Grumpy Old Forumers

[Algonquin Assassin]

I've unpinned all the unnecessary appreciation threads and have just left three threads pinned. It really was just a running gag that I didn't think would be taken so seriously, but meh..

 

I'm not deleting/locking the threads themselves though.

[Ducard]

It started as a running gag but certain members have been using it as an excuse to raise their post count. One of the regulars made 1000 posts in less than a month which speaks for itself really.

[gtamann123]

 

After finally getting fed up with being a 20 year old virgin I decided to join a dating site. I met a girl and we started talking. We got along well so I asked her on a date. We went on the date and we got a long really well. We hung out 2 days later and she took my virginity. We hung out 4 times over the next 3 weeks and had sex each time. We went out to eat. Went to an amusement park and did all kinds of fun stuff. Until she started to ignore my texts. After about a week of not hearing from her I sent her a big long one asking what happened. She responded and said she is interested in someone else. FML f*ck f*ck f*ck f*ck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not sad about it just mad and frustrated. She's just a harlot who used me for sex while she waited for the guy she really wanted to become available. She led me on by saying she was interested in a relationship but it was bullsh*t. I thought I was finally going to have a girlfriend and be happy but nope. Dreams crushed again

• Joins dating web site to lose virginity
• Upset when someone else's motive is sex

My main motive wasn't to lose my virginity it was to find a relationship. The virginity losing was secondary. And on this girls profile she said she wasn't just looking for casual sex but actually looking for a relationship. And she told me that too. Which is why I didn't mind when she pressured me into sex on the second date because I didn't think she was just using me as a short term hookup

 

@SPND: It may seem like it in theory but it isn't in practice. I honesty thought we were going to date for a few months at least but when she broke it off after only a month it made me even more depressed than I already was. I actually wanted to have a girlfriend and be in a relationship

Edited May 30, 2015 by gtamann123

[mr quick]

 

 

After finally getting fed up with being a 20 year old virgin I decided to join a dating site. I met a girl and we started talking. We got along well so I asked her on a date. We went on the date and we got a long really well. We hung out 2 days later and she took my virginity. We hung out 4 times over the next 3 weeks and had sex each time. We went out to eat. Went to an amusement park and did all kinds of fun stuff. Until she started to ignore my texts. After about a week of not hearing from her I sent her a big long one asking what happened. She responded and said she is interested in someone else. FML f*ck f*ck f*ck f*ck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not sad about it just mad and frustrated. She's just a harlot who used me for sex while she waited for the guy she really wanted to become available. She led me on by saying she was interested in a relationship but it was bullsh*t. I thought I was finally going to have a girlfriend and be happy but nope. Dreams crushed again

• Joins dating web site to lose virginity
• Upset when someone else's motive is sex

My main motive wasn't to lose my virginity it was to find a relationship. The virginity losing was secondary.

 

@SPND: It may seem like it in theory but it isn't in practice. I honesty thought we were going to date for a few months at least but when she broke it off after only a month it made me even more depressed than I already was. I actually wanted to have a girlfriend and be in a relationship

 

 

The introduction to your tale of a fool is this:

 

"After finally getting fed up with being a 20 year old virgin I decided to join a dating site."

 

You tell me what that implies.

[gtamann123]

 

 

 

After finally getting fed up with being a 20 year old virgin I decided to join a dating site. I met a girl and we started talking. We got along well so I asked her on a date. We went on the date and we got a long really well. We hung out 2 days later and she took my virginity. We hung out 4 times over the next 3 weeks and had sex each time. We went out to eat. Went to an amusement park and did all kinds of fun stuff. Until she started to ignore my texts. After about a week of not hearing from her I sent her a big long one asking what happened. She responded and said she is interested in someone else. FML f*ck f*ck f*ck f*ck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not sad about it just mad and frustrated. She's just a harlot who used me for sex while she waited for the guy she really wanted to become available. She led me on by saying she was interested in a relationship but it was bullsh*t. I thought I was finally going to have a girlfriend and be happy but nope. Dreams crushed again

• Joins dating web site to lose virginity
• Upset when someone else's motive is sex

My main motive wasn't to lose my virginity it was to find a relationship. The virginity losing was secondary.

 

@SPND: It may seem like it in theory but it isn't in practice. I honesty thought we were going to date for a few months at least but when she broke it off after only a month it made me even more depressed than I already was. I actually wanted to have a girlfriend and be in a relationship

 

The introduction to your tale of a fool is this:

 

"After finally getting fed up with being a 20 year old virgin I decided to join a dating site."

 

You tell me what that implies.

I should have worded it like this "after being fed up with being a 20 year old virgin who had never been on a date with a girl or never been in a dating/romantic relationship with a girl"

[mr quick]

The loss of your virginity remains focal. I'm only judging you for being a hypocrite, not for wanting to get laid.

