I don't understand why anyone wars in a lobby. It's like driving 50 miles to not play the lottery. First, there is no gain. You can kill someone a million times and they will be back in 3.5 seconds, depending on how fast they can press the respawn button. Your opponent never losses and it proves nothing.
If you want to war, set the day for the Playlist, choose your room, your weapons, and deal with it then and there and then call it a day, shake hands and realize it's just a game. Done! Remember, sure even the best team has a day they lose and if you can look cool during defeat you can't ever be defeated.
This way you keep making friends and if you don't you know you don't want them as friends anyway! It's a win/win!
Battling in free roam can prove the same damn thing as playlist events. And there's certainly ways to come out on top, except against the most stubborn and persistent foe.. but let's be honest, those kinds of people won't abide by playlist results either.
There's more than one way to have fun or accomplish things in this game, and that's the beauty of it.
Okay, let me explain how to beat you in free roam. Start > Online > Find New Session... I win.
Don't believe me? Look at the 100s of griever posts on here. It will be the number 1 response because that's what you're doing in free roam. So yes, you're proving you can be a douche bag.
My other options are I can teleport across the map to prove you're an idiot chasing me down. Kill you then start a mission so you can't kill me. Call Lamar while watching you on the television. I can even follow you around off radar or freeze your room so you lose connection after I report you 100 times and last but not least I can call a tank and after killing you 100 times I can go passive and air hump in front of you. Very professional. It appears I've proven a lot.