Randall Flagg Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Really sucks. I got my sh*t straight. Get into a groovy relationship. Forever we want it to be. Now I have two jobs. Mornings at a Flyers and every night except sunday cleaning the meat department at a grocery store, 4- 9pm. SHe goes to school. We see eachother at night and go to the bushes. Well for valentines day she stole some money from a register at school. She does the lunch TA thing. She does the math, gets 5 bucks extra to get me something. She goes home. She asks for more money, her dad asks where she got the 5, she tells the truth about stealing. He flips out. He takes away what she loves most. She can't see me for several weeks (sucks I live right next door). It been pretty rough. She slept outside to see me last night. I don't know where she is now. I went to bed at midnight then woke up at 4:30 to go to work. A little wine and resin has perked me right up. So how do you deal with not seeing your loved ones? After spending so much time together and becoming so used to it. Im going to pretend it like a vacation or prison. I just don't know what to do with my time till this passes. I can't get involved on her end, Ill get my ass kicked and probably get kicked out the ways things are connected here. I just have to sit, booze it up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chunk Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Your girlfriend's a thief. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
860 Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 /b/: an hero GTAF: whip it out i dont have any real advice, though. i actually envy you. atleast you have someone to miss. so.. just had to say the 2 of the above. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doink Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 How old is she? If she's 18, she should just be like "yeah, f*ck you dad" and get her ass over to your house. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seachmall Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 GROW SOME F*CKING BALLS Seriously, I mean what the f*ck is up with these threads? Is 2009 year of the pussy? Stop spamming our forum with your bullsh*t problems that everyone goes through and deals with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 You are obviously a bad influence on your lady friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hart Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 GROW SOME F*CKING BALLS Seriously, I mean what the f*ck is up with these threads? Is 2009 year of the pussy? Stop spamming our forum with your bullsh*t problems that everyone goes through and deals with. Why dont you just shut the f*ck up and let him feel what he wants. Randall, I dunno, smoke some weed? Watch some films or something, try get your mind off it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doink Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Heh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seachmall Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 (edited) Why dont you just shut the f*ck up and let him feel what he wants. I've said this before in a past thread much like this one; we are not snowflakes. People go through the same sh*t but to different degrees. He's 14, sh*t happens. I got my head kicked in daily for over a year, a friend of mine nearly lost his mother after she entered a severe coma, another friend of mine took his own life. sh*t happens, we've all been there, it hurts and it's sad but it's not the end of the world. 'Grow some balls' may not be the most sympathetic approach but it's the most practical. Do you know why I stopped getting bullied? Me and a friend jumped the bully after school and beat the sh*t out of him, that was the end of it. This sh*t doesn't just go away, you have to face it head on. No matter why you're depressed you've got to accept what's happening and strive to get passed it. Forced Seperation Anxiety? A friend of mine killed himself, another one nearly lost his mother, that is forced seperation anxiety. Edited February 17, 2009 by Seachmall Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Tequeli Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 f*ck her anyway maybe? I mean really, isn't this kind of sh*t fun for you? Edit: New idea, dump her, she'll be so pissed at her dad, it would entertain me to no end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eggburt Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 That bitch is crazy dude, bail. Stealing, sleeping outside, going out with someone who smokes resin, crazy-ass dad. No good for you bro. On the other hand just see her, unless she's locked in the house now? He can't follow her everywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PacMaan Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Heh. lolz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Ahh, been there and done that before with my ex fiancee, who I'm actually starting to be with again oddly enough. Heh. But anyway man, I've gone through this when she was grounded for weeks at a time. You just gotta find ways to sneak around it and see each other anyway. Yeah it won't be as often and you might get paranoid or whatever, but it's better than sitting around waiting. Fight the fight, haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 I bet her dad catches you and then you will discover why boys fear the proverbial HER DAD! "Boy, you won't be needing those anyomore!" My best advice? RUN and never look back! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randall Flagg Posted February 17, 2009 Author Share Posted February 17, 2009 I live in a f*cking duplex. Get me? Her house is connected to mine, same f*cking driveway. I live with the tenants. So when sh*t hits the fan I get blamed. Basic-f*cking-lee im on pins an needles. Her father complains to the tenants about me sneaking to see his daughter. Woudl you like being told "if you step outside you aint coming back in" while you girlfriend is screaming and crying to you for help cause her bacardi and pills mixer dad is on the rag again. I can't get involved. I found drinkignhelps me enjoy things again. It must be some kind of odd sex withdrawal. I have a strong urge to f*ck some sh*t up though, and not with my dick. Im gonna go to work and f*ckign make money and get the hell out of california and go hunt f*ckign turkeys with a shotgun somewhere out east. