Rafinha Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 I really don't need here jokes or sh*t, because it is a serious problem I have... My parents are always arguing each other, every week there must be an arguing between them, I am tired to hear them, I dunno wtf to do, I wanna make them never arguing until summer, because I will leave at the summer. Please could you help me? I really need help... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fiercedeity9 Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 (edited) *poof* Edited April 8, 2009 by fiercedeity9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DemonKing Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 GO GO GADGET COUNCILLOR. GO GO GADGET sh*tTY JOKE. I don't know if you heard the bit where he said no jokes and you just come in and crack and lame sh*tty one like that, but yeah, thanks for that. But uh, this isn't the best place to go for advice on your parents marital issues, to be honest you can't stop two people arguing without going to the source of the problem something which isn't going to happen over the internet, as retarded the post above me was, he does have a point seek a relationship counsellor for your parents troubles. Or a Psychiatrist if you need to dig deeper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fiercedeity9 Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 (edited) *poof* Edited April 8, 2009 by fiercedeity9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wightboy Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 i dont think theres anything you can do, tbh sticking your nose in will only make things worse, as they will try to be secretive as they know that you know about their problems, i'd let it settle down, and then kindly ask them about it after its washed over hmm and 'fiercedeity9' your an idiot for posting that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4thosebout2rock Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 Well when im tired i go to this thing called bed where do you sleep? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TOGA62 Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 I come from a family that argues seemingly for the hell of it. So whenever I am home, I try and play the part of a 3rd party neutral in an effort to decrease the fighting. I can tell you from experience it doesn't help much. For every argument I manage to stop, I end up getting myself involved in another 3 or 4. it seems that arguing for some is simply a part of life. There is nothing much you can do expect to keep away from it. Summer isn't to far away, just try and stay out of the house as much as possible if you are wishing to just avoid it. Wish I could post better news but unfortunately this is something I have yet to find a good answer for. Social: TOGA62 PS3: balltowellamp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blizzard14 Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 What Exactly are they arguing about? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.AshRemains Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 Well when im tired i go to this thing called bed where do you sleep? He is tired of his parent's arguing, learn to read. Anyway to topic poster, maybe see a councelor, or even talk to somebody in your school. Usually they have a guidance teacher, or something along the lines of that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quick Stop Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 Go for the counciling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricornus Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 Just see if you could stay with a friend for a while. Speaking the obvious, being outside the house you won't have to worry about the arguing. Either that or...... kill your parents? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gundog Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 Just do what they say and don't argue. It'll be humiliating, but it works. For me at least. You are an aperture through which the universe is looking at and exploring itself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrazeLaze Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 Take a walk outside, in the dark, that always helps me, it's much better if you're stone drunk, but you don't need to be... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lega_c Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 How about you tell them how you feel and maybe they will attempt to clean their act up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr_bungle Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 What Exactly are they arguing about? I think thats rather personal and he might not want to answer it. Btw, whats with in your sig a userbar saying "Hacker"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bartleby Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 The people in this topic cracking jokes at the expense of someone coming forward with a real problem really need to keep themselves in check. Your e-penis isn't that big, guys. Your best bet is just to be straight with them, Rafinha. If you address the problem, it can be solved. Maybe they'll realize what they're doing and try to deal with their problems in a more civil manner; however, know that there's no guarantee that the problem will be fixed. They may just be absolutely tired of each other, and then there's nothing you can do but ride it out until the summer. In that case, though, it's not that far off. Keep your head up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stig Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 Go see the candy man "The candy man can because he mixes it with love and makes the world taste good.." For real, talk to someone about it like a counselor at school. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asimov Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 What Exactly are they arguing about? I think thats rather personal and he might not want to answer it. Btw, whats with in your sig a userbar saying "Hacker"? If he posted looking for help in a IRL situation like this I don't see why he wouldn't post that information. Let's hear it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blizzard14 Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 What Exactly are they arguing about? I think thats rather personal and he might not want to answer it. Btw, whats with in your sig a userbar saying "Hacker"? As in PSP Hacker, not Internet Site hacker. sh*t, I just realised that sounds kinda bad in a way, I should change it, shouldn't I? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaintJimmy Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 What Exactly are they arguing about? I think thats rather personal and he might not want to answer it. Btw, whats with in your sig a userbar saying "Hacker"? As in PSP Hacker, not Internet Site hacker. sh*t, I just realised that sounds kinda bad in a way, I should change it, shouldn't I? Oh no, you can hack PSP's, your hxc. Don't take it out. @OP, I had(still kinda have) this issue as well. But, if as long as they don't take it out on you. If they do, all they want is a reaction. Just agree, say "yes okay", whatever. Don't let them get to you. See someone, hang with a friend for a while, do what it takes for them to realize what they're doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Girish Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 I have seen my share of arguments between my parents. They don't argue everyday, but once or twice a week. I'm not sure how it works for you but not being extremely attached to my parents has helped me deal with this. I have effectively learnt to ignore them. They start arguing and I just carry on with whatever that is I'm doing. Of course, this is subject to the level of arguing that's taking place. If it's too extreme for you to the point that it comes down to hitting each other, then you might need to intervene. Just step in between, put up a sad face and if you can, start crying. That is bound to get them distracted from their arguing subject. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guybrush Threepwood Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 What Exactly are they arguing about? I think thats rather personal and he might not want to answer it. Btw, whats with in your sig a userbar saying "Hacker"? If he posted looking for help in a IRL situation like this I don't see why he wouldn't post that information. Let's hear it. Yeah, you can't ask for help and then not say what's wrong. I mean, could be his parents are arguing because they think he's a lousy sumbitch who can't do nothing right. That'd put a whole new spin on the topic. But since 15 people already have said it; go see a councilor. And if there is no councilor, see a friend. And if you've got no friends, talk to your dog. And if you got no dog, then talk to a tree. And if you live in such a barren wasteland you can't even find a doggone tree, well then you can talk to us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lord sh...t-head Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 (edited) EDIT:sory Rafinha for my stupid post. The others tried to help you Edited May 23, 2009 by lord sh...t-head Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeeperRed Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 If parents always argue its best to have them split. My Parents split up twice, I told my mom and my dad when they got back together it wasn't going to work and well I was right. Since my Mom and Dad arn't constantly around each other it means they can talk with aruging. So they can come see my play rugby and stuff like hat togheter and go out for meals with me because they got along fine now. I would rather see my mom and dad spereate and happy then see them togheter but constantly angery. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
.AshRemains Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 Go see the candy man "The candy man can because he's the pedophile in your neighbourhood.." For real, talk to someone about it like a counselor at school. Fixed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Zilcho Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 If your going to move out soon, and really want to, then just look forward to doing it, and try to think about the good times between your parents. U R B A N I T A S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copperwire93 Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 (edited) My parents has a big argue when I'm 14. On that age i don't know what else to do to stop them. I becoming miserable person, on that age. Smoking, have a fight, join illegal races, skip classes. I get caught red handed on the next year, they stop argue maybe they thinks it's their fault. But don't be like me seriously, I lost my honor from my fellow good friends on that year and then I move out and stay in hostel for 1 year. Be strong man! Again don't be like me.... eDad please don't quote me, I can't understand your jokes. (But your joke in this topic really works on me, it's like advice+joke=make me laugh) But I'm serious about my experience. I'm not always talk with them anymore except important things, my anger still burns within. Edited April 8, 2009 by copperwire93 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1ManArmy Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 When I was like 8-11 my parents used to argue like hell. I hated it when my dad got physical, and he gets me involed somehow when I start crying. He's changed alot though, totally different person, he was never bad to begin with just had anger problems but he already learned how to control it now. But seeing as I was small and emotional I guess it affected me like hell when he started just screaming at me when they argued and dragged me around like a f*cking dog. He's trying his best to make me forgive him and but sometimes when i'm just sitting down and remember what happened I feel like going amok. Oh well, i'm disturbed. That still doesn't answer your question though, just talk to them about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chunk Posted April 8, 2009 Share Posted April 8, 2009 Just talk about it with some people you can trust, your friends or something. If you're moving out soon, then just keep thinking about that and don't mull over this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rafinha Posted April 8, 2009 Author Share Posted April 8, 2009 My parents are mind-sick. Maybe if I am killing myself, they won't stop arguing. I dunno, they won't be impressed if I am crying or sh*t. I am 14, I have to study, to make my own life and sh*t and right now I don't need this kind of arguing in my life. When they argue, I hear door slamming and they always start from some sh*tty reasons... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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