After realizing that I couldn't find anyone to play in the normal servers. I decided to try a bad sport lobby. It only took me about 10 cars to blow up and $40-$50,000 in grenades and sticky bombs to blow up stuff sense I couldn't find enough personal vehicles to blow up.
This just goes to show, as far as I know, it is difficult to mistakenly get into the bad sports lobby. Anyone else ever try this?