Help for a friend

[dills]

Tell her to suck it up and spend her time trying to improve her grades so this doesn't happen again rather than trying to work around the punishment she has been given.

[ryuclan]

@ryuclan and lurchseesu: I do know the school situation, it was bad grades thats it. They weren't even that bad. It's not like she's argueing with teachers, or wagging class or not doing any homework or anything.

How you can justify a fully grown male for hitting his 15 year old daughter because of bad grades is behond me. And it wasn't just a smack on the ass; it was to her face. And no, they don't have the 'right' to hit her, what the f*ck are you smoking?

I don't give a sh*t if she's 15 or not. He's her father. As long as he uses an open hand, and she's under 18, he can hit her. I don't care if it's the face, back, ass, etc. Now a closed fist would be considered abuse. Maybe the laws are different over there, but that's how is is over here. It's the same for the staff at the Juvenille detention center. If a kid smarts off, you're allowed to hit them with an open hand. It's not abuse.

Yes, teaching your kids that violence is the answer to problems is a great idea.

I'm all for an ass whoopin...but striking you child in the face is not acceptable. The back I don't know it depends on the force. My advice is to never whoop a child while your mad, it's just stupid. Clear your head, decide if this is the right thing to do then either carry on or decide on a better punishment.