i'm in a crew exclusively for girls, you have to verify one way or another that you are female, but you should join. it's called "Boss Girls", and i have had a lot of fun kickin' ass with them
if you're not looking for a crew and just someone to roll around with, feel free to add me. XBL tag is the same as my username on here (Plug in Baby81). could use less testosterone on my friend's list!
Verifying on mic seems to be the only legit way to do it these days.
Its sad really that it gets to the point where female crews actually have to verify themselves at all, because all that does is highlight how seriously sad all those dudes pretending to be females are & basically give a big red target to perverse wankers out there who realise there are girl crew "gold mines" out there.
I hope over time the gaming community becomes less of a f*cking thirst bucket though, I am sick of being in lobbies where it is 1 ugly bitch who thinks shes a somebody because she has 6 lapdogs around her who will do anything for some e-pussy. Both parties need to get a grip in those scenarios.