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PacMaan Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Kill them. Kill them all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chunk Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Would you like being told "if you step outside you aint coming back in" while you girlfriend is screaming and crying to you for help cause her bacardi and pills mixer dad is on the rag again. Scary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Typhus Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Whoa, wait a second. Isn't resin a poison? I thought it was deadly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seachmall Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Woudl you like being told "if you step outside you aint coming back in" while you girlfriend is screaming and crying to you for help cause her bacardi and pills mixer dad is on the rag again. I can't get involved. Are you serious? If that's the case GROW SOME F*CKING BALLS If someone you care for is in serious trouble you need to get in there, I'm not joking. I don't mean go knocking her dad out with a bat I mean helping her get out of the house. Talk to some people who know about these things like a counselor or something. Isn't resin a poison? I thought it was deadly. Cannabis resin, i.e. hash. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randall Flagg Posted February 17, 2009 Author Share Posted February 17, 2009 I grew balls I got 2 sh*tty jobs totalling over 50 hours of work a week. Only thing I can do is get a couple grand. Then Leave. She wants to finsh school though first so I got till june to put up with this random crap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 I live in a f*cking duplex. Get me? Her house is connected to mine, same f*cking driveway. I live with the tenants. So when sh*t hits the fan I get blamed. Basic-f*cking-lee im on pins an needles. Her father complains to the tenants about me sneaking to see his daughter. Woudl you like being told "if you step outside you aint coming back in" while you girlfriend is screaming and crying to you for help cause her bacardi and pills mixer dad is on the rag again. I can't get involved. I found drinkignhelps me enjoy things again. It must be some kind of odd sex withdrawal. I have a strong urge to f*ck some sh*t up though, and not with my dick. Im gonna go to work and f*ckign make money and get the hell out of california and go hunt f*ckign turkeys with a shotgun somewhere out east. So what you are saying is that it is sorta like having a crush on or even dating yoiur step sister. ......Relax, I am only kidding...... The trials and tribulations of love are difficult no matter where you turn, little bro. Modelling yourself after a manly man who is respectful of others is the only way to a committed father's heart in regards to his little girl. It requires the building of character, integrity, honesty and dependablity. Do you have what it takes to do this long haul? Ask yourself and be honest with yourself because it doesn't matter what you tell us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
860 Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 damn HGF you talk like Typhus + a hint of a midieval warlord. i cant understand a thing you say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seachmall Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 I grew balls I got 2 sh*tty jobs totalling over 50 hours of work a week. Only thing I can do is get a couple grand. Then Leave. She wants to finsh school though first so I got till june to put up with this random crap. You need to get her out of that house ASAP, organise for her to stay at a friends house but if her dad is violent you can't just wait till you save up the money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Typhus Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 damn HGF you talk like Typhus + a hint of a midieval warlord.i cant understand a thing you say. Medieval Warlord? What are you talking about? Mr. GrenadeFrenzy was just saying that to get the Father on side you must first act in a stereotypically alpha-male fashion. Football, beer, moustaches. That kind of thing. It's hollow. But people often are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
860 Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 (edited) damn HGF you talk like Typhus + a hint of a midieval warlord.i cant understand a thing you say. Medieval Warlord? What are you talking about? Mr. GrenadeFrenzy was just saying that to get the Father on side you must first act in a stereotypically alpha-male fashion. Football, beer, moustaches. That kind of thing. It's hollow. But people often are. you are now my official HGF translator. imma put you back on my respect list and then we shall ride on horses and clense the rotten core of Britain. Edited February 17, 2009 by 860 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Effy in Chains Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Depends if that bitch is worth it, I say if she is really something special (in a almost totally superficial way) then you should wait for her to be able to see you again, but if she really isn't too attractive then dump her and find a better one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 (edited) damn HGF you talk like Typhus + a hint of a midieval warlord.i cant understand a thing you say. Medieval Warlord? What are you talking about? Mr. GrenadeFrenzy was just saying that to get the Father on side you must first act in a stereotypically alpha-male fashion. Football, beer, moustaches. That kind of thing. It's hollow. But people often are. The respectful of others is what makes it rare and sought after. Respectful of others includes "respectful toward his little girl" to be sure. This is an absolute. By respectful I mean treat in a respectful manner and also in a respectible manner else be removed fromt he equasion. No sex before marriage is a given and formal courting is an old fashioned wonder to a father whom is committed's heart. Which means he can put stipulations on YOU and YOUR LIFE if his little girls is to be a part of that life. Get ME NOW? It is nice to mince english with figures of speach on the occassion tht it is befitted to do so. Edited February 17, 2009 by HolyGrenadeFrenzy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Typhus Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 (edited) Ah yes, the old fashioned courting rituals. Maybe he should take her to a drive-in movie and then go to a milkshake bar. Plenty of tills to dip into there. The chivalrous approach would be appropriate if the girl wasn't a thief. Edited February 17, 2009 by Typhus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hodgey. Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 I could act like i give a sh*t but i cant be bothered. Im going to sound like a right prick but do what you think is right instead of asking a bunch of people that dont really know the whole situation and dont know what your girlfreind or her dad is like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gamernotnerd Posted February 17, 2009 Share Posted February 17, 2009 Or whip it out, standard GTAF procedure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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