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Posted 28 May 2014 - 06:13 PM Edited by Danz., 28 May 2014 - 06:17 PM.

I'm pretty sure someone deleted my post here, so that person must be either unhappy or screwed, or both. FK U!
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Once again, just a word of advice for anyone going through a bad phase:
 
The more you think about how bad your life is, the worse it will become for you, because negative thoughts can only bring negative results. Therefore, always treat the current days as the best days of your life, even if they aren't, while also having thinking positively about things that are gonna happen to you.
 
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#32

Posted 28 May 2014 - 07:09 PM

I'm not happy but I'm not sad.

 

I need motivation and a passion. :(


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Posted 28 May 2014 - 07:54 PM

Run-time error '53': file not found (happiness.dll)


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Posted 28 May 2014 - 07:59 PM

I've been happier than I was back last summer I'll tell you that. 

 

I had a big issue last week that brought me down the most in my life so far but I managed to get back up again, tomorrow I have a huge issue I'm gonna be dealing with irl which may or may not affect my future.. and if it goes wrong

this might be my last day here for a while.

 

But sh*t, I'm happy anyway.


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Posted 28 May 2014 - 08:13 PM

I was but it's taken a turn for the worst recently. I'm stressed over one of my class's grades and the teacher in that class is so corrupt and ridiculous that not even the administration knows what to do. On top of that, life out of school is getting stale and boring.

Summer is rapidly approaching yet I feel like this? How sh*tty.
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Posted 28 May 2014 - 08:37 PM

yeah.

everything is going pretty good lately.

 

I guess anything could change but I'm awfully happy right now.


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Posted 28 May 2014 - 08:46 PM Edited by kipakolonyasi, 28 May 2014 - 08:49 PM.

I'M OK. 

 

BTW OP how does being black make it worse? (curious)


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Posted 28 May 2014 - 08:48 PM

GTAForums changed my life. I am not happy at all.

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Posted 28 May 2014 - 08:52 PM

I agree with Mirai Nikki. The anime version of Overly attached girlfriend.  :lol:

 

They're nothing alike...


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Posted 28 May 2014 - 09:05 PM

Happier than I've been in a long time. My point of reference, of course, is the void that was most of last year; by February, I'd hit an all time low and couldn't see a way forward. The obvious way out was one I'm not going to detail here at the risk of sounding melodramatic. And for years, things had been building towards this, until I finally hit my lowest and actively started seeking help. 

 

Then, after a much needed period of working on myself and my life, things started to improve. And it had a lot to do with the way I was looking at things, as much as circumstance; so, most of my satisfaction comes from my day job, which I love, I only wish I could make it into more of a career. For the first time in my life, I'm comfortable with my appearance. Sure, I'm prone to normal things, break outs, weight gain, wrinkles (when did they start to happen?), but I'm not in that head space where I'm looking at myself and wondering why I look the way I look. I'm surrounding myself with people who make me feel better about myself, not worse. And I'm starting to believe that I'm competent, confident, and that I have something to offer the world. That's the important part - I'm not looking at myself as a helpless burden on everyone around me.

 

Things at home, sure, they could be better. We're struggling for money, it's getting worse, and that causes all kinds of stress. But ... we've still got a roof over our heads. I'm still lucky enough to have things like food, hot water, a bed, a warm house to go to, and then luxuries like a TV, games console, internet connection, mobile phone contract (they're luxuries, not necessities). We haven't sold the house yet. We have a car.  

 

Or, maybe I've finally snapped and have gotten to that point where I've become oblivious to all the negativity in my life as a matter of self preservation. If only I could have snapped in high school. Then, I wouldn't have spent so many years being miserable. 

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#41

Posted 29 May 2014 - 10:18 AM

I'm not happy but I'm not sad.

 

I need motivation and a passion. :(

 

I feel the same, I remember myself few years back wanting to do everything and being everywhere, but now after some large f*ck ups I sometimes can't even motivate myself to get out of bed. I want to start rebuilding, but the motivation part has always been the big factor, I feel like I don't even enjoy the moment when succeeding in something


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Posted 29 May 2014 - 10:34 AM

 

I agree with Mirai Nikki. The anime version of Overly attached girlfriend.  :lol:

 

They're nothing alike...

Aren't they both 'too' attached to a guy? Sorry for off-topic.


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#43

Posted 29 May 2014 - 10:38 AM

Everytime I feel sad I find happines in video games.


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Posted 29 May 2014 - 11:03 AM

You might be sad and detached from everyone. But it is your choice and no one wants you to be like that. You will be grateful for what you have when you see this pictures:
 
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I can't stand this kind of comments. So just because I'm not paraplegic or a starving child in Africa I must be happy with my life and cheering up?
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Posted 29 May 2014 - 11:13 AM Edited by OdysseyVoyager, 29 May 2014 - 02:24 PM.

Don't remember the last time i truly smiled,you know the kind of smile that denotes happiness....i have just started finding everything around me fake...


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Posted 29 May 2014 - 12:44 PM Edited by LethalDrizzle, 31 May 2014 - 02:51 AM.

I've been miserable for years. I've been told by doctors that I'm severely depressed, I feel completely detached from society and people.

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Posted 29 May 2014 - 12:54 PM

I've been miserable for years. I've been told by doctors that I'm severely depressed, I feel completely detached from society and people generally, I spend most of my time on my own and my two kids are the only thing in life that give me any real happiness.

Sounds bad. Reminds me of Louie CK in Louie. He's in the same position as you.

