what is with you guys meeting girls who are 10 countries away from you?
why can't you meet people locally?
Most of the girls I know aren't sane enough to be dated and I don't even have high standards when it comes to personalities. The only girl I could conceivably date is actually someone who literally lives right next to me. She's the nicest and most polite girl I know (in person at least) but I think our values and interests don't align enough to make a relationship work. I can't help but think long-term about relationships at this point in life and I don't want to start one that's quite likely to fail because our views on certain subjects are irreconcilable.
The only two other girls that actually pretty much meet my criteria live thousands of miles away unfortunately. It's just a fact that people around where I live aren't that open-minded in general and in other countries things are a little different. I think you can also find people on the Internet much quicker whose interests and values align with yours, so it's a better dating medium in that sense.