I swear a lot more when:
- I drink
- I play online games
- I do both
But, I don't generally swear at people. I might swear while talking to them, such as: "Sh*t, that guy nearly took me out!". It's more an emphasis thing. "For f*ck sake", is one of my favourite phrases during deathmatch, but I usually switch my mic off for them anyway.
As for the female thing, I couldn't care who I play with. You could be a woman, twelve years old, gay/lesbian, hermaphrodite, half-man/half-unicorn, etc.
swearing is normal, i get that, i do it myself, but i don't swear at people. i try and respect all players. game time is down time. I just think tonight it really got to me. i have fun playing games and I love shooting all the things. i will spend time even punching out the npcs' to skill up my strength,
one mission tonight, a car landed on my car, i guess some glitch when you start. this guy got mad, i got into my car. his friends wait for him, he gets in mine i start to drive, he jumps out i stop then he proceeds to blow out my tires. at the start of a mission mind you. we were all on the same team. and kept calling me bitch. i am like wtf... it was a whole night of this stuff. since launch ( since ps3 players could play) i have seen at the max 10 other female players.
I really do not want to play this solo. but at what i am seeing so far, it looks like i am heading down that road if i dont find a good group of people to play with.