Posted 29 May 2013 - 07:23 AM
I don't really get the eagerness everyone has to lose their virginity. I don't get why you'd do it with someone you don't care about. When I lose mine, I want it to be with that special someone, that girl you're crazy about and I'd never forget, not just some sh*tty one night stand or something.
Even then, I don't I'd even have sex even if I was in love with her. Its like when doing stuff with a girl, its like you're objectifying their bodies and just using them for your own personal sexual needs, at least for me anyway. Whenever I'm with a girl I'm crazy about, I don't like to do more than hold her hand.
I think I would be more comfortable if I was having sex with someone I hated to be honest, it would feel more right to objectify them and just use them for my own desires, if that makes sense. Then I could smear cum over their face and be real rough with her and say I'm into that sort of thing, and they'd be cool with it. That's how I'd do it.