Great femininity includes high cheekbones, a narrow jawline, big cat eyes, and a thin nose. Toggle the Male/Female slider first, and put it all the way to female. From there, as others have said, use the Activities part of the page to smoothen out her skin's softness. Also, makeup makes the final look. You could try putting her in the natural look first, then adding makeup.
And don't worry about some dudes saying it's weird. They're usually closeted men who are so insecure about their own masculinity that they have to then project their fears about sexual and social norms in the virtual world as well.
Pinnkie Pie, you did an excellent job with the facial structure! Here's mine: