Are you sure it's not a bug? If this is how the new kick system works then it definitely needs to change. Rockstar have repeatedly said that GTA Online will be shaped by the community and that they want people to send them feedback so I suggest everyone take a few minutes in their spare time and send an email to: [email protected]
I'm positive, unfortunately.
Let's all send an email to R* telling them how much they f**ked up such a simple idea.