[gtamann123]

I guess you may be right. But I honestly wanted to both and she implied she was interested in both. If she had said she was only interested in a short fling I probably wouldn't have slept with her and would have saved myself for someone who was looking for a relationship. Which may have taken years to find. The reason I haven't hired am escort by now is because I wanted to lose my virginity to someone I was actually going to date for an extended period of time. The thought of losing my virginity in an anonymous encounter kind of unsettled me.

 

The situation just angers me because it's kind of making me realize how physically unattractive time I am. I realize my Aspbergers and autistic tendencies make me unattractive in the personality and emotional department. And my failure so far on dating sites has made me realize how lacking I am in the physical appearence department.

Edited May 30, 2015 by gtamann123

[Static]

I should have worded it like this "after being fed up with being a 20 year old virgin who had never been on a date with a girl or never been in a dating/romantic relationship with a girl"

 

Just to add my unwanted two cents..

If you can't be happy with yourself outside of a relationship, whatever happiness you do find from being in one will be short-lived.

[mr quick]

Oh well. At least you now know that while it may be fun, it's not that important in one's life.

[Pump Action Pimp]

Well, we're all just people. We have desires. We're nervous, unsure of what's going to happen next. And we all want someone to be there for us. If they are there, we want them to stay, if they aren't, we desperately want to find them. So his honesty is admirable.

[Th3MaN1]

I'm at 18 years of age, and never did I even get the itch of getting a girlfriend, or even losing my virginity. I can be really patient when it comes to sh*t like this. Or maybe it's just people around me experiencing love, but ruining the other parts of their lives. One of my friends (also 18) has just found her first girlfriend. They're still together, but he had a sh*tload of really great friends, and he's starting to lose them, because all day, and all night, he lives and breathes for her.

 

When I feel like it's time, I will go out and find a girlfriend for myself. For the moment, I can enjoy life without having someone else on my side.

[Ai®a©ob®a]

I should have worded it like this "after being fed up with being a 20 year old virgin who had never been on a date with a girl or never been in a dating/romantic relationship with a girl"

You're 20 dude you have a long time to find that perfect girl...

 

Hell my neighbor who is 72 years old just got married for the first time...So it may be 50 years but love will eventually find you.

[gtamann123]

 

I should have worded it like this "after being fed up with being a 20 year old virgin who had never been on a date with a girl or never been in a dating/romantic relationship with a girl"

You're 20 dude you have a long time to find that perfect girl...

 

Hell my neighbor who is 72 years old just got married for the first time...So it may be 50 years but love will eventually find you.

My dad said I will probably be able to find a girl who will settle for me in my late 20s or early 30s. He said when you are young the dating pool of men you have to compete with is huge so your odds of getting a girl to settle for you are very low because they have so many options to choose from. But he said when you get around your late 20s and 30s people start to marry off at a very quick rate and the dating pool shrinks and girls get deperate and are more likely to settle for a guy like me. So there that to give me hope I guess. I just hope I can find a decent girl when the time comes.

[Static]

My dad said I will probably be able to find a girl who will settle for me in my late 20s or early 30s. He said when you are young the dating pool of men you have to compete with is huge so your odds of getting a girl to settle for you are very low because they have so many options to choose from. But he said when you get around your late 20s and 30s people start to marry off at a very quick rate and the dating pool shrinks and girls get deperate and are more likely to settle for a guy like me. So there that to give me hope I guess. I just hope I can find a decent girl when the time comes.

 

 

Dude, you already had one chick, so what exactly is stopping you from getting another one. You clearly have the ability and means to do so. Why wait to be some desperate 30-yr-old's last resort for marriage. I understand you want that whole "happily ever after" thing, but that doesn't happen without effort. You need to take it one step at a time, life is an endurance race and not a sprint. Meet a girl, get to know her first, then date and if don't work out, rinse and repeat.

Edited May 30, 2015 by Static

[Ari Gold]

 

I should have worded it like this "after being fed up with being a 20 year old virgin who had never been on a date with a girl or never been in a dating/romantic relationship with a girl"

 

Just to add my unwanted two cents..

If you can't be happy with yourself outside of a relationship, whatever happiness you do find from being in one will be short-lived.

 

 

I cannot emphasise enough how true this is.

[TheMcSame]

Urrrg... First world grump. I'm looking to get a new phone and since I've been happy with my Z1 I was thinking of upgrading to the Z3+... Sony on the other hand... Well, they thought it would be a good idea to put an 810 in it... Lets just say that a phone that doesn't dissipate heat very well and a hot chip don't work well together.

 

Before I wouldn't have thought about buying from the likes of ZTE or Xiaomi (something like that)... But now? Well... They seem to be built to cope with the hardware so I see no reason to ignore them now.