So how does the doctor diagnose someone as severely depressed? What's the test you have to take? Just interested.

Hey at least you have people that make you happy. That's all a human needs at the end of the day.

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Posted 29 May 2014 - 01:49 PM Edited by LethalDrizzle, 29 May 2014 - 01:54 PM.

I've been miserable for years. I've been told by doctors that I'm severely depressed, I feel completely detached from society and people generally, I spend most of my time on my own and my two kids are the only thing in life that give me any real happiness.

Sounds bad. Reminds me of Louie CK in Louie. He's in the same position as you.

So how does the doctor diagnose someone as severely depressed? What's the test you have to take? Just interested.

Hey at least you have people that make you happy. That's all a human needs at the end of the day.
Yeah I'm extremely grateful for having my kids I would have commited suicide years ago if it wasnt for my kids they really keep me going. When the different doctors told me I was severely depressed they came to that conclusion just from talking to me over the years and from my description of my day to day life and from my history and my outlook on life generally.Some of the mental health profesionals I've worked with over the years have given me different types of questionnaires to do with my past and my views on certain aspects of my life and its seems that they came to the conclusion from a combination of factors rather than one definitive test in my particular case.

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Posted 29 May 2014 - 02:10 PM

Nope. Life is all about dissapointment, as a kid you look at the world expecting to be a part of something when you get older, but it just ends up being a desperate hopeless search for a job to pay for a bag of chips, then pouting because people dont really have your back.

 

Thats life, from a negative guy with impossible ambitions 


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Posted 29 May 2014 - 04:05 PM

Just google Tsimf*ckis and you can read the story about him.

You can watch his video on youtube, then you will realize...

 

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Posted 29 May 2014 - 05:12 PM

Short answer: Not really

Long answer: I've had enough


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Posted 29 May 2014 - 05:59 PM

I've been happier than I was back last summer I'll tell you that. 

 

I had a big issue last week that brought me down the most in my life so far but I managed to get back up again, tomorrow I have a huge issue I'm gonna be dealing with irl which may or may not affect my future.. and if it goes wrong

this might be my last day here for a while.

 

But sh*t, I'm happy anyway.

Annnnnnnnd it went wrong, so my answer is no.


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Posted 29 May 2014 - 06:17 PM

If you spend 3 months visiting a hospital with hundreds of sick children, you might change your mind about happiness in life and start to be more thankful for what you got.
 
I'm happy with my life, with my mind and my health. And I hope you get better, OP.

That would depress me even more. As a kid I was very ill cancer f*cking sucks I know what the kids are going through.

As for being happy, I can't say I am. My health is changing again and not for the better I have some tumors that are growing and there is nothing the doctors can do,

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#54

Posted 29 May 2014 - 07:13 PM

We spend our lives seeking for happines while it lies right under our noses, so yeah I am happy and you should be happy too.

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Posted 29 May 2014 - 07:27 PM

 

I've been happier than I was back last summer I'll tell you that. 

 

I had a big issue last week that brought me down the most in my life so far but I managed to get back up again, tomorrow I have a huge issue I'm gonna be dealing with irl which may or may not affect my future.. and if it goes wrong

this might be my last day here for a while.

 

But sh*t, I'm happy anyway.

Annnnnnnnd it went wrong, so my answer is no.

 

So, is it your last day here? :/


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Posted 29 May 2014 - 07:47 PM

I'm brazilian

 

No need to say more.


If you spend 3 months visiting a hospital with hundreds of sick children, you might change your mind about happiness in life and start to be more thankful for what you got.

 

I'm happy with my life, with my mind and my health. And I hope you get better, OP.

Unfortunally that's not how it works..


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Posted 29 May 2014 - 07:48 PM

 

 

I've been happier than I was back last summer I'll tell you that. 

 

I had a big issue last week that brought me down the most in my life so far but I managed to get back up again, tomorrow I have a huge issue I'm gonna be dealing with irl which may or may not affect my future.. and if it goes wrong

this might be my last day here for a while.

 

But sh*t, I'm happy anyway.

Annnnnnnnd it went wrong, so my answer is no.

 

So, is it your last day here? :/

 

Looks like it, I won't really know until I see how the rest of the day goes :(


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Posted 29 May 2014 - 09:38 PM Edited by johnny_zoo, 29 May 2014 - 09:40 PM.

If you spend 3 months visiting a hospital with hundreds of sick children, you might change your mind about happiness in life and start to be more thankful for what you got.
 
I'm happy with my life, with my mind and my health. And I hope you get better, OP.

That would depress me even more. As a kid I was very ill cancer f*cking sucks I know what the kids are going through.

As for being happy, I can't say I am. My health is changing again and not for the better I have some tumors that are growing and there is nothing the doctors can do,
Best thing to do is keep positive as can be.

Miracles can happen so you never know my next door neighbour just moved back into his house a few days ago after being transferred to a hospice for cancer. Everyone thought he would die there but he's back in his home as I type. Still I'll but alive. Main thing.


Haha man this topic is really depressing what have I started here!
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Posted 29 May 2014 - 11:27 PM

I'm brazilian

 

No need to say more.

Uh... no?

 

The fact that you're brazilian does no make you more or less happy. Heck you're brazilian like me! At least leave the stereotypes about our country aside.


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Posted 30 May 2014 - 12:13 AM

No. Humanity will not be happy until the last bureaucrat is hung with the entrails of the last capitalist.





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