tuff_luv_capo Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Seriously, does she have to drink that f*cking bad? If you know you're only going to have one, which won't do sh*t for you anyways, you might as well say f*ck it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picolini Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Seriously, does she have to drink that f*cking bad? If you know you're only going to have one, which won't do sh*t for you anyways, you might as well say f*ck it. Exactly. The fact that it might be possible to cause ill-effects to the fetus should be enough just not to just have any at all. The only reason I see to drink any alcohol is to feel the effects. There's plenty of good tasting drinks out there that don't give you the effects and side effects of alcohol. Also, as for the "it's good because it has antioxidants," well so does cranberry juice. And that doesn't have any toxins, so maybe stick with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sauron Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 It's a great idea if you want your baby to be an ALCOHOLIC. Personally i'd steer clear, why take the risk. I mean jesus it's only a few months. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Statutory Ray Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 It's a great idea if you want your baby to be an ALCOHOLIC. Personally i'd steer clear, why take the risk. I mean jesus it's only a few months. Listen to this man he had a baby. It's an alcoholic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sananoutlaw Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 If it's only one drink you're both concerned about why bother at all? There's no benifit. I'm on antibiotics at the minute and i'm not really meant to drink, I had one can of beer in the fridge and was going to drink it. Then I thought, why? If it's just one, I could just as easily not drink it, and at the same time definately not mess anything up. (I know there's a bit of a difference between pregnancy & tablets, but you get the jist) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 After seeing the results of drinking while pregnant I have some unresolved issues. The whole thing makes me want to kick some ass. Since hitting pregnant women is right out, the question comes to mind......"Where are you going to be when she does this?" Just saying.....I am not alone in this in world perspective and many of us are willing to wait until you to to the parking lot. Not that I would ever admit to acting on such feelings.....the feelings are there none-the-less. Just saying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picolini Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 After seeing the results of drinking while pregnant I have some unresolved issues. The whole thing makes me want to kick some ass. Since hitting pregnant women is right out, the question comes to mind......"Where are you going to be when she does this?" Just saying.....I am not alone in this in world perspective and many of us are willing to wait until you to to the parking lot. Not that I would ever admit to acting on such feelings.....the feelings are there none-the-less. Just saying. I have no clue what that post meant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronnyboy Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 After seeing the results of drinking while pregnant I have some unresolved issues. The whole thing makes me want to kick some ass. Since hitting pregnant women is right out, the question comes to mind......"Where are you going to be when she does this?" Just saying.....I am not alone in this in world perspective and many of us are willing to wait until you to to the parking lot. Not that I would ever admit to acting on such feelings.....the feelings are there none-the-less. Just saying. I have no clue what that post meant. Welcome to the Matrix! Sure, let her drink, let her go out. You can stay home and search GTAF for new topics and jerk off to some porno while she makes your new child brain dead! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 After seeing the results of drinking while pregnant I have some unresolved issues. The whole thing makes me want to kick some ass. Since hitting pregnant women is right out, the question comes to mind......"Where are you going to be when she does this?" Just saying.....I am not alone in this in world perspective and many of us are willing to wait until you to to the parking lot. Not that I would ever admit to acting on such feelings.....the feelings are there none-the-less. Just saying. I have no clue what that post meant. It means someone might kick his ass for allowing her to drink! Sometimes the only thing people understand is a good old fashioned ass kicking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
makeshyft Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Hang on... you'd kick his ass because his wife wants a drink? How is that justified? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 (edited) Hang on... you'd kick his ass because his wife wants a drink? How is that justified? No, I haven't but I have seen it done. I have seen the babies die, man. I have also seen what happens when they don't die. .....even a small amount of alcohol makes a difference. 99.9% of Borderline Personality Disorder's mothers drank alcohol during pregnancy. Sample of Borderline Personality Disorder material High in the suicide and other high risk activity is also common including vehicular issues such as road rage and vehicular homicide because of the impulse issues it causes. Yeah, if an ass kicking will save the life of a child, it is often a family member that does the ass kicking........welcome to the real world. EDIT: Hell, this isn't even going into the hard core alcoholic material or the even occasional drinker's effects on the child. Low birth weight is the smallest of the dangers and that is no laughing matter. Edited November 26, 2008 by HolyGrenadeFrenzy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
makeshyft Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Uh, I understand that alcohol can be damaging to the unborn, but it's really not his responsibility, it's hers. Kicking his ass because his wife wants a drink is a completely stupid idea, and you could spout every statistic in the world and it still wouldn't be justified. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stefan. Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Over the 9 months I think perhaps maybe 1 drink should be satisfactory. Not that you necessarily need to drink it or anything, but if she is so desperate for a drink, then I don't a glass of wine would hurt. Or, you could water down the wine, make it like 50% wine 50% water. The taste is still there, and you only get half the alcohol you want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 (edited) Uh, I understand that alcohol can be damaging to the unborn, but it's really not his responsibility, it's hers. Kicking his ass because his wife wants a drink is a completely stupid idea, and you could spout every statistic in the world and it still wouldn't be justified. I am not saying that it is justified. Only that it happens. I, myself, have not started any kind of real physical conflict since my youth. I am an instructor and am held to a higher measure of example. But....my feelings are another issue entirely. And yes, that is how it feels for me. That intense, that real, that big of a deal....and emotions need no justification because they just are what they are and mine are no different than anyone else's. They come and they go and mine on this issue have seen alot of ground. Adults whom have killed themselves because of a disorder brought on by the mother's inablity to say no and the father's inablity to ask her to refrain. In my neck of the woods, an ass kicking is different when done by people whom love and respect you than when done by those who intend you harm but then again.......I was nearly born in the dojo. Major point being this, I have many feelings that do not control my actions and that require that I meditate upon them to discover what they tell me about myself. This has nothing to do with refraining from violence but more to do with understanding what I am committting to in any given moment. Commit or don't commit is the rule. I would never commit to saying it is OK to drink alcohol while pregnant......too much trouble comes of it. Edited November 26, 2008 by HolyGrenadeFrenzy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