[wiizardii]

After finally getting fed up with being a 20 year old virgin I decided to join a dating site. I met a girl and we started talking. We got along well so I asked her on a date. We went on the date and we got a long really well. We hung out 2 days later and she took my virginity. We hung out 4 times over the next 3 weeks and had sex each time. We went out to eat. Went to an amusement park and did all kinds of fun stuff. Until she started to ignore my texts. After about a week of not hearing from her I sent her a big long one asking what happened. She responded and said she is interested in someone else. FML f*ck f*ck f*ck f*ck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not sad about it just mad and frustrated. She's just a harlot who used me for sex while she waited for the guy she really wanted to become available. She led me on by saying she was interested in a relationship but it was bullsh*t. I thought I was finally going to have a girlfriend and be happy but nope. Dreams crushed again

I point out the two main gripes:

 

1. Joining a dating website. Nuff' said.

2. To lose your virginity.... Nuff' said.

[The Dedito Gae]

After finally getting fed up with being a 20 year old virgin I decided to join a dating site. I met a girl and we started talking. We got along well so I asked her on a date. We went on the date and we got a long really well. We hung out 2 days later and she took my virginity. We hung out 4 times over the next 3 weeks and had sex each time. We went out to eat. Went to an amusement park and did all kinds of fun stuff. Until she started to ignore my texts. After about a week of not hearing from her I sent her a big long one asking what happened. She responded and said she is interested in someone else. FML f*ck f*ck f*ck f*ck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not sad about it just mad and frustrated. She's just a harlot who used me for sex while she waited for the guy she really wanted to become available. She led me on by saying she was interested in a relationship but it was bullsh*t. I thought I was finally going to have a girlfriend and be happy but nope. Dreams crushed again

at least you lost your virginity and were used as a sex object, cheer up.

 

 

..which sucks because the IV section used to be a cool place.

the IV section is the best place to be,you are just thinking you are super mature,like AJ or Android.

loosen up a bit and start having fun

 

Edited May 31, 2015 by Midnight Hitman

[Coin]

 

My dad said I will probably be able to find a girl who will settle for me in my late 20s or early 30s. He said when you are young the dating pool of men you have to compete with is huge so your odds of getting a girl to settle for you are very low because they have so many options to choose from. But he said when you get around your late 20s and 30s people start to marry off at a very quick rate and the dating pool shrinks and girls get deperate and are more likely to settle for a guy like me. So there that to give me hope I guess. I just hope I can find a decent girl when the time comes.

 

 

Your dad sounds about as hopeless as you do, tbh.

 

Listen to the good people of GTAF. It's a step up.. as hard as that is to believe.

[Ducard]

The IV section is a cool place to be if you enjoy sh*tty jokes and circle jerks.

[Mr. Scratch]

 

The situation just angers me because it's kind of making me realize how physically unattractive time I am. I realize my Aspbergers and autistic tendencies make me unattractive in the personality and emotional department. And my failure so far on dating sites has made me realize how lacking I am in the physical appearence department.

No, no, no, your sh*tty attitude is a much bigger repellent to any woman. Maybe get some new clothes, rocking the casual t-shirt/jeans/sneakers combo every day isn't a good idea. You had that picture where you tried those clothes a while ago in the member photos topic. Go from that and get yourself some new threads, homebolio.

[The Dedito Gae]

The IV section is a cool place to be if you enjoy sh*tty jokes and circle jerks.

good luck finding a place in gtaforums that's not full of those.

[RoadRunner71]

I will never never drink rurn again. I feel like f*cking sh*t, I don't know how I even got to get home.

[Mr. Scratch]

I will never never drink rurn again. I feel like f*cking sh*t, I don't know how I even got to get home.

 

For future reference, rum should be drunk with something else in small quantities(mojito). You're not a pirate.

[PhillBellic]

 

I will never never drink rurn again. I feel like f*cking sh*t, I don't know how I even got to get home.

 

For future reference, rum should be drunk with something else in small quantities(mojito). You're not a pirate.

 

And drink plenty of water, before, during, and after drinking.

[Mr. Scratch]

Might as well drink just water!

Edited May 31, 2015 by Mr.Scratch

[PhillBellic]

Might as well drink just water!

Ahh, there's nothing better than a glass of Di-hydrogen Monoxide.

[Mr. Scratch]

 

Might as well drink just water!

Ahh, there's nothing better than a glass of Di-hydrogen Monoxide.

 

 

http://www.dhmo.org/facts.html

 

[Pump Action Pimp]

Vodka goes well with everything and is usually pretty cheap so it's my go-to.

[sivispacem]

 

I will never never drink rurn again. I feel like f*cking sh*t, I don't know how I even got to get home.

For future reference, rum should be drunk with something else in small quantities(mojito). You're not a pirate.

Only sh*t rum- IE white rum with the exception of cachaça. Good rum (like a nice añejo golden or quality rhum agricole) should be sipped like a fine whisky.