Nobody in the general populace gives a f*ck whether these non-heterosexuals can marry or not, only the backwards religious people and the gay pride attention seekers do.
A lot of people care deeply about this issue, not just "gay pride attention seekers" (what a an offensively dismissive characterisation). It's probably the biggest civil rights issue of our time, in case you haven't noticed.
I wish I could ride the moral, high horses like you do, but my opinion is that there are lot more pressing issues in the world than homosexuality, and the rights for gays to marry. Do whatever you want, as far as I'm concerned, religion and whatever the f*ck Jesus said should not decide laws and rights of people today.