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[DemonKing]

ok so theres this guy who i used to live over the road from. we used to be good friends when we first met.

but he gradually became a douche. first off he started trying to shove his rap and hip hop sh*t down my throat telling me to go out and buy snoop dogg CD's i wouldn't as i am a avid metal fan.

secondley the guy is a compulsive liar or something he told me he had like 6 girlfriends and none of them knew he was cheating on them (which i did express the obvious moral properties of that act).in fact he had no GF's at all one day we were in town he said hey thats my EX so i asked her and she said "i dont even know that guy" i turned round he had run off.

as well as being a constant pest he used to prank phone me when i was freaking relaxing and reading a book, and one day he woke me up at 7 just to ask me if he could talk to me later (he knocked on my bedroom window). i dont like going to his house as his sister is a real bitch (and i mean a real bitch).

and then he decides the jump the music genre from rap to metal and starts trying to hang out with me and my mates. the worst part was he would twist me mates words round to make it sound like they were offending me. and they weren't at all.

but you see he has recently apologized for his actions but i dont even know if i should be his mate again. i mean he has helped me out sometimes given me lifts to places when i couldn't get there he has given some free sh*t and he was sometimes good to hang round with. so should accept him into my group again or tell him to piss off?

[SagaciousKJB]

Start listening to rap and see what he does...


In all seriousness, if he's apologized, what's the problem? What's the problem anyway, can't you just tell him to f*ck off if you don't like him?

[-slash]

Seriously, what is it with people coming on here and basically saying, "This guy/girl/foreign object is a real proper c*nt to me. Should I stay their friend Y/N?"

I don't know why it needs to be asked. If someone pisses you off, they piss you off, stop hanging out with them. It's a very simple solution to a simple problem.

[DemonKing]

yeah i could well do that but he would probably be a whiny bitch for the rest of my life. none of my friends like him but i feel a ounce of sympathy for him if i tell him to piss off he will bitch forever to his family and i dont wanna be in some situation with them.

[Typhus]

Listen, I had a friend EXACTLY like that. Compulsive liar, fat, annoying, morally unrestrained. Now, you cannot stay friends with someone like that. Either he'll keep lying to you or you'll give him a beating which, trust me, is not as satisfying as it sounds. Sling him to the side. This guy is a liar. Now, what does it make you if you hang out with a liar just because he gives you stuff? It makes you weak. It makes you his whore and I know that this rat ain't a pimp. So get rid of him. Because otherwise the resentment will keep building and building until you lose it or he has turned your current friends against you. trust me, these types may be pathetic but they have a talent for disruption. Get rid of him and make sure your real friends know not to believe a word that comes out of his mouth.

[DemonKing]

i dont give a sh*t about him really. but the sh*t will hit the fan if tell him to piss off the guy is a whiny bitch and his parents well to say the least they wont be happy.

[Guybrush Threepwood]

QUOTE (demonking @ Dec 10 2007, 10:14)

...and his parents well to say the least they wont be happy.

And they happen to be your parents and/or legal guardians?
Cause, you know, otherwise they can f*ck right off too. It's pretty easy, you say 'f*ck off'.

[DemonKing]

ok so im guessing the majority is to toss him aside.

[Typhus]

QUOTE (demonking @ Dec 10 2007, 09:14)

i dont give a sh*t about him really. but the sh*t will hit the fan if tell him to piss off the guy is a whiny bitch and his parents well to say the least they wont be happy.

Sounds like you are looking for excuses to keep him around. Don't be so weak. Just do what you know to be right. Namely getting rid of someone you find repulsive.

[DemonKing]

QUOTE (Typhus @ Dec 10 2007, 09:25)

QUOTE (demonking @ Dec 10 2007, 09:14) i dont give a sh*t about him really. but the sh*t will hit the fan if tell him to piss off the guy is a whiny bitch and his parents well to say the least they wont be happy. Sounds like you are looking for excuses to keep him around. Don't be so weak. Just do what you know to be right. Namely getting rid of someone you find repulsive.

no im not looking for a excuse i was stating a side effect. but i don't worry i will tell him tomorrow

[Girish]

You know him better than us. If you feel that this guy is worth all the sh*t, stick with him. If not, then just let it go. If he retaliates or something, you'll know he's not your type and definitely not worthy of being a friend.
A true friend respects you for what you are.

[G twenty-nine]

Leave him and get a new bf.

[The Yokel]

GTA Forums is not a legit health institution or therapy session for disoriented teenagers. If you have a problem get a shrink

[ceedot]

Do what you feel is right.

[DemonKing]

why would i need to go and see a shrink its not effecting mentally. @ g-twenty-nine im not gay.thanks to girishb, ceedot and anyone else that made a useful comment.

[Iminicus]

I was gonna suggest Viagra for your little problem, but apparently it is a guy you have a problem with. So, pop a couple Viagra into his Milo or chocolate milk and enjoy houses of boner popping fun.

Seriously, do the Viagra thing and then kick him in the cock and video it so we can laugh at him.

If you dislike him so much just kick him in the cock and sex his sister. Or better yet, kick him in the cock and I'll sex his sister. Yeah, I like option 2 better.

If his 'parents' are going to be such a problem use more Viagra. Give a couple to his dad and you won't have to worry about the for a couple minutes maybe even hours.

So in conclusion. I suggest Viagra to him and his dad. Cock kicking to him and me sexing his sister.

[DemonKing]

sounds like a hell of a load of viagra

[Iminicus]

You can never have enough Viagra for important sh*t like this. Just trust me on this.

[Im Rick James B**ch!]

QUOTE (girishb @ Dec 10 2007, 19:38)

You know him better than us.

This is all that really ever needs to be said about these sort of threads. How the f*ck are we supposed to understand every detail of the situation in your short post? We cant, only you are aware of the complexities of the situation, so have some independence an make your own decisions.

[Canofceleri]

Just do what you gotta do, man. I have a friend that lies and has several douchey qualities, but he's not a bad guy all around... he's fun to hang out with sometimes. But it's nice when you have those really close friends that are on your level too, there's a difference.

[Voodoo]

Remind me never to piss off Iminicus.

Sounds like if you don't just get rid of this guy, he'll make you sad in the end.

From the DSM IV:

QUOTE

Borderline Personality Disorder A pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-image, and affects, and marked impulsivity beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:   1. frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.     2. a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.   3. identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.   4. impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).   5. recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating behavior   6. affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually    lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days).   7. chronic feelings of emptiness   8. inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights)   9. transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms

Any one of these is reason enough to kick him to the curb.

[--supea--]

Really, don't make a topic aboutTHAT small thing, please!

Well I try be helpful: Just be with him like once a week or something,
be with your other friends (hope you have) and so on... Did you know that
everyone's on their own way assholes? but that's
how the world goes, nobody's perfect. Both live like you live, what
music he listens doesn't make him badder than you... You get new visions
about world and yeh, being with different people is always good.
meh but if he isn't really leaving you alone and doing stupid sh*t, don't be with him...

Man, got nothing else to add... haha well at least I learn some english here

[drozle]

QUOTE

He gives me some fresh sh*t

. ... WTF it means?"he gives me some fresh sh*t" Why do you need sh*t?Eating?you better expleain me what itr means...

[Guybrush Threepwood]

QUOTE (--supea-- @ Dec 10 2007, 15:31)

Man, got nothing else to add... haha well at least I learn some english here

I can safely say that the english you learn here is next to worthless.
Try one of those language courses that has people smiling on the front of the package. If they're happy about learning, then so should you.

[--supea--]

QUOTE (Guybrush_Threepwood @ Dec 10 2007, 16:41)

QUOTE (--supea-- @ Dec 10 2007, 15:31) Man, got nothing else to add... haha well at least I learn some english here I can safely say that the english you learn here is next to worthless. Try one of those language courses that has people smiling on the front of the package. If they're happy about learning, then so should you.

Well, I'm still at school and the English lessons sucks, I learn nothing. Actually
Internet has helped me very much, I never have to read to English Exams and so
but I wanna improve my English so I wouldn't separate from you Aussies, Americans and Uk people... or anyone...

Haha sure I'll be happy if they are

[DemonKing]

QUOTE (drozle @ Dec 10 2007, 14:36)

QUOTE He gives me some fresh sh*t . ... WTF it means?"he gives me some fresh sh*t" Why do you need sh*t?Eating?you better expleain me what itr means...

i meant free stuff

[HolyGrenadeFrenzy]

QUOTE (VoodooSlumlord @ Dec 10 2007, 09:25)

Remind me never to piss off Iminicus.

Yeah, that is a felony waiting to happen.

"The Iminicus Treatment for the D*ck in your life!" would be a great slogan.

But sounds like the guy needs some social skills in a bad way.

It really depends on how obligated you feel to assist, now doesn't it?

[tommy vs. claude]

I love it how people treat GTAForums as their own forum for advice.

On topic: Rape every member of his family, that'll tech him.

[flicko]

QUOTE (VoodooSlumlord @ Dec 10 2007, 14:25)

Remind me never to piss off Iminicus.

Never piss off Iminicus.

[HolyGrenadeFrenzy]

QUOTE (tommy vs. claude @ Dec 10 2007, 16:55)

I love it how people treat GTAForums as their own forum for advice. On topic: Rape every member of his family, that'll tech him.

That's another felony waiting to happen to you if you do and then after you are caught get put with the real bad boys that will gladly return the favor.