neato9611 Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 So, I was at lunch at my high school and I was talking to a girl whom I am quite fond of. Well, she decides to announce that I am her bff. I know that generally this basically puts any romantic relationship on the chopping block, and I was wondering if there is any remote chance of me getting her. Plus, I have been down this road twice before, and it certainly seems that my life abides by Murphy's Law. Any help here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Machida Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 What's bff? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hayden Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Best friends forever. Nice. Really nice. Actually I don't have anything of importance to contribute. Sucks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Machida Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Just whip it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonny_Tightlips Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 My advice is to forget about it. I was in a similar situation, and it didn't work out well at all. Just be her friend and show her what friendship means. I'm sure 10 years down the road when she's as stretched out as a wizard's sleeve she'll realize you're the man she's always wanted. Cheers. ...besides that I ain't sayin nuthin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryuclan Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 It's not impossible to ascend from the friend zone and get with this girl BUT being that your from the zone you have to understand that you have to tread lighter then you have ever done in your life. If you want to keep her as a friend and not endanger that then I suggest you just don't go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wanted Assailant Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Since when did GTAF become a dating service/pr0n discussion/vagina/penis/skinny jeans community? Anyways, just whip it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaj. Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Hah, you're the "gay friend". Every girl has one, regardless of whether or not the dude is gay. You can't do much here in terms of a relationship. Just whip it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Girish Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Since when did GTAF become a dating service/pr0n discussion/vagina/penis/skinny jeans community? Since Dec 30, 2007. @neato9611: Well, you could try and make her jealous by giving more attention to other girls than her. That should work (if at all she has any feelings for you). And if that doesn't work, just whip it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randall Flagg Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Just whip it out. Or get drunk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XMike Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Atleast you have a bff. There are a couple things I could suggest to probably persuade her to think of you as more than a friend and that's to just whip it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheSamurai Hobo Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Friends with privileges? *licks the air* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrazeLaze Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 If a girl wants to be friends with you, that generally means she likes you, and has the potential to like you more, you have to start some where, you can't just become girlfriend/boyfriend just like that. Just whip it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
makeshyft Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 BFF? Holy blood-sh*tting Jesus I hate young people. Beat her unconscious with a knotty stick and impregnate her. Shotgun weddings are where it's at. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricornus Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Just whip it out. Slap her with it. It works! Whip it out. Just do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lochie_old Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 You got friendzoned? You ain't the first and you ain't the last, grab a beer, wipe back those tears and give poppa Phusion a cuddle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GodfatherITB Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 There comes a time in every man's life when you just have to whip it out. Now is that time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TubbyJ Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 (edited) Just whip it out. Bingo. It happens to me all the time, of course that's probably just because of my demeanor. I come off kind of like "ah, isn't that cute, fatty likes me. I'll just dangle myself in front of him instead and give off confusing signs until he asks me out. Then I'll just crush him with a resounding no". I'm a bit bitter, suffice it to say. Edited September 14, 2008 by TubbyJ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juice By Kayla Marie Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 It can work.. :] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zpectre Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 I happen to be in the same situation as you but I'm at college. And she just left a relationship which means it wasn't going to work, at least for now. She wants to enjoy her single life. Make her jealous. I think anything can be possible as long as you don't screw up too much. Meanwhile, hang out with other girls to satisfy your daily need for contact with the opposite sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greebo-man Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Just be a wanker to her. Then she'll want you. Honest. They like twats. So basically, my advices culminates in the conclusion of you just whipping it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MobBG Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 I hate stuff like this-best friends forever etc. Just f*cking go and tell her what are youre feelings and sh*t Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crokey Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Best Friends Forever, can lead to being F*ck Buddies, F*ck Buddies can lead to being a Proper Couple, a Proper Couple can lead to being a Married Couple, a Married Couple can lead to Monotonous Sex, Monotonous Sex can lead to a Divorce after 5 kids, a Divorce after 5 Kids can lead to a large Alimony Check, a Large Alimony Check can lead to you being Destitute, being Destitute can lead to Prostitution, Prostitution can lead to you Sucking off Some Guy in an alleyway, Sucking off Some Guy in an alleyway can lead to you being arrested and Thrown in Jail, being Thrown in Jail can lead you to be the Prison Bitch, being the Prison Bitch can lead you to Kill Yourself... So... Just Whip It Out™ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
x_rory_x Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 get her drunk and whip it out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJBillyB Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 bottle of Jack Daniels should do the trick, then Whip it out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamesguru Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Just Whip It Out™ Lol at the use of Trade Mark. Everyone here has a habit of 'whipping it out'; all the rage I see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuareg Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 It can work.. :] Yes it can. Infact, you have slightly better chances of "getting her" as opposed to not being her "bff". It all depends on her. If she starts to like you even more, who knows, it could just happen. If she just sees you as a friend then just get over it. She wont be the one for you, and there'll be another eventually. The very few girlfriends i've had i was friends with and they felt teh loev later. Most of my friends were friends with their girlfriends before, and now they're together. Really, it's worth a shot in my opinion. If it doesn't work forget her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddie280 Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Oh man, I've made this mistake in the past. The key to getting a girl is to be direct and make your intentions known. If you pussy foot around and fanny about for a few months trying to be her friend first then you get no where except the friend zone. It's a well known fact that girls don't know what's good for them. You may be the best guy in the world but she won't see that until, like Zak said, she's older and wiser. Younger women go for the c*nts because they're far more direct and up front. They tell the girl they want to go out with them and they want to f*ck them. The nice guys do exactly what you did and always fall into the same trap. So, my advice would be: accept that you're not getting anywhere with this girl. Move on, and be more direct with girls in the future. Ask them out rather than trying to get to know them, there is plenty of time for life stories on dates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mega Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 If you pussy foot around and fanny about for a few months trying to be her friend first then you get no where except the friend zone. I don't get why guys act like this... It's counter-productive. And lol @ bff, i didn't know that word. And its a f*cking joke i think. Signature soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GTA3Rockstar Posted September 14, 2008 Share Posted September 14, 2008 Pix or it didn't happen. Of the girl, its to let us know if she's worth it. Ah just whip it out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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