makeshyft Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Adults whom have killed themselves because of a disorder brought on by the mother's inablity to say no and the father's inablity to ask her to refrain. Sure, he can ask her to refrain, and she can say no. At the end of the day she is an adult and capable of making her own choices, for good or ill. What I am saying is that all this talk about harming a husband/boyfriend/whatever for decisions made by his partner is absolute nonsense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Adults whom have killed themselves because of a disorder brought on by the mother's inablity to say no and the father's inablity to ask her to refrain. Sure, he can ask her to refrain, and she can say no. At the end of the day she is an adult and capable of making her own choices, for good or ill. What I am saying is that all this talk about harming a husband/boyfriend/whatever for decisions made by his partner is absolute nonsense. Hey, I am not saying anyone should do that.....but I have seen it happen more than you may realize because the police are usually NOT involved in such matters. Seriously, it happens and anyone going into it should at least have a heads up from someone that that uncle/grandpa to be or what ever is not walking up like that because of you parking on his grass or something.......be prepared for the unexpected. Just saying, it happens and I get where it comes from. ------------------------------------------ and in repeat to my own feelings on the matter. Major point being this, I have many feelings that do not control my actions and that require that I meditate upon them to discover what they tell me about myself. This has nothing to do with refraining from violence but more to do with understanding what I am committting to in any given moment. Commit or don't commit is the rule. I would never commit to saying it is OK to drink alcohol while pregnant......too much trouble comes of it. If anyone claims that they have never felt like harming someone else then they are lying. The way you feel and what you choose to do about your feelings are two different things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
makeshyft Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 I feel like I am just smashing my face into a wall here. You don't seem to be getting what I am saying, and I sure as hell have no idea what you're on about. I'll let you traipse around in your fantasy land while I go off and do something more rewarding, like jamming my dick in a door. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 (edited) I feel like I am just smashing my face into a wall here. You don't seem to be getting what I am saying, and I sure as hell have no idea what you're on about. I'll let you traipse around in your fantasy land while I go off and do something more rewarding, like jamming my dick in a door. Yeah, man....you missed me but I completely understand your point. ....and you are correct...any kind of violence is usually inappropriate and unnecessary when a few polite private words would do more to the efforts of any peoples....... Yet, family and friends are often less than partially base in their connections to us and even the most refined people can blow a gasket on such matters at times. Sometimes it is just best not to stir the coals of hot issues and it is best to find out if they have ever been hot with anyone around you in your daily accounting of things. The Spartans put the infants under the wine and if they didn't drown they lived to become children, after all. But.....alcohol is something that should be considered not just as his and her issue but the issue of the child foremost. Watching babies die with those more severe alcohol issues and then seeing the effects of the minor issues brings out the animal in most anyone.....The Man thinks one thing......the animal feels another way. Edited November 26, 2008 by HolyGrenadeFrenzy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TECHN9CiAN Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 the very occasional drink can help mellow out your child later on. lol.... the last thing this world needs are more born-depressed buzzed people. It's safer if you don't let her drink any alcohol while pregnant. Save the binge drinking for later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SWEETSAPRIK Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 @that mess of gibberish up there wat? PяopagaиdaIиc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA3Rockstar Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Wait, wait, hold the phone. How far into the pregnancy is she? I heard it also depends on that. The earlier into it the more of a chance to have defects and vice versa. That's what I heard so Im not 100% Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dunpeal Posted November 26, 2008 Author Share Posted November 26, 2008 Going on 6 months. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TECHN9CiAN Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Sure, let her drink. It's probably not even your baby. He has a good point there... she maybe wants to get rid of it before you start demanding for dna verification. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA3Rockstar Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Sure, let her drink. It's probably not even your baby. He has a good point there... she maybe wants to get rid of it before you start demanding for dna verification. From your username; sounds like your mom did a heavy load of drinking. Asshole. 6 Months. So she's due in February, I would tell her to wait on it and seeing as this topic is a day old. Did you already have the dinner? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HolyGrenadeFrenzy Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 @that mess of gibberish up there wat? Ok, it is simple, some people get really upset about pregnant women drinking alcohol and sometimes this results in other consequences. I actually agree with what makeshyft says. I also understand where the feelings that such behaviour stems from. The examples I could give may or may not shed some light on my opinion yet that seems inconsequential at this time. makeshyft points out that roughing up the man for what the preganant woman decides to do is beyond reason and makes absolutely no sense. I agree with that yet.....I have seen it happen far more than once and mostly from the pregnant couples relatives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TECHN9CiAN Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 Sure, let her drink. It's probably not even your baby. He has a good point there... she maybe wants to get rid of it before you start demanding for dna verification. From your username; sounds like your mom did a heavy load of drinking. Asshole. 6 Months. So she's due in February, I would tell her to wait on it and seeing as this topic is a day old. Did you already have the dinner? you take a joke like a bitch. FYI i'm rally 6ft 2inches tall... the nickname is an inuendo/double entendre. It's refering to my dick, but instead of saying 7inches, i'm saying 7ft. that's right... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SWEETSAPRIK Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 This topic is getting pretty awesome. PяopagaиdaIиc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waddy Posted November 26, 2008 Share Posted November 26, 2008 This topic is getting pretty awesome. Awesome enough to lock and then move to the greatest topic archives so in years to come history can be read again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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