copperwire93 Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 (edited) Then spend your time with outdoor activity with friends, and back at home at late night. Don't do this if your dad fierce as lion like 1ManArmy's and my dad. Just wait will ya! Maybe it's just temporary, no spouse never had a fight. Edited April 8, 2009 by copperwire93 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slamman Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 (edited) In real/serious Domestic Abuse cases, in the USA, typically the police are called, and sometimes even that can't thwart deadly violence... in extreme cases. I would look for outside counciling, That can be hard, but sometimes intervention can stop something escalating. Looking at some of the "broken home" scenerios and detachment above... I mean DAMMIT, Cherish the family unit... I said this before, it's the most important bonding of humans on the planet... It starts at home. I don't get along with siblings or folks all the time, but at the heart of it is love. We all have family gatherings even though my folks moved out of town. I'm pretty lucky that only my oldest sister ran away from home in her rebellious stage... mid 1980, we attended counsiling as a family when that happened. Either way, if it's just casual disagreements that turn into shouting matches and nothing physical is happening, I'd voice concern, and do it often, so they are reminded of HOW they are acting, and the atmosphere it puts out. Edited April 8, 2009 by Slamman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fnorg Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 Whenever my folks argue, which RARELY happens, I shout at them to shut the f*ck up, and to close the door. Haha. But then again, whenever they argue it's about movies or politics or stuff, not money or life in general. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gezim Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 Summer is just around the corner. Deal with it until then. That's just what I would do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slamman Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 Are you implying it's related to the gloom of cloudy winter weather? Could be on to something, the weather DOES impact people's over all happiness. Their disposition, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otter Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 @ OP: You're not to blame in this fighting, man. The one option open to you is to talk with them about why they're fighting and ask if you can help. Give it a shot, but the summer will come quicker than you think. Where are you going? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breaking Bohan Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 You need more sunshine man - or get one of those blue lights to sit infront of if you have Seasonal Affective Disorder Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otter Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 ...nobody bothers reading even the first post anymore... He's upset because his parents are fighting - and you want him to sit in front of a blue light? Haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TigerTanker Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I think they better divorce. My parents did that, and everything is ok now. Anyways, I hope your life will turn better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gouveia Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Ignore them. Simple as that. It helped me when I was 12-13 years old. I would just turn on the PC, load up some playlist with songs that I loved and then hear it at the maximum volume possible. That should help you, it's not certain that it will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 (edited) Well, the advice here seems pretty sound for the most part. Just to reinterate what others have said. Oh, you need to suggest "family councilling" and if they want to know why just say,"So we can speak openly, honestly, frankly and get some outside suggestions on how to attempt some other approaches to our family dynamic and then maybe we can all heal and grow as a happier family. Or some such thing in o your own words. Don't do the Don't List! I would leave it for you yet in a time of frustration it would become a temptation. Edited April 9, 2009 by HolyGrenadeFrenzy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrishAlec24 Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 All aboard the murder boat! I say kill... But seriously, just try to avoid them, m'kay? Best possible thing to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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