|QUOTE (AceRay @ Wednesday, Jul 10 2013, 20:30)|
|QUOTE (Mr.Mordecai @ Wednesday, Jul 10 2013, 22:08)|
| Hmm, Is it gay/weird to either wait for marriage/the person you loved? I been thinking about it lately. |
Not at all, in fact I'm planning on staying a virgin till marriage myself. I want it to be really special. I already masturbate almost everyday so I'm already set in terms of right now.
I wouldn't put it on too high of a pedestal personally, because you're going to get let down considering you are going to be pretty bad at it when it's your first time and your wife probably won't enjoy it all that much, and also that sex gets better the more you do it, waiting until marriage for it is not that great of an idea, have sex when you're young before your sex drive dies down.
Waiting for the right person is one thing, waiting all the way until marriage is another, and it's also pointless, If you find the right person, and you've been going out for a while I think it would be just as "special" to do it with them before marriage.
Also bear in mind that Sex can play a big factor in finding love, because once you have sex with someone, something happens in your brain which makes you more attracted to them, so you holding off could potentially damage your relationship before it has time to blossom.
One other thing, most girls want sex, good luck finding someone willing to wait who isn't religious, I do know one chick and she's actually pretty hot who used to say she'd wait until marriage, I dunno how that's going for her though because I don't see her often, she might have dropped religion considering how smart and sciency she is, also I won't ask because that's not something you outright ask when you're a "mature person" and you don't see someone often haha, but yeah, finding someone who will also wait could be pretty damn difficult because Australia is pretty secular these days, jussayin.