So, I've got this situation going on right now with this girl. Long story short, We are both managers of the same department in a Hospital. She is my superior. I do all the training and patient contact stuff and she does the book work. We've known each other for a little over a year now.
I am going to explain my side first. Since the first day she was hired I've always considered her attractive. But not until the last couple of months have I really gotten to know her and enjoyed being around her. Its crazy how much I think of this woman. I had very intimate dreams about her all last week (not sexual) and I woke up with a smile on face every morning.
Now, her side. She's 37 (I'm 30) married with three kids 9, 17 and 21. I can't say how she feels about me. but, I can pick up on the subtle clues she really likes being around me. When she calls me to her office we can sit and talk about personal things for a long time together. We pretty much see things I to I. She's told me she feels very comfortable around me and she feels like she's known me forever. Our childhood was very similar as well. I also notice how she looks at me. I'm no Bradley Cooper. But, I go to the gym five days a week and I am pretty fit.
Friday after work I got this really strange vibe from her while talking to her when she was going to pick up her daughter. We were talking like we always do. I would call it comfortable We know each other giggly stuff, all appropriate non affair kind of stuff. As soon as her daughter got in the car her tone changed to superior manager type talk and immediately she had to go. I got that whole she's trying to hide her true feelings kind of thing.
With that said, I am not going to have an affair with my superior. I love where I work and never plan on leaving. But, I do see this whole thing evolving. I don't know what into. I know she's gone through marriage counseling and I don't think she'll ever cheat.
What do you guys think I should do? Just let things sort themselves out and see what happens?