I'm sure we'll get along. It's a big decision to sign a 1 year lease with him though when I really have nothing to stay in the city for anymore. She did say that she would be sad if I moved back home though. That's whats f*cking me up. 

Why is it a concern for her, if she's breaking up with you? And why are you so worried about it, again, if she's breaking up with you?

I don't know why. Maybe it's just because I'm thinking she'll change her mind and want to be with me once she has her time alone/with friends. We were pretty much married that's why this bothers me so much.

You really need to think if you want her back, if you want every piece back together, if that's what you want, face up with her.

[d00d]

If you get back with her, how secure will you feel in the relationship? Will you always be questioning if she'll do it again?

 

It all depends on you. Its your choice to make, but there are some things that are just time sensitive. And getting out for the moment and getting some independence and space are two of them.

[Jesus'En'Hitler420]

She's got to miss you man. Yeah, 2 1/2 years and living together is a tough thing to break from but she made the bed and now you have to let her lay in it.

 

I get it man, I was in the relationship trench for 5 years... sh*t gets easy, and very fun too. I just started really going back out only a few months ago. My life is great, and I can assure you yours will be once again too.

[OysterBarron]

No 1: im no good at advice!

 

Sounds to me like she doesnt really want to break up. I think she needs some more attention from you! also the fact you are still living with her tends to suggest that it's not about another man.

 

I read that relationships if they get dull or one partner becomes board then they will start up arguments just to make sure you react and still feel strongly for them! perhaps this is just a test for you!

 

Well at the moment you have nothing to lose! If you gunna have a place sorted, Next time she says something like

it was the best break up she ever had...and I said yeah, because it's like we're not even broken up yet

say to her isnt that telling you something that you dont really want to break up! and also spell it out to her that with you 2 breaking up she probably wont see you again, Also you may have to move back to your parents. She cant have it her way when she is the one breaking up with you! exspecially like someone else said your in denial and you feel responsible!

 

you need to find out her true feelings exspecially with the amount you messed about to be with her in the first place!

 

Like i said im no good at advice but thats what i would do in your position!

[trip]

Wait...there is a dog involved? I hope you are not the primary care giver of the dog if it happens to be staying with her.

 

As far as moving in with a dude you don't really know. It may turn out to be fun and a cool new chapter for you. I once drove around the country for a year with a dude I didn't know at the start, and we ended up solid friends by the end. We even did another year on the road together(after a break).

 

If it is really coming down to the wire, and if [it sounds like] you two might not want to sever your relationship, now is the time to start doing the serious talking stuff. Not marriage talk or anything.

 

Maybe a year of not living under the same roof will bring you two closer. She will have the quiet time to know what she is missing. Not to mention the paranoid thoughts she might conjure up of you doing other chicks. It could also reignite that spark of dating excitement.

[Lithium]

Wait...there is a dog involved? I hope you are not the primary care giver of the dog if it happens to be staying with her.

 

As far as moving in with a dude you don't really know. It may turn out to be fun and a cool new chapter for you. I once drove around the country for a year with a dude I didn't know at the start, and we ended up solid friends by the end. We even did another year on the road together(after a break).

 

If it is really coming down to the wire, and if [it sounds like] you two might not want to sever your relationship, now is the time to start doing the serious talking stuff. Not marriage talk or anything.

 

Maybe a year of not living under the same roof will bring you two closer. She will have the quiet time to know what she is missing. Not to mention the paranoid thoughts she might conjure up of you doing other chicks. It could also reignite that spark of dating excitement.

Haha that little speal of advice made me laugh.

 

I think she does just need time, and I did make a promise to always visit the puppy. She said the other day when I wasn't there he was mad at her and being mischievious. She also said that she hates the thought of me doing another chick, so you are right!

[RoamPT]

Wait...there is a dog involved?  I hope you are not the primary care giver of the dog if it happens to be staying with her.

 

As far as moving in with a dude you don't really know.  It may turn out to be fun and a cool new chapter for you.  I once drove around the country for a year with a dude I didn't know at the start, and we ended up solid friends by the end.  We even did another year on the road together(after a break).

 

If it is really coming down to the wire, and if [it sounds like] you two might not want to sever your relationship, now is the time to start doing the serious talking stuff.  Not marriage talk or anything.

 

Maybe a year of not living under the same roof will bring you two closer.  She will have the quiet time to know what she is missing.  Not to mention the paranoid thoughts she might conjure up of you doing other chicks.  It could also reignite that spark of dating excitement.

Haha that little speal of advice made me laugh.

 

I think she does just need time, and I did make a promise to always visit the puppy. She said the other day when I wasn't there he was mad at her and being mischievious. She also said that she hates the thought of me doing another chick, so you are right!

That's a good thing, that means she is jealous, and she really cares about you, so don't give up bro.

[san andreas state]

You guys should write a book. This has touched my heart and now I'm crying , no but seriously these guys have some really good advice and dude, she still wants you.