I've been looking for this car for the last 3 days, must've spent 8-10 hours at this alone. And third time seems to be the charm as I got online after work today to continue the search. I hopped on my bike, drove out of the garage to go straight to the golf course. Once there, it looked quite empty, except for 3 cars, one on the left, one on the right and a 3rd almost at the end of the lot. I checked the first 2, no succes. And then, as I aproached the last vehicle, I thought "you gotta be kidding me". There it stood, in all it's glory, finally, "MY" Obey Tailgater. And best of all, I didn't even have to break the window, it was step-in ready, lol. So I raced to my garage to get a free tracker, then went to LSC to pimp it out and insure it.
So, to people still looking for it, you really have to be patient, it'll pop up eventually. And I don't think it matters what you're driving/riding, because I found mine on the bike. Also, I didn't have Simeon's text for it, or at least not that I know, I didn't check, but I didn't see any pop-up. The golf course really seems to be the spot, even if you have to drive to it several times. Oh, and I was playing in an invite